January is made for Aries, so this is the perfect time to show your confidence and inner sparkle to manifest love. Why is this month so perfect for Aries romance and love? Because January is a ‘1 month’ in Numerology, and Aries is also ‘number 1’ (quite literally!) as the first sign of the Zodiac. 

Let’s look at what you can do to attract your sought-after Aries.

How To Attract An Aries Man In January 2021

1. Be Bold & Shine!

The key qualities and personality traits for Aries are self-assurance, confidence, and self-leadership. Aries looks for this in a mate too. He is deeply attracted to confidence and a healthy sense of self-esteem, and these needs of his are lit up due to it being the first month of the year. 

We’ve also just come from a New Moon in Sagittarius in December, meaning that your man (or potential man) is already feeling inspired and on a high. Sagittarius energy is very compatible with his, which signifies an increased sense of self-confidence and self-worth. 

His leadership qualities are strong at this time.

2. Flirt & Be Playful

Flirting is a must!! Aries is incredibly friendly and playful, so flirting and showing your vitality and zest for life are major turn-ons. In light of the recent New Moon in fiery Sag he will be full with life and energy, passion and vitality, too. 

There is a lot of heavy energy in the world at this time, although we are coming into a new and brighter collective space. In saying this, Aries men are very positive (even when they’re feeling down!). They need to remain positive and optimistic to stay focused and healthy. 

One of the best ways to release tension is to play, connect with your inner child. Finding ways to lighten the mood and express yourself artistically, in front of him or with him, will win his heart. Be inspiring and charismatic. Be playful and creative.  

3. Show Your Intelligence

The Aries man is innovative and intelligent and he looks for the same in a partner. The Numerology of the month (1: leadership, intellect and confidence) makes him even more attracted to your wit and intellect. He needs someone who can engage in long and meaningful conversations. Yes, he loves laughter and banter, lighthearted humor and a sense of fun; but he also needs to be mentally stimulated.

2021 is the year of the ox too. Although it is not quite the year of the ox yet, with the Chinese lunar ox year beginning on February 12th, there is always a buildup of the energies in the month prior. This means that the ox’s qualities of intelligence, hard-work, and a determined and ambitious nature can be applied to see results. 

All in all, don’t be afraid to showcase your qualifications, skill set and experience. Achievement and prestige are valued by the Aries sun sign, they may not want a literal show-off or know it all (it would take them out of the spotlight!) but you can be self-expressive and confident in your own right.

4. Independence & Self-Autonomy Are Key

Expanding on, Aries men love women who are highly independent. This is amplified more due to it being a number one month. Wishy-washiness and too much going with the flow is extremely off-putting. You’d also be wise to learn or result your memory with astrology – for example, the key things to be aware of in terms of compatibility.

Generally speaking, water signs are least compatible with this strong-willed and hot-headed Aries. If you’re a Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces you may feel disempowered with this guy, or like you have to put on a show and be something you’re not. 

This may be fine to begin with, but you should stay true to yourself. Of course, astrology is multi-dimensional, which means that even if your sun sign is water you may still have a lot of fire and air in your natal (birth chart). 

Aries is primarily attracted to fire and air energy. Thus, being a fire or air sign means you can tune into your key qualities and strengths for success. Aries, Leo and Sagittarius women have an advantage this month, just as Gemini, Libra and Aquarius women do too. 

Quite simply, don’t be over emotional! Your Aries man wants fire, passion and boldness; inspiration, energy and to be intellectually stimulated. As much as he may find a submissive and super-sensual water or earth sign irresistible, this connection may not have the longevity that you both desire.

5. Show You Have Staying Power

Aries sign likes his independence but he still craves commitment and intimacy. This is enhanced due to Venus being Capricorn throughout January. Obviously, you don’t want to scare him away or be too eager, but his openness to long-term commitment will be stronger than usual this month.

Capricorn is an earth sign with the qualities of security, physical foundations (‘roots’), and a modest, down-to-earth, and practical approach to life. Venus in Capricorn allows your potential Aries mate to appreciate the ‘little things;’ affection, compliments, intimacy, and chilling with physical and material comforts. 

Essentially, what we’re suggesting is to drop hints. Be honest and sincere too as he will be able to sense superficiality. Show him how much you love to love and that you’re not just in it for a fling (unless, of course, he’s telling you or you’re sensing the vibe that he really does just want a fling!). 

Read next: 5 Tips for a Successful Date With an Aries Man

Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits

Venus is in Capricorn for the first three months of the year, making this Aries man a lot more grounded and modest in his affections and sexuality. Passion is met with intelligence and independence can be balanced with commitment and open vulnerability. 

Remember that this man is quite literally ‘the Child’ of the Zodiac. He is the first and likes to be number one, if he feels he’s just an option he will either pull away and withdraw all interest, or play along – he does like a good chase. Aries men are competitive. Be intuitive!

Aries men need high energy, passion, and a sense of devotion. But they can be a bit of an enigma. They’re highly independent and don’t like clinginess, yet they also need affection and attention simultaneously. The key to attracting this guy, therefore, is to show your wild side with restraint. 

Give a bit of yourself away while holding back a little. Be fun and flirty whilst being intelligent and sophisticated. And be sure to purchase our in-depth and comprehensive guide on the Aries man if you want to see deep into his fiery soul…

And let me know which of these tips you found most helpful to score your Aries guy. The comments are totally anonymous!

Wishing you love and light on your journey.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach