You’ve probably landed here because there is a special Aries man on your mind, but aren’t sure what an Aries man likes and dislikes in a woman? Boy, do I understand why! These guys are something else!
An Aries man is like no other and he definitely has his preferences, his likes and dislikes in a woman are quite important to him. He can be quite particular about who he is dating. An Aries man wants his woman to be just perfect for him.
So what does an Aries man want in a woman? What would be an Aries man dream woman? If you are curious to find out more about what an Aries man likes and dislikes, then keep on reading! You’re definitely going to learn a thing or two.
Aries Man Likes And Dislikes — In General
An Aries man is quite the guy. He is passionate, forthright, and very straightforward. He is impulsive, spontaneous, and very adventurous. He needs to be with someone who can keep up with him and keep things in the relationship exciting.
He is drawn to women who are independent and free-spirited. He needs a woman who is open-minded and very adventurous. It is important that his lady has an element of spontaneity in her personality.
It is so important for an Aries man to feel stimulated and excited because he tends to get a little restless if the relationship starts getting a little boring and too domestic.
He really dislikes it when women are closed-minded and dogmatic in their thinking. He also doesn’t like it when a woman tries to control him by telling him what to do.
What Does An Aries Man Like In A Woman? (List Of Female Traits That Make Him Weak In The Knees)
There are some definite qualities Aries men like in women. From the way they dress to the way they treat him, to the way she is in bed. Here is a list of things an Aries man finds irresistible:
1. A Woman Who Is Fit
Ladies, put that candy bar down and read this! Aries men tend to gravitate toward women who have physically fit bodies. It lets him know that she is active and is involved in working out or in some sort of sports.
He prefers a woman that will keep up with him on a physical level. He won’t easily be drawn into too thin women or larger-sized women. There are exceptions to every rule but for the most part; he wants an athletically inclined woman.
He also has a fascination with large breasts. So being in great shape and having a stack on your chest will definitely get his attention. If you do not; he’s more concerned with your whole physique and not just the rack.
Again, he is sort of picky when it comes to women’s bodies. When he wants to settle down with a woman he may start a family with; he wants to be sure she’s healthy and will bare beautiful healthy children.
It’s the alpha male thing kicking in here. He’s here to breed and the woman is here to help him accomplish this. He will be selective to make sure his children are healthy and gorgeous.
Therefore he chooses a woman who looks like this. Hair color, eyes, and other minor things don’t really play a role here for him. Not to say he won’t notice but; he is more into the body as a whole.
2. A Woman Who Is Smart
He not only wants a physically fit woman but he wants a woman who has a beautiful brain as well. If you aren’t smart then what is the point? That’s how he thinks of it.
He likes to discuss many intellectual things in life. He wants to be with someone who will take part in these conversations if not provide new insight or information.
Being brainy and witty will definitely turn the man on. Using this and carrying yourself well will make him want to keep you in his life for as long as he possibly can; which is amazing.
You’ll need to show him that you know what you’re talking about. Talk about things you’ve studied or accomplished in your life. You don’t need to come off as cocky though.
Aries is cocky enough typically and if you are both that way; you may rub each other the wrong way. Be careful to be humble with the information that you share with him.
He doesn’t want to look like lesser of a man in anyone’s eyes so you definitely shouldn’t try to “show him up” in front of anyone. Even if you know the right answers; let him answer.
Remember what is important and what is or isn’t right to battle over. Pick your priorities. If he says something you know isn’t right in front of others; wait until later to tell him.
Correcting him will absolutely embarrass him and piss him off so watch out!
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3. A Woman Who Gives Him Freedom
Ok, this is where things can get weird. Aries men want to be with a woman but they’ll also still want to flirt and they will want free time to themselves when possible.
That doesn’t mean he wants to cheat. It just means that sometimes, he wants to be utterly alone or with friends. He will flirt though as he’s born to do it. This may make you feel inferior.
If you really love him or care for him though; you will know for sure if he’s being loyal or if he’s giving you a load of crap. Watch his actions. They speak louder than any of his words ever can.
When there is trust there; you should feel alright with him going to be alone or with him spending time with the guys. Know that even if he stares at a hot waitress, he’s not going to go to bed with her.
Of course, this only applies if he’s committed to you. You had better be sure it’s not a “friends with benefits” type of situation he has with you. Aries sometimes assumes that it’s ok to do this and that you’ll be ok with it as well.
