this is the first reading for the autumn or spring season, depending on where you are, and the weather is changing, but a lot is changing with the planets as well because we have Venus going direct, Mercury going direct, Jupiter going retrograde and a full moon in Virgo triggering Neptune.
Thus there’s a lot of uncertainty, and just as the weather becomes a little bit more changeable, things in our relationships are also going to be fairly unpredictable this month. However, because the energies of Jupiter, Neptune and Uranus are triggered, this is a wonderful month for romance, creativity imagination.
In terms of your relationship with Aries Guy, there’s a lot more scope for relaxing together, intuitive communication, more organic understanding, and also an injection of optimism. If you have been working at your relationship, you should now start to see some results, so there are lots of positives this month, now let’s break it all down.
Venus direct in Leo – 4th September
This is excellent news particularly in terms of marriage, love and harmony with Aries Guy, during the Venus retrograde period it was difficult to gain understanding and move relationships forward, but it was a good phase for deepening your understanding and for possibly contemplating the parts of your relationship which needed to be fixed.
So if you guys were able to take a step back and reassess your relationship during August, now should be the time when things begin to move forward again and with Venus going direct, there’s definitely a sense that you and your partner can make plans.
It’s a great time for some date nights, maybe getting away for a trip together and, also, if you are dating Aries Guy, you can move the relationship to the next level is moving in together, making a commitment to each other where you agree to go steady.
Venus going direct is also a perfect time for improving affection, so it’s all about the senses. This is not necessarily a communication-driven month, it’s more about understanding what each of you needs, and what makes you satisfied both in terms of sexual pleasure and in terms of feeling more comfortable.
This may be a time when financial pressure eases, there could be some more money coming in and some good news about your investments. This is an excellent time to engage with Aries Guy, particularly if you’re married, about your money matters, because it’ll be easier to reach agreement and to establish some priorities on spending especially as it tends to be quite a heavy season with Christmas now coming up.
It would be wise to put focus on making an Aries man open up this month, it will strengthen your bond and enhance your connection.
Jupiter retrograde in Taurus (5th September)
Jupiter being retrograde in Taurus is a very important time in relationships for Aries Guy and it’s really vital for you guys to bring more pleasure into your relationship.
There’s always going to be problems, it’s a fact of life that there will always be challenges, things that stress you out and things that are potentially divisive, but the key to good relationships is always being able to draw yourself back to the strengths of the relationship: the things you have in common, the things that bind you and the things that you can turn to as a reminder of how much you love each other. So this is a time when you guys really have to focus on the strength of the relationship and to reward yourselves as well.
It’s important to pay attention to what you are doing right and all your successes in the relationship, and to celebrate those things. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy, so it’s important to increase the level of satisfaction you feel as a couple.
New Moon in Virgo Trine Uranus (14th September)
The moon is perfect for you guys setting a positive new intention. It’s great for thinking of your life holistically and maintaining a good work life balance. It’s important within your love life right now to be looking after each other in practical and spiritual ways, so it’s vital to devote time to relaxation, getting enough sleep and removing toxicity from your lives.
You should focus, not only on removing toxic food, but also toxic people and this may be a good time to draw boundaries between yourselves and any colleagues or clients who are encroaching onto your free time.
This is also a good time for being proportional, it’s vital for Aries Guy to be told when enough is enough, and this is when you have to put up some boundaries and remind him of the priorities in the relationship.
If you still haven’t fully grasped what an Aries man wants in a woman, it might be wise to spend some time analyzing his romantic needs and expectations of his love partner.
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Mercury goes direct in Virgo (16th September)
Mercury goes direct at roundabout the same time as the New Moon which is absolutely fantastic because the New Moon represents a time of taking initiative, beginning new activities and being more proactive. So this is the ideal time for you and Aries Guy to do things like coming to agreements, signing contracts, helping him to make business decisions or discussing issues surrounding your day-to-day life.
This is also a perfect time to set goals that will help you both to be more organized and to streamline. Purging is really important right now, anything that takes time out of your relationship or which is a distraction from what’s most important for yourselves and your family has to go.
This is also a great time for a health kick for you and Aries Guy, so what about a 30-day shred or going into the autumn or spring season with a health goal. Couples who enjoy the outdoors and exercising should really set themselves some targets linked to that, as that’s great for romance. This is also a wonderful time for those couples who enjoy activities with their pets, or even getting a new pet can be another way to just improve the harmony and the bonding in your relationship.
