So, you’ve gotten to know that Aries guy from between the sheets, but now you want to turn that casual sex into a serious relationship… How can you get that steamy Aries man you’re lusting after in the bedroom to devote something more to you?
Being in a friends with benefits (FWB) situation with an Aries man can be exciting, but if you’re hoping to turn it into something more, you’ll need to understand how his passionate, bold nature works.
Aries men are all about adventure, intensity, and taking the lead. So if you’re looking to move beyond casual fun and into a deeper connection, you’ll need to catch your Aries man’s attention in a way that speaks to his desires.
Ready to turn up the heat? Let’s dive into the best ways to get an Aries man to see you as more than just a friends with benefits.
First Things First, Do Aries Men Love Being Friends With Benefits?
An Aries man is known for his fiery passion and adventurous spirit, so when it comes to a friends with benefits arrangement, he enjoys the thrill and freedom that comes with it — at least, in the short term.
The excitement of a no-strings-attached connection allows an Aries man to indulge in his desire for spontaneity and physical chemistry without the pressures of commitment.
However, while an Aries man can absolutely enjoy being friends with benefits, he tends to get bored quickly if things become too routine or lack excitement. Deep down, Aries crave a challenge and want to feel like they’re pursuing something more.
So, while an Aries man may be perfectly happy with a casual arrangement at first, it’s unlikely he’ll stick around for long if he doesn’t see potential for something deeper.
How To Turn Casual Sex With An Aries Man Into A Relationship?
Make Him Work
Aries men are simply over-the-top when it comes to winning. He needs to feel like he’s number one or else you’ll have a sad and sorry Aries on your hands. The problem is, once they conquer a challenge, they’re on to the next one.
So, the solution is obvious… never make him feel like he has won you over completely! He is working for the certainty that he is indeed your prince charming. Once he has that, he’s ready to fly the coop.
Maybe this sounds cold, but I have found that Aries men are most stimulated and engaged when they are competing for something, especially for the hand of a gorgeous woman. He does want to be your prince, but he craves the chase and intrigue involved with becoming your prince even more.
Make Him Feel Like He Has the Power
An Aries needs to feel in control, and it helps if they feel like the hero. Aries is the sign of the self and they need to feel like a participant in the partnership.
By allowing them to feel powerful it makes them feel safe. And really, that’s what we are all looking for, we just have different ways of getting there. Feeling self-directed and like they have choices is a sure way to get Aries to hunker down and commit to a relationship.
Aries men love being the savior and giving him that opportunity is a great way to make them feel needed. But it must be understood that even when an Aries has a responsibility to another, their greatest responsibility is to themselves.
Don’t be timid though. He does not like a whiner; he wants a strong-willed woman. But if he feels that you are encroaching upon his own sense of power then he will push back or may even back away from the situation completely.
Flirt With Him
It seems obvious, but Aries men in particular need a cue to know that you’re into them. Like I said before, things need to stay spicy. Just because you’ve gotten them into bed, doesn’t mean that you’ve won. Keeping that spark alive is wildly important to keep him interested.
When you show him that you still are flirtatious and engaged in the pursuit even after he’s shown you his business, it tells the Aries man that you weren’t trying to just charm him for a fling, but that you are really a flirty and playful person.
Keeping the spark alive well after you’ve gotten his motor running is a great way to keep an Aries man interested. Remember, these guys need to maintain a sense of entertainment in the relationship. When the dust settles, an Aries is likely to head on out your front door.
Be Fun-Loving
Aries is the child of the Zodiac, and they need to feel like life is light and fun at all times. A waxing poetic about your tough childhood is simply not the way to get an Aries man to commit. He will gravitate to the funny girl over the serious girl every time.
Aries need to live in the more light-hearted side of life, or you will completely miss that fiery, bright Aries and have to live with the broody Aries that sometimes pops out when things get too real.
One of the best ways to turn casual sex with an Aries man into a real, committed relationship is to play games with him. Aries adore friendly verbal combat and they love some competition.
Aries is ruled by the planet Mars, so it should be no surprise that he loves sports and sporting events. To land a girl who paints her face and has a season pass to his favorite team… in his mind, he may as well have won the lottery.
Make Your FWB Aries Man OBSESSED…
Have you ever fantasized about being that irresistible woman in Netflix shows…
The one the leading man just CAN’Tstop thinking about?
The sexy, affectionate protagonistwould do anything for this woman…
He will go to extremes to get her attention and make her happy.
Now, let’s say the star of this show is your Aries man…
And you are the filler character who is secretly in love with this gorgeous man…
But is unable to get his attention.
Why is that?
Because you don’t have that “wow factor” that the irresistible girl he’s in love with has.
Well, it’s time to change the narrative.
Imagine holding the secret to making your Aries man utterly OBSESSED with you.
I’m talking head over heels, here.
The best part?
You don’t have to changewho you are.
You just need to uncover the deeply guarded desires, needs and fantasies…
That simmer within your Aries man.
And I’ve created a list of actions, or as I prefer to call them…
Challenges…
This will instantly make him chase you, love you, and OBSESS over you.
He will experience intense feelings he has never felt for anyone else.
And no, you won’t need a wand for this magic.
The Challenge will become your guide to getting to the heart and soul of your Aries man…
And will take you to the heartof what makes him tick.
You’ll reignite his passion and capture his heartin ways he never imagined possible.
So much so that within just 30 days, you may completely transform your relationship…
Emotionally, physically, and spiritually!
Click here to learn more about the love challenge with your Aries man.
Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