Be clear from the get-go that you are NOT interested in that type of arrangement. Once you clear the air, you know what you’re working with. Again, when the trust is there; giving him space should be no big deal.
4 Things An Aries Man Really Doesn’t Tolerate In A Woman
There are a couple of non-negotiables an Aries man has when it comes to dating. When he notices this behaviour in a woman, he might consider these things to be red flags.
This is the kind of behaviour an Aries man will stay away from because he knows he can’t compromise on himself and what he wants in his relationships.
1. A Woman Who Is Fake Or Phony
Aries men like all-natural women who are strong but feminine at the same time. He typically doesn’t like women who at any moment will backstab or gossip about other women. This would represent weakness and disingenuous motives.
He wants you to be open, honest, and someone he can count on. Being catty will not win you any favors with the Aries man. He wants integrity and beauty in a woman.
By beauty, I mean heart and soul; not just your looks. If you like to gossip; you may not want to ever do it around him. He won’t take well to it and will see you in a different light.
Be yourself and be a wonderful woman he feels he can trust in as well as rely on when he needs you.
2. A Woman Who Is Demanding
This IS an Aries man we’re talking about. That means you cannot force or pressure them to do anything. They do not operate that way. So if you try to push him into a commitment or anything else; he will tell you he’s done.
Yes, he will actually tell you what he thinks and what he feels. It’s best if you let him determine his own timeframe and give him the space to do it in. Pushing only leads to him pushing back.
The last thing you want to do is give your Aries many any sort of ultimatum. That will for sure backfire on you. He doesn’t do demands and will likely give you your walking papers if you do.
3. A Woman Who Criticizes Him
This man wants to be loved and adored for the entire splendor that he is. He isn’t one that has a cool temper. Be careful how you talk to him. If you want him to do something differently; just ask calmly.
If you cut him up into pieces (or try to); he will give you your walking papers. I cannot express this enough; this isn’t the man you want to push or be catty with as he will push back and likely push you right out the door.
Perhaps if you want to make a suggestion nicely of how something may work better; he may listen to you. However; if you tell him rudely how the way he’s doing it is wrong; he will snap.
4. A Woman Who Is Lazy
The Aries man is a very busy guy typically. That means that he wants a partner who is his equal. He wants a woman who is driven and has passionate life goals. If you do not; you may want to find another partner.
Aries men are not very tolerant of women who once they’ve landed him; turn into the lay on the couch all day and watch television type of woman. It’s not that you can never relax; it’s more that there is a time and place for everything.
Seeing you work toward your goals and THEN relaxing is perfectly acceptable. Being lazy and being complacent simply doesn’t fly with the Aries man.
What An Aries Man Secretly Looks For In A Woman
An Aries man will happily be the eternal bachelor if he ever got the choice. This is a man who knows he deserves the best of the best in life. He wants to come out on top in everything, and won’t settle for anything less, and this includes his relationships.
An Aries man will never say no to a fling or a relationship with a woman he finds attractive, but this doesn’t always mean an Aries man is going to settle down with her. The woman an Aries man is going to marry has to be exquisite.
A woman an Aries man will gladly marry is someone who ticks all of his boxes. She needs to be fit, ambitious, independent, loving, open, honest, and very loyal. Basically, an Aries man is looking for a Unicorn.
There are many women an Aries man finds attractive and will happily date or sleep with. But when he meets the woman who fulfills all of his needs, he will settle down with her.
1. She Has To Have An Active Lifestyle
The Aries man is often involved in a variety of activities. He may like sports, play sports, gym workouts, or other varieties of physical fun. I say fun because he rather enjoys getting a good workout in some way.
As such; he’s looking for a woman who is also very active and can actually keep up with him. A couch potato isn’t what an Aries man is looking for. There are the rare Aries men that may be that way but only if their moon dictates it.
Otherwise, Aries men are filled with energy and ready to get after the next exciting endeavor. He’s always doing something as he doesn’t really like to be still or bored.
He isn’t terrified of boredom like the Gemini guy is but he still doesn’t like it. He’d rather be doing something physically enriching in his life. He may actually have a job/career that requires physical endurance.
This type of job would be like a Police Man, Fireman, or some other really exciting job that gets his adrenaline pumping and allows him to flex his physical abilities. Risky jobs are what he likes.
2. She Has To Be Independent
While Aries men can at times be possessive and jealous; he still wants a woman who has her own life. He likes to sometimes spend some time alone. To get this alone time; he’ll need a partner that will have her own activities.
