Every month the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, you may not always understand the needs and desires of the Aries Man. However, there are simple things that you can do based on the monthly energy to improve your relationship with the Aries Man. Find out how to attract an Aries Man in March 2020.
Attracting an Aries Man in March 2020
1. Let him show you his worth. Let him spoil you.
You may already know that the Aries man enjoys the latest thrill, exciting romance, passionate lovemaking, and lifelong adventure with the woman of his dreams, but with Transit Venus in Taurus highlighting his 2nd house of values and income, the Aries man could be feeling more generous and possessive than usual.
In astrology, Venus says a lot about what the Aries man will want and need out of a relationship. Venus shows what he likes, the way he approaches relationships, the way he gives and receives affection, the type of woman he is attracted to, and his emotional relationship to material possessions and money.
With Aries being a cardinal fire sign, he naturally enjoys pursuing women. The Aries man loves to show off and let the world know that he is confident. With Transit Venus increasing his need to prove his excellence to his partner, the influence of Taurus challenges the Aries man to be more diligent and conscientious in his relationships and affairs.
During this period, the Aries Man is more driven, even-tempered, poised, sensual, and knowledgeable, especially in matters regarding his values and personal finances. If he is able, he will go out of his way to seduce you with rich foods and a lavish lifestyle. Because the Aries man thrives off approval, warmly respond with verbal compliments and physical affection.
If you want to Attract an Aries man, it’s important to remember that he is his own person. In order for him to feel loved, he needs to feel like he is appreciated, which is why he can be so affectionate towards you. So even if you aren’t someone who prefers PDA and big-hearted gestures, allow him to do those things for you.
2. Take him out. Show him that you care.
Aries men love an unselfish woman who is romantic and expressive, so go out of your way and show him how much he means to you. With Transit Venus in Taurus, it is better to buy him physical gifts — things that he can touch and use in daily life.
The Aries man is attracted to bold, confident, and thoughtful gestures. As a firm believer in independence and personal freedom, he wants a partner who can think for herself and make decisions that she can stand behind.
Instead of asking him what he wants, creatively get a list of his favorite things. Look for things like what gym he goes to, his favorite restaurant, his favorite travel location, and his favorite hobbies and sports. Venus in Taurus appreciates things of value, so make sure it’s something that he can actually get use out of.
If you want to go the experience route — because what Aries Man doesn’t like new experiences? You should make sure that it’s a unique activity that has depth and excitement; the Aries man doesn’t like anything shallow.
He enjoys physical activities and sports so anything that allows him to move around is always a plus. Because Venus in Taurus is ruled by a fixed earth element, it may be nice to visit the closest mountains or well-kept park.
3. Honor his emotions and needs.
In astrology, Mercury says a lot about how the Aries Man processes, receives and sends information on an internal and external level. Mercury shows us things like how he expresses his emotions, how he processes thoughts, how he perceives life, and what he wants to communicate to the world at the current moment.
With Transit Mercury completing its retrograde cycle in Pisces and Aquarius on March 9, Aries men are more sensitive, vulnerable, and emotional than usual. During this period, the Aries man is interested in his mental and spiritual health. He is more creative and visual. You may find him more demonstrative and expressive than usual.
Doing shared activities like vision boards, arts & crafts, meditation, and couple massages help him unwind and take it easy. This encourages the Aries man to feel safe and trust you.
If you really want to impress him, show him that you’re not intimidated by his pride. Talk about your own fears, regrets, and insecurities — let him know that we are all human. Although he is naturally competitive and outgoing, at heart the Aries Man is a hopeless romantic, he wants the ideal love.
If you want to attract an Aries Man in March 2020, make him feel comfortable enough to set aside the tough guy act for you. Peel through his layers and don’t run off if he shows you anything less than perfect.
4. Give him space. Let him come to you.
The Sun will move into Aries on March 18. The Transit Sun in his sign highlights the area of his chart that rules his physical appearances and overall personality. During this period, the Aries man will be most like himself, his characteristics and natural charm are exaggerated.
In relationships, the Aries Man represents the “Cassanova” archetype. He is an optimistic lover, always being lusted by and after beautiful women. Unlike some zodiac signs, the Aries man wants to chase his partner, he wants to earn her respect and adoration. He prefers partners who allow him to chase and become the sole object of his affection.
With the Sun highlighting his 1st house of self in March 2020, he may be very busy this month as he prepares to enter a new solar cycle. If you want to catch and keep his attention, you will have to trust in your connection and let him do this thing.
Unlike other men, the Aries Man won’t tolerate someone coming on too strong or questioning their decisions. He needs peace and cooperation in his relationships, no matter what he is always in charge.
The best way to earn his respect is to hold your ground and respect his wishes. When you are together, give him all of your attention. When you are apart, gently let him know that you are thinking of him because he needs to know that his presence is missed.
If you can do these things, it’s likely that he will become very attracted to you.
5. Trust the process.
For the Aries man, structure and security should feel exciting, not limiting. With Transit Mars in Capricorn, the Aries man may feel more ambitious than usual. Capricorn is a practical earth sign that values wealth, public image, and professional achievement.
Instead of talking to him about life goals and commitments all the time, find a balance between a supportive partner and best friend. With so much earthly energy present in March, it’s easy for the Aries man to become very serious and rigid. Because of this, he needs your relationship to be a sanctuary for compassion and peace.
