Well sweethearts, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Aries man for September. Schools are basically back in session right now, and the mentality is somewhat more focused, a little bit more organized, and perhaps the memories of summer are beginning to fade.
However, it’s a brand new season and a chance to do a little bit of a relationship reboot. In terms of those in the Southern Hemisphere, you’ve finished a long winter, you’re aching for spring to begin, and so you guys are also feeling in the mood for some inspiration.
So I want to inspire you this month about your relationship with your Aries man because there’s so much to be gained. There’s a lot of exciting activity which leads to some romance, a more productive frame of mind, with an important acknowledgement of a need for flexibility and compassion.
We have lots of planetary changes this month, and in general, I’m feeling a very different energy. We’ve got Mercury now direct, we’ve got Mars changing signs early in the month, so there certainly is a different flavor to September.
There’s something subtle, sweet, and delicate about it, and we need to get going and analyze the potentials.
Here’s what the stars have in store for an Aries Man this September…
New Moon in Virgo – 2rd September
Your personal lives may seem a little constrained, and he can appear to lack feeling or at least seem distant and cold. However, this is an excellent New Moon for you to distinguish what feelings or issues matter to you and what don’t, as any false facades you as a couple or he as an individual exhibit to others are probably too much effort to maintain now.
The New Moon encourages you guys to get back to basics and explore the nuts and bolts of your relationship, to restore harmony by pulling together and taking responsibility for the relationship and each other.
This is often a good time for a reality check, refocus your relationship on what brings satisfaction and be pragmatic not emotional.
Mars enters Cancer – 5th September
Now this is a very energetic time for an Aries man, he feels a lot of emotional momentum towards accomplishing things, however it’s very important for him to be self-aware because sometimes he can be a little bit impatient and impetuous, and he doesn’t always allow for things to develop.
Sometimes during this phase, he appears a little bit insensitive to your feelings, he can be rather bit presumptuous, even though emotionally, he’s more conflicted than he looks. So it’s important to be diplomatic and not tread on his toes or react to his apparent indifference.
This is really a great time for any projects around the home, redecorating, clear outs and DIY, so if you are a couple, this is a good time to get your house in order, to do repairs and to get on top of things.
Whatever stage of the relationship you are at, it’s an ideal time to talk about security issues, so if there’s anything that you feel is undermining the relationship, it’s now your chance to tackle that head on, particularly if it’s another family member who’s a thorn your side.
Mercury enters Virgo – 10th September
This is a great period for problem-solving and a logical approach to relationships. This transit is awesome for relationship discussions involving responsibility, scheduling and sorting through issues.
You guys may want to initiate a new project such as starting a class together, formulating a plan or working on a fitness schedule or new eating plan. The theme is improving your lives in practical ways with a clear mind.
He has a high level of nervous energy and may want to seek frequent distractions or changes in his routine, and it’s more difficult for him to sit still for a long period of time or handle anything that demands total concentration. Work and serious subjects are more likely to occupy his mind, so he’s potentially less romantic or tender.
Mercury enters Virgo – 10th September
Now this is a really good signal because it means that you can begin to get resolution on any matters that are causing you anxiety or a headache, so this is the perfect time for you and your Aries man to put your head’s together, brainstorm and problem solve.
This indicates a fruitful time for analysis and deeper levels of discussion, but there should also be some psychological awareness about your problems because, very often, the drivers of some of the more superficial problems, like finances or boundaries, have psychological roots and therefore if you can analyze these deep seated issues or anxieties, often it’s easier to come to some form of agreement.
On a superficial level this is an ideal time to set budgets for the year, to arrange loans or do debt consolidation in order to free up finances. It might also be a good time to discuss saving plans with Aries Man for your luxury goals.
Sun enters Libra – 23rd September
Now the key right now as a partner of an Aries man, is being a good listener, in addition what he wants from you is consistency and keeping promises. So this is a time to come through really strongly on any agreements that you and he have made, show him that you put your money where your mouth is, and that your talk is not cheap.
So remember right now, the key to succeeding, whether it’s a new or old relationship, is be reliable and responsible, he really gets annoyed with partners who are flippant or fickle.
Venus enters Scorpio – 24th September
Sexuality and desire underlies this Venus transit, and extremes are possible, as is jealousy and possessiveness because he’s more alert to threats to the relationship.
As he’s feeling an increased emotional power, he will respond more forcefully than usual, he’s even provocative as he needs to get to the core of the matter, this is a good time to face difficult issues since he’s more willing to look deeply into himself and others. Whatever you guys begin now, be it emotional or relationship goals, tends to have a lot of energy behind it.
This time can be cathartic. Steps that you and Aries Man take now to ensure your relationship well-being can have long-term and positive benefits.
Mercury enters Libra – 27th September
This is excellent news for relationship discussions and understanding, so get ready for a hectic and fast-paced, yet interesting time in new and committed relationships, when you guys can explore together and get agreement on important issues
He’s likely to be a little distracted with errands, phone calls or meetings and he’s up for meeting new people and has more physical energy available, although it may come in short spurts. So he’s fun to be around but a little distracted and not always such a good listener.
This transit suits relationships that need an injection of spontaneity, but it can be a time when his affections are more fickle which creates problems for those wanting deeper understanding. Communication is certainly more important to him and he’s a little verbose, so you have to strive to make yourself heard and understood.
He’s a desire to avoid conflict, and any of your attempts at compromise are going to be successful. He’s more attentive to immediate issues rather than deeper emotional things.
