Aries Man Predictions For October 2023

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Hello Sweethearts and welcome to the exciting October reading for Aries Man!

There’s an awful lot going on for Aries Man and his relationships this month and therefore you have a lot to work on together, the planets are chopping and changing signs and there’s also a lot of intensity as Pluto goes direct in Capricorn for the last time in our lifetimes.

This is an excellent month for a reboot in terms of the emotional side of your relationship, you as his partner are much more important to him than usual, he’s more affected by your moods and he’s eager for company and companionship.

This is not a month when he likes to be alone, however, he can be slightly more jealous and possessive so you have to be slightly more aware of your actions as you can easily trigger him. Any interactions he has with other people are likely to be more emotional and he’s not that objective, so he’s quick to shoot from the hip.

Try to stay calm and help him keep an even keel.

Mercury enters Libra – 6th October

This represents a perfect time for you guys to get more clarity, to explain yourselves to each other, and to think and plan together. He likes to brainstorm and he’s eager to get your feedback, so it’s important not to be vague. When he wants to have discussions give him your genuine opinions, be straightforward in your communications, and take this opportunity to find out what he’s thinking because he’s quite expressive, and the more you communicate the more you’ll get both closure and more understanding of each other.

This is also a good time to discuss any recent difficulties that may have reared their head in terms of your intimate relationship because as Mercury goes into Libra he is more able to assess situations with an open mind.

Venus enters Libra – 10th October

Well I said relationships were an important sphere of this month and a case in point is Venus, which rules his solar seventh house, entering Libra. His ego forces are more in tune at this time and he’s able to create a proper balance between himself and other people he meets, and especially you his partner, which makes it possible to establish more harmony in the relationship.

He’s slightly more geared to teamwork, he expresses affection more easily and if you are dating it’s more likely that he will make his feelings clear to you. He’ll want to talk about commitment, increasing the frequency of date nights and he generally wants to be around you more doing fun and entertaining things.

This is an excellent time in marriages for conflict resolution, and so even if things have been difficult, this is a great time to come together again and use a bit of forgiveness, some contrition and lots can be achieved.

Pluto direct in Capricorn – 11th October

This is an opportunity for him to achieve success and self-realisation, he’s more ambitious and he has a need to seize control of his future and to dominate the theme.

Sometimes he can be quite ruthless and hard-headed and this is a wonderful time for him to tackle any difficult problems particularly to do with moving ahead in his career or achieving more career certainty and security.

Mars enters Scorpio – 13th October

This is a rather interesting transit and the effects can be subtle or they can be very blatant and it’s hard to say which way it will go, he’s more ego-driven, he has a lot of courage and determination but sometimes he goes after things like a bull at a gate.

This is certainly a time when he can begin to shift the dial in terms of any issues or problems that he has to deal with, however, as they say the devil may makes work for idle hands and sometimes he almost creates a crisis or a problem where there is none simply because he needs to vent or get his teeth into something.

The more he suppresses anger and feelings, the more volatile and unpredictable he can be now, but if he develops a strong focus, he can put his mind to it and achieve great results.

This is certainly a time when you an Aries Man may lock horns over issues of a financial matter and you may have different priorities about how you think money should be spent, the key is to stay calm and rational even if you disagree and leave the door open for more conversation, so don’t rush into anything financially right now.

Mercury enters Scorpio – 23rd October

This is a time when you guys are able to have calm and rational discussions over money, but it’s also a time in relationships where it’s important to tackle difficult issues and taboo subjects, you should both be more willing to lower your boundaries and be honest even if there’s a potential for conflict.

This particular phase is conducive for him to be pondering, it’s a good time for analysis, so this could be ripe for problem-solving and sorting through money, debt and tax affairs.

He’s stimulated by sexual innuendo, so this is a good time for some spicy conversations to do with sex because his arousal is tried to a little bit of a mystery as he loves anything that’s unknown and esoteric right now, so don’t be too bland and too predictable, keep him guessing!

Theme of the Month: This is an excellent time for new relationship goals, for rebooting your communication and for showing each other warmth and feeling. This is not a time to take your relationship with him for granted, it needs extra work, but at the same time you should see dividends. This is an excellent time for him to enter a new relationship or a new stage of the relationship so whatever you do push the envelope in your love lives.

Do: The new moon phase extends from the 14th of October to the 30th, this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective and being proactive.

An excellent time for political and group activities. Networking and new professional and social friendships are favored. It’s very important for Aries Man to work on the friendship basis and understanding in his new relationships, and from that he gains a lot of confidence.