When he starts to get serious about a woman; he’ll often want to spend more and more time with her. This will take away from some of his free time as well as hers. However; if both partners are alright with this; it works out well.
If the two of them are still trying to get to know each other though; he’ll expect that she goes and does her own thing with her own friends while he does his thing with his friends.
Finding his woman sitting around doing nothing will make him question whether or not she’s the right one. Active and doing her own thing is what will turn him on and make him want to be with her.
So if you are typically a recluse and don’t really do a whole lot; Aries may not be the best fit for you. If he has a moon that makes him more of a homebody; it could work out but you’ll need to know what his moon is to know for sure.
3. She Needs To Be Mysterious
The Aries man wants a woman who doesn’t tell him everything about her life story up front. He wants to figure her out over time. It’s more exciting and like a game he can play for a while.
The less he knows about a woman from the get go; the more into it he may be. He’ll take to a woman who can lay on the charm but hide things about herself so that he can work on trying to solve that puzzle over time.
The less he’s told while getting to know a woman; the better. Holding back will make him push forward which could then enrich and build a relationship with him.
A woman can dazzle him with her knowledge of all things that are enigmatic to him. It will be a complete turn on for him to see a confident woman who knows her stuff talking to him about it.
Draw him in and then keep him guessing. He’ll absolutely take to it like a fish to water thus helping you reel him in.
4. She Needs To Be Spontaneous
With the Aries man; he isn’t too much into the hum drum of routine. He will prefer to keep things action filled and spontaneous. This means he requires a woman who will also be unpredictable.
This unpredictability adds to the mysteriousness that a woman can have. Naturally, since he likes mystery; this is a total turn on for an Aries man. Randomly doing things with him or for him will make him fall head over heels.
He is a bit of a free spirit and will desire a woman who is much like he is. He’s social and outgoing. A woman who closes herself off and wants to stay at home all the time will only drag him down.
Aries man wants a woman full of life, zest, sex appeal, and desire to live life to the fullest. This would be a woman that will randomly go sky diving with him or perhaps rock climbing.
He wants a partner who will get out and go with him anywhere at any time and any place. The more random it is; the more exciting it will be for him and his lady.
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5. She Needs To Enjoy Sex
Aries men are very sexual men. They are very physically driven which means that they want to be touching their woman as often as possible. This will include lots of cuddling, sex, and kissing.
If you’ve always wanted a man who will make out with you often; this is the guy. He loves touching a woman’s face and paying attention to her delicate yet sexy features.
He will often be very frisky and will want to be intimate. He’s looking for a partner that will be just as turned on as he is much of the time. This is another one of his “activities” that makes him feel happy.
Fulfillment for an Aries man is to have a woman who will be active with him in all ways, maintain her independence but know when to spend time with him, and be deliciously mysterious.
What Does An Aries Man Look For In A Relationship?
An Aries man has quite a long list of things he’s looking for in a relationship. But freedom is probably the most important thing on his list. He loves his life and wants to be with someone who can understand this about him. Continue reading if you want to know more about what an Aries man is looking for in a relationship.
1. A Woman Who Is Strong And Outgoing
The Aries man is the type that will support a woman who is working hard to accomplish her life goals. In fact; he’ll try to do what he can to help support her. He may even find a way to help push her.
He appreciates a woman who is occasionally in need of his assistance but learns from it so she can become independent and do it for herself. He loves the lady in distress but only sometimes.
Remember that if you keep on NEEDING him so much; he’s going to see this as you having no backbone and not someone he wants to be with. He desires to have someone that can take care of herself with little assistance.
2. A Woman Who Is Sharp And On The Ball
The Aries man loves women who are very smart and have a comeback for everything he can dish out. He isn’t always a jokester but when he is; he wants a woman who can keep up.
He is the type of guy that gets turned on from playful banter. That means you have to be sharp and quick to respond with excellent precision. If you can do this; you may very well win his interest.
If you find common interests; it’s good to talk about all that you know about that topic thus showing that you’ve done your homework. Try not to be too cocky about it though.
3. A Woman With A Bit Of Mystery
That’s right ladies; this man wants to unravel the mystery little by little. So dangle what you can in front of him then make him savor to know more. He has a thing for women who don’t give it all away at the beginning.
Let him get to know you over time. It would be wise to take it slow and natural rather than rushing in. If you rush; it will be steamy but it will also fizzle out fast as he will become bored as may you.
Taking each day as it comes will help you to pace yourself and the relationship you may have with your Aries guy. While he is impatient, he will not be one that will give up if you’re not going fast enough.