Although the Aries man is one to “play the field,” the influence of Mars in Capricorn encourages him to be more goal-oriented and think long-term. If you desire a long-term commitment with an Aries man, this is an excellent time to introduce the subject.
Honesty is the key to any relationship with an Aries man, so be transparent and direct about your desires and expectations. Naturally, he may feel resistant about the subject of commitment and longevity, but if he is attracted to you he will come around with time.
Dating an Aries man is like playing a game of blind chess, you never know his next move. If you want to attract an Aries man in March 2020, you need to learn how to trust the process. Mars in Capricorn prefers relationships that evolve over time, it wants things to unfold organically.
On the other hand, you are still attracting an Aries man, so at some point you will need to be assertive, but this is where intuition comes in. When dating an Aries man, it’s always best to follow his lead and let him be your guide; ask him for clarity when you feel lost.
Take a moment and reflect on all the ways that you will attract an Aries Man in March 2020. Will you be more open and transparent in your approach? Will he make the first move or will you?
Let me know in the comment section below.
Your friend and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
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Hi i just lost my aries man. His not talking to me properly and doesn’t take my calls. He frustrates me and it’s gone so bad that we swearing me and is on a dating site to upset me. He said I must move on but gets angry when i do. His giving me mixed signals and I’m confused. Please help. I feel I’m losing him
Hi Veerosha!
He can’t have it both ways. If he is insistent on telling you what to do and telling you that you need to move on then go ahead and do it. What you do is none of his business anymore right? Block him or blow him off. Maybe he’ll come running back to you and ask to have another try. Don’t waste anymore of your time unless he starts giving you some of his. Fair is fair!
I wont contact him although i love him to bits. Hes spoiled my image and my life.
This is so informative,most of these pointers are most of the issues that I struggle with.
Thank you so much Anna
informative,most of these pointers are most of the issues that I struggle with.
Thank you so much Anna
Hi,
i’ve been on only a small handful of hangouts with this Aries man and they each were the majority of the day long and intimate. i have done some initiating since he’s been so busy (and takes time to express stress and business when we spend time together so I know where he’s at) but i tried to pull back to allow him to come to me. This last hang he had some difficulty that was unexpected and not related to me that allowed me to help comfort and be there for him. It ended up being a rather vulnerable time for him. Though it was hard i felt it was a bonding moment and he expressed that i comforted him in the way he needed and that he had a good time. i contacted him to check in a couple times after that and a week passed before he expressed being busy trying to sort things out which was already his behavior prior to the incident and he would continue to show interest.
Now i reply and hear nothing so radio silence for a week before i let him know i’m here if he needs me. And now nothing a week later.
He has been VERY busy and im worried that this last hangout was too vulnerable on his end and it scared him off to have to open up so quickly and unexpectedly. i understand that if he were really interested in starting a relationship even if he were busy he’d find a way to see or contact me but does this vulnerable time plus the added work stress sound like it was easier for him to not engage with me since it was so early in our dating – on like four hangouts in?
And is there a way to show him im here and care and am interested or have i done enough and now i just wait – he either comes back or doesn’t. He showed clear interest during all of our time together and even implied another hangout this last time but the unexpected thing was sort of big and a really sensitive thing for me to be there for and witness.
Any input it much appreciated. Sorry for the novel.
Hi Jan!
I do believe you’ve already done enough sweetheart. You’ve got to give him time to think it over. I would give yourself a time limit on how long you’re willing to wait for him though. You deserve to be happy too and you need to know whether he wants to be with your or not. Mark it on your calendar when you will move on. When that date comes, ask him if he wants to be more. If he says he doesn’t know then you will have to tell him he needs to decide. If he says he’s not ready or gives you a flaky answer then you know you need to move on. Hope this helps!
Dear Anna,
I have a same sort of experience with an Aries man as Jan mentioned here above.
We went out on several dates (some were very passionate and him taking the lead as a real Aries man) And even he said to me “love you” in a text message I received out of the blue.
Last week I want on a vacation with friends and family (which was already planned before he was in sight and he was totally fine with it). During that week, he said a lot that he missed me and all that kind of stuff). At a point he even seemed jealous at my fun, but I put that quickly out of my mind (as it seems too ridiculous to be true).
Now I am back from my vacation and looking forward to see him again. He texted me with a sweet song from Spotify and I said I was really looking forward to see him.
And all of a sudden, he went cold – completely out of the blue and only in 5 hours from the sweet song he texted me that morning.
And now, nothing. Radio silent and not even a simple text as usual like “How is your day going sweetheart”.
He showed clear interest and said to me I am his dream woman and all that kind of stuff.
It seemed like that the vacation And time away was a sensitive thing for him (he was very vulnerable during that week).
Anna, any input about this and what to do (and don’t) MUCH appreciated! Thank you so much!
Mara (Europe)
Hi Mara!
It sounds like something may have happened on his end that is keeping him from being able to respond. He may be dealing with something that he’ll tell you about. I’m guessing either his personal life, work, or family. They aren’t forthcoming about this stuff when it’s out of nowhere and stressful. Give him a little but try checking in on him saying something like “Hope you’re alright, haven’t hear back from ya.” type of thing and see what he says. I doubt he lost interest that fast after sending you a sweet song. Be patient and see what evolves.