Theme of the Month – The key to relationships right now is your ability to make each other relax and to increase confidence in the relationship. You should work hard at restoring trust, and that comes from giving each other strong indications that you’re engaged in the relationship and that’s connected to maintaining good eye contact, being sympathetic and being a good listener.
Magic Phrase – “Support Dreams, Celebrate Achievements.”
Text Magic – “Just wanted to let you know that my love and desire for you grows stronger with each passing day”
Do: The new moon phase extends from the 14th of September to the 29th, this waxing phase is the perfect fortnight for new initiatives, setting plans, establishing goals, starting anything prospective and being proactive. This is the action phase, details below:
A good period to get married. Dating, date nights and new relationships are favored. Long-haul travel and honeymoons are also favored.
Investment and buying assets or chattels like cars and jewelry is successful. This is a good period for his business and sales growth.
Avoid: Property and house hunting are not successful.
Any competitive pursuits, sporting goals, and high-energy activities should be pursued with caution.
Rest and relaxation are important and he needs to be more cautious of his health.
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Week 1 – Clarity and Grounding
It’s important to have realistic expectations, part of success in love right now is not developing unrealistic notions of what can be achieved in terms of your relationship or your love life. It’s always hard for Aries Guy to crash back down to earth because he can get carried away, that’s why it’s often important for you to stay on your feet in the relationship and keep things in proportion.
This is an excellent time for you guys to get clarity on what the most important issues facing you in your relationship are and it’s also a time when you should show appreciation for each other as this is absolutely vital in love.
So let Aries Guy know that you appreciate what he does for you, for the family and for the practical things he does. It’s very easy to just say, “I love you, I care about you etc.” but think about saying something more specific like, “I loved it when you did XYZ, ” and mention a specific thing because that takes a little bit more thoughtfulness which is very important.
It’s also vital in your love life with Aries Guy to have boundaries. Yes, you are both geared to promoting harmony in the relationship but harmony shouldn’t just be about people pleasing or telling each other what you want to hear. It should also be about strength through acknowledging where there are differences and gaps that need to be bridged.
Week 2 – Sex and Intimacy
This can be an excellent time for your sex life, Aries Guy is likely to feel fairly perky and there’s an opportunity to be slightly more adventurous in terms of your intimate life. This may be an excellent time to introduce some new routines that will improve your sex life.
However, it doesn’t have to be all about sex, it’s simply about increasing the level of physical contact you have, maybe giving each other massages, enjoying hot tubs together etc.
It’s time to think about the side of your life that is non-verbal, so physical communication, body language and mirroring is all vital to demonstrate your care, love and concern for him.
Mars is in Libra for the whole of this month and this week Venus is square Jupiter and so the energy of Mars and Jupiter is affecting his relationship sphere, meaning you guys should be ambitious as a couple. It’s time to come together as a team and work on something that’s really important for you. Couples who pull together in times of crisis and look to achieve an aspirational goal, do really well.
What’s vital in relationships is being each other’s cheerleader, encouraging each other and showing faith in each other. It’s very important to inject energy into the relationship, as what Aries loves, is a partner who has enthusiasm and warmth, and that’s why this September, you have to be a partner who shows a great deal of oomph and spontaneity, and someone who also has an imaginative approach to problem solving. So don’t be scared to think out of the box or to try solutions that you’ve never tried before.
Week 4 – Good Listening
The sun is now moving into Libra and Mercury is trying Jupiter, this indicates a really good time for spontaneous communication and also for some short-distance travel together for pleasure or having fun. It’s a great time to surprise Aries guy or to treat him. It’s also very important right now for you to give him good advice. Remember when I said it’s not all about people pleasing, it’s about sometimes having boundaries and saying ‘enough is enough’, well during this week, it’s important for you to give him the benefit of your advice on his work, his friends his or whatever the issue of the day happens to be.
It might be important for you to give him some feedback, so be sure to be a good listener, he wants the benefit of your advice. Yes, it’s true that Aries don’t always take advice, but it’s good right now for you to be a foil, so if he’s going in one direction, you need to show him the other side of the story, because couples who are have different views and opinions tend to do really well right now because your balance each other out.
I think that this is a really interesting reading for Aries Guy, there’s a lot for you to work on, lots of opportunities to enjoy each other and reinforce the relationship.
As the month goes on, there’s more opportunity for positive communication, giving him advice and exchanging ideas. Remember, this is not a good month to be authoritarian or dogmatic, it’s important to keep an open mind and be flexible, you should also kind of go with the flow and be adaptable as a couple. Work as a team, but understand your true needs and priorities.
Wishing you love and luck with your Aries Man,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,