Avoid:

Conflict over financial matters should be avoided. Large scale projects with major responsibilities need careful consideration. A time for wise leadership and foresight. Detailed planning and research is needed. Property matters require a lot of investigation.

Emotional matters within the home and family are more complex than first imagined and require patience.

Hard work and perseverance are necessary to achieve health, sports and career goals.

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Week 1 – Hearts are stirred

The key this week is love and romance, he’s feeling a lot more amorous, he’s more likely to be relaxed and he’s ready to have his imagination stimulated. This is a wonderful time for going to the movies, the theatre and get away from the drudgery of the ‘same old same old’.

This is also wonderful for you couples who enjoy the arts in general and it may be a great time to go to galleries, wine tasting events or spa weekends where you simply allow yourself to fantasize and drift away from routine.

This is definitely not a good time for nagging, cajoling or drama, he is ready to chill and enjoy himself, so put on the back burner any chore that’s very physically intensive and don’t start any major new diets or gym regimes this week as this is a time to spoil and reward yourselves.

Week 2 – ‘The closer you get to the fire the more you get burned’

With Mars in Libra square Pluto in Capricorn, this is a time when you and Aries Man may lock horns. If there’s recently been an impasse or some hurt feelings that have been suppressed, it can bubble to the surface now and things in relationships can be quite explosive.

On other hand, some conflict, although it creates upheaval, can be incredibly creative and out of it may come a fresh new chapter. So it’s important not to overreact to anything right now, recognise the opportunity for honesty.

This is a time when you both are likely to react to each other’s energy in a negative way, the whole emotional atmosphere is more volatile and it’s not easy to take a step back. This is a time when ‘the closer you get to the fire the more you get burned’, but on the other hand if your relationship has felt a little bit bland, this is a time when the feelings start to come to the surface again and that’s great because you will realize that you care a lot about each other and you may just expressing it in the wrong way. So keep working at your relationship and be positive about the progress.

It’s really important to re-examine your relationship and possibly rethink your duties and obligations to each other because these aspects of love occasionally need to be readjusted to reflect changes in both your career, health or life priorities.

Week 3 – Horns of a Dilemma

This particular week is a test of his patience, now you know with Aries, patience is generally not his strong point and he can become a little bit restless when things aren’t going according to plan, but it’s very important to remind him that sometimes things can only move as quickly as they can go, and it’s important for him not to burn his bridges with other people by forcing the pace or breaking good relationships just because he wants to strike out on his own.

This is an important time for a little bit of decision-making, in many cases you an Aries Man will be on the horns of the dilemma and you may even feel backed into a corner, but this is an amazing time to understand better what’s in your control and what isn’t, so as a couple you need to be focusing on the things that you can do and not worrying too much about what is inevitable or out of your control. So focus is really important, as is teamwork, you both also need to be tolerant of each other’s points of view and to allow time for debate. What’s key right now however is not rushing to judgment or trying to cross your bridges before you come to them, it’s all about managing things: everything in its time.

In new relationships, this time is a steep learning curve between you and Aries Man, you may find out some things about him you aren’t quite comfortable with but as in all relationships, it’s an adventure.

Week 4 – Expect the Unexpected

Money issues come to the fore this week and it can be a time when you guys feel under pressure and you have to work harder to actualize your plans. It’s kinda a ‘last minute.com’ type of week where things have been left to the last minute and it’s all a real rush, however, the adrenaline levels are higher and Aries Man tends to give of his best in that particular situation.

So what’s really important now is working hard, working with focus and also being courageous and not scared to try something new.

In many cases, it’s novel solutions and approaches that are needed and it’s very important for you to relax him. In terms of intimacy and affection, he’s quite strung up and he can even feel a little bit on edge, so romance is a little bit more difficult unless you guys can find a space where you can eat, chill, relax, and let the romantic juices flow.

This is not a good week to plan anything, it’s a time when you expect the unexpected, which can actually put quite exciting in love.

Closing Thoughts

This should be an action-packed month in terms of romance, love and intimacy, it’s also a time when you can have a big effect on your Aries Man so it’s vital for you to be very self-aware and also self-controlled because by behaving in a supportive way, encouraging debate and working hard on relationship goals you can really reinforce the relationship.

Even if your relationship with Aries Man has been tenuous or you’ve just begun dating, being someone who he can trust, who gives him advice and helps him come to some good decisions is important, but what you’ve got to be is a little bit open-minded because he can be a little bit stressful to be around at times this month.

If this hasn’t quenched your thirst, you know where to find me, same place, as always.

Wishing you love and luck with your Aries Man,

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.