Themes for an Aries Man this September 2024
The themes for this month are honesty, reflection, and discipline. A certain amount of control is needed in your relationship with an Aries man. He is more vulnerable; his sensitivities are exposed. It’s a time when there are sometimes raw nerves, but it’s also a wonderful time to get closer to him.
Through a little bit of compassion and some quality private time, you get to renew your relationship. Spending time in intimacy, not necessarily talking too much, but just enjoying each other’s company is wonderful for romance.
Remember, words can get in the way, so a little bit of understanding and allowing time for feelings to develop away from the hubbub is essential.
Magic Motto – “It’s in private where our real feelings develop just as the vibrant colors of a photograph develop in the dark.”
Magic Text – “I’ll show you how much I love you, leaving you in no doubt.”
Do
The waxing phase is from the 2nd to the 17th and this represents the best time for dating, starting a new relationship, getting married and new business enterprise. Post the 17th is better for taking a step back, reflecting and reaching more understanding about what has happened and what to do next.
This is a time where he has to be careful with contracts, employment law or any negotiations because things can suddenly turn in a direction that’s likely unexpected. Short distance travel can also be quite stressful.
This period can teach you how to stay focused without being rigid so that you can flow with purpose and direction. You can recognize obstacles as a means to give you your bearings and to help you gauge the appropriateness of the way you have chosen. Adjustments can happen easily since situations tend to make it all too clear what needs attention.
Avoid
This is not a good time for retreats and using spiritual techniques like mindfulness or meditation. This is a time for him to step away from the spiritual sphere and stick to things that are very pragmatic and grounded.
It’s also important for him to look for facts, he can be misled by his intuition and he’s slightly more likely to be paranoid so he shouldn’t overreact to any emotions based in fear or guilt.
September 2024 Horoscope for an Aries Man
Week 1: Can it quickly
Now, this week, Mercury is square Uranus. This gives rise to a need for some excitement; however, he’s also a little bit stressed or nervy. What you need to know right now is, even if you plan things well and something seems like a good idea, it doesn’t always come off as you’ve expected.
Now Mars is square Neptune, and that could mean the plans go awry, or there’s a certain disappointment connected to things that usually deliver some satisfaction. So the key right now is to have a totally open mind because what usually works in your relationship may not work so well, you can’t draw conclusions, and you can’t jump to conclusions.
This is a time where it’s really essential to go slowly so that you know at any stage you can take a step back and just recalibrate because undoubtedly there will be some surprises this week.
There’s definitely an opportunity for traveling to different events or meeting up with friends, but as I say, it’s always important to have a plan B, and if something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to just can it and go home. The idea this week is don’t sit through that bad movie—walk out of the theater, grab a burger, and go home and have a good conversation.
Week 2
Now, during this week, the Sun is opposite Saturn and then square Jupiter. So we almost have the Sun triggering this challenging Jupiter-Saturn dynamic, and that means that communication is anything but straightforward.
It’s so easy for mountains to be made out of molehills simply because he’s a little bit more self-critical, self-conscious, and it’s easy for him to be negative. Now, everyone knows Aries Man is essentially a positive, upbeat person, but everyone has their times when they just feel a little bit on edge or out on a limb.
So what you need to know is that being supportive, offering words of readiness, and just being reassuring is worth gold. Sometimes you actually have to look after your own needs because he’s not that available to you right now. Oftentimes, he may need to just go off on his own, but that doesn’t mean he’s avoiding you. He just has to confront things within himself.
Week 3: Overwhelmed
With the Sun in Virgo opposite Neptune in Pisces, this can be a week where there’s some chaos, some confusion, and where it’s hard to get what he really wants from you.
If you’re looking for a straight answer, this is probably not the week you’re going to get it, because with Mercury square Jupiter, sometimes he’ll tell you what you want to hear, or sometimes he’ll kick the can down the road. So this is definitely not a great week for decisions. In fact, everything in the relationship is more up in the air.
So whether you’re dating or married, it’s a time to just hang ten, be really cool and Zen, and try not to let anything get to you. Patience is what’s required, and sometimes it’s not just him—sometimes maybe you don’t have all the answers either, so stop pretending you do.
This is also a time when you can show a little bit of vulnerability, so you don’t always have to keep up a brave face. Sometimes maybe you both just need to admit that you are feeling a little bit bewildered, confused, or have something that you need to get off your chest.
Week 4: Get on the page for passion
Now, this can be a very passionate and much more intense week in terms of romance. Venus entering Libra square Pluto means he has to know that he can rely on you. In fact, showing that you are a trustworthy, loyal partner is where it’s at. He can be a little bit suspicious this week; in fact, his self-doubt is fueling his anxieties, and when he’s in an anxious frame of mind, he can sometimes jump to conclusions or see things that aren’t really there.
So what you need in a relationship is to be sure and firm. Make sure communication is straightforward, and seize opportunities for quality time together.
This is definitely a time where you may need to insulate yourself in the relationship, say no to friends and family, and focus on having good conversations, just making sure you’re both on the same page and that understanding is really firm. With a bit of work, this could be a week that really helps relationships get intense and passionate again.
Summary
Don’t be disconcerted during this month. There are things that are vague and unclear—it’s almost like navigating on a foggy night. It’s not all bad; it just means that communication is more subtle and compassionate, but as the month goes on, there’s lots of opportunity for better understanding, and by the end of the month, a lot of passion.
So play your cards right with an Aries man: no pressure, no ultimatums, and understand that you both don’t have to have all the answers, as all will be revealed. It’s all about opening your minds and improving communication, not expecting everything to run as it routinely would. There are some surprises, but that’s often what’s needed to keep a relationship with an Aries man exciting.
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Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