Make it worth his while to wait a little bit so that when you finally give in; he feels he’s won a really sexy and worth prize. This is much more fulfilling than to give it all away immediately.
It’s sexy to take your time and reveal who you are in increments. If he really IS interested in you; he’ll ask you a lot of questions that are of importance. He will want to see if you’re the one he wants to settle down with.
The Type Of Woman An Aries Man Would Die For
There are some women who just know how to drive an Aries man crazy. They just tick all of his boxes and due to this, and Aries man will do absolutely anything for her. Interested in finding out what type of woman an Aries man would die for? Continue reading:
1. An Active Woman
Aries men like to be very active in their lives. As such, they tend to be very physically fit and try to eat healthily. It’s very likely that they work out at the gym or that they are involved in some physical activity that allows their body to stay fit.
With that said, they also want a woman who is as equally active as they are if not a bit more. So he’s going to gravitate toward women that have this same type of physique.
He wants to see that you also get out and are active or at least are hitting up the gym to keep your body healthy and in shape. He’ll like women who are sporty looking.
If not sporty; he’ll at least appreciate a woman that is in shape and is taking care of her body so that it’s in good health and looks good. He wants a sporty look but he still wants a feminine touch.
A woman that has some killer abs but can put on a sexy dress and look like a supermodel is basically one of the types of women he will look for or pay more attention to typically.
2. A Woman Who Is Beautiful And Graceful
Aside from the sporty yet feminine types, he is also drawn to women who are devastatingly beautiful. Here’s the thing: if she is gorgeous but lacks passion; he’ll be able to sense this in her.
He wants a woman who is very passionate and he can see it in her. I don’t just mean sexually. I mean passionate in a sense of having a good lust for life and joy in whatever she does.
In this way, it’s going to depend on the Aries man himself as far as who he finds beautiful. Each one of them has a very different “eye” for beauty. Just know that he’s looking for a “spark” and for the passion that the right woman can provide.
He’s going to look at women that are thrilled to be doing the job they’re doing or thrilled to be doing the activity they are doing at the time. The more into it the woman appears to be, the more turned on he is.
3. A High-Energy Woman
The Aries man will find high-energy women to be attractive. He’s high energy and he’s looking for someone that can keep up with him and keep on moving forward. That means he’ll look for women that are of high power.
He may be looking for the right woman in a gym, playing a sport, jogging in his favorite place, or doing some other type of physical activity where skill and passion are needed.
This sort of hits on a combination of things to make his ideal woman complete. He wants to be sure that the woman he’s looking for will be able to keep up with all the various activities he likes to do, or at least some of them.
Again, places to meet him would be concerts, sporting activities, out hiking, camping or something else that requires some physical stamina and being very active. This lures him in.
Starbucks or any other coffee joint isn’t really that high-powered as far as what he’s looking for physically. It may provide you a great jolt of energy but it’s not a way to show him you’re very active.
So, get outdoors and start doing stuff! You will meet an Aries man when you do this. Though if you’ve already met one; you may want to see what types of things he likes to do and start showing up there.
Catching him off guard and saying something like “wow! Nice to see you here” will make him wonder what you’re up to and will make him feel more interested in getting to know you.
4. A Woman With Sexual Appeal
Aries men are sexual guys. They will definitely be looking for a woman that naturally oozes sexuality. I’m not talking about dressing up like a hooker to impress him, though.
I’m talking about keeping it classy but looking sexy. It will appeal to his manly side and draw him in for possibly getting to know you a bit better. Wearing something very sexy but classy will get his attention.
He wants to see some healthy legs and cleavage. He IS a guy after all and what guy doesn’t want to see a woman looking alluring in what she’s wearing? So if you’re going to meet him in a social setting such as a local club or bar, sex it up.
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There are ways you can accentuate traits of yours that’ll make him go crazy for you. Also, no man is ONLY their sun sign, so always keep in mind that – depending on his natal chart – he might be more or less similar to a typical representative of his sign.
Making an Aries man fall in love with you can be really easy when you know the secret ways to his heart and mind.
(Good) relationships with Aries men are usually the most exciting ones a woman can get, and I don’t want you to miss out on that opportunity.
These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac signs, they are sexy, smart, outgoing, and incredibly exciting.
An Aries man can make you feel like the most amazing woman in the world and his positivity can provide you with all the confidence you need.
Wishing you so much love and happiness,
Your friend and relationship Astrologer