How To Attract An Aries Man (7 Seductive Ways)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Like that fiery Aries man but don't know how to seduce him? Here are 7 ways on how to attract and seduce an Aries man, and much more...

Are you trying to attract an Aries man? Perhaps there’s an Aries man who caught your eye, and now you’re wondering how you can make him fall for you. Today, I have an article for you that features 7 easy steps on how to attract an Aries man.

Aries men are some of the sexiest guys in the Zodiac. It is no wonder they are so irresistible to most women. These men have a way of ticking all of the boxes and making women go crazy for them.

But what attracts an Aries man physically? How do you make an Aries man weak in the knees? And if you manage to get an Aries man’s attention, how can you seduce him? Well, girls, I have all the answers you have been looking for…

There are a few steps you need to take to get an Aries man’s full attention. These steps will help you grab his attention, make him feel attracted to you, and have fun while seducing him! Remember, ladies, love should be fun!

Continue reading to find out exactly how to attract an Aries man…

Getting To Know An Aries Man…

You need to know that an Aries man is a fire Zodiac sign, and not only that he is the first sign in the entire Zodiac. This paints a lovely picture of what to expect from these guys…

An Aries man needs to be first. He wants to know that he is the best of the best. He is passionate, intense, and full of life. His sign is also ruled by the planet Mars, and this is why he is such a force to be reckoned with.

He is a warrior and always up for the challenge. He tends to be very athletic and this is how he drives all the women crazy with his good looks. An Aries guy is pretty amazing and has a lot he can offer a woman. He thinks he is a big mystery, but it is pretty easy to win an Aries man at his own game, all you need to know is how to play the rules!

What Are Aries Men Attracted To?

Aries men are most certainly a guy’s guy of the Zodiac. These guys are up for a laugh and love to have fun. And when it comes to their romances, they’re up for anything.

An Aries man really loves a woman who is independent! This is the thing that he is looking for most in a woman. It makes him happy to know that the woman by his side has her own life and doesn’t need him for entertainment.

He is also really into a woman who can be quite physical, someone who looks after her body through regular exercise. Being quite sporty really does it for him. He is also into a woman who can be quite daring and spontaneous. She should be able to go on adventures on a whim.

Here’s more about what an Aries man likes and dislikes in a woman.

How to Attract an Aries Man (7 Seductive Ways)

Impress Him

Aries men are known as the leaders of the Zodiac and this is why these guys tend to go for really strong women. They need to know that there is someone extraordinary by their side.

It is so important that you impress him and stand out from the crowd. He is going to need to remember you. Incentivize his ego, and make him want to impress you in return.

Don’t be a showoff or boastful, but you can casually mention some of your achievements that you know will get his head spinning. But try to do this in the most nonchalant manner possible.

Put Your Best Foot Forward

Looks are very important for an Aries man. These guys get off on knowing that they have a very sexy woman in their arms. It is really vital that you make yourself look amazing when you are around your Aries man, don’t slack off!

Put in some effort, do your hair, and wear something that makes you feel confident. Remember, the Aries man is always going to want the best. He needs to know that he is number one, and having the hottest woman by his side is going to drive him absolutely crazy.

Ignore Him, Even Just A Little

The best way to ignore an Aries man is not to be so available all the time. He might ask you out on a date but say you have plans with your friends and that you’re unable to see him.

When he texts you, don’t respond immediately. Make him wait for a little – this will create attraction and mystery for him. He’ll wonder what and who you are so busy with.

If you see him sending you texts, it might be good that you don’t open the messages super soon. You don’t want him to think that you have been waiting to hear from him all day.

When the two of you are chatting, especially if you’re talking about something deeply personal or perhaps romantic that he has shared with you, pretend like you didn’t see the message.

Just ignore it and respond to something else he has said. This will confuse him and make him wonder if he’s made a mistake by revealing something to you. Build that tension and then after a few minutes respond to it directly. This will make him stress out a bit, which is never a bad thing when it comes to attraction.

Attract Him Through Texts

How to attract an Aries man through texts is a field on its own. These guys can be complicated in some ways, but for the most part, they are pretty straightforward. The biggest thing you need to remember is that he just wants to have some fun.

One of the best ways to convey this is to add some unique emojis to the texts. This will make him think that you’re an interesting person with a unique perspective.

Using unique emojis can definitely help you to stand out from the crowd. It’ll also show your Aries man that you are fun and up for a laugh. It is important that his prospective partner doesn’t take herself too seriously.

Make your texts irresistible, only text him when you have something interesting to say because the last thing you want to do is come off as monotonous and boring. That is a definite way to get an Aries man turned off.

Discover here the four-word flirty text message that makes an Aries man addicted to you!

Be Affectionate & Touchy Feely (This Includes Intimacy)

Mars, the planetary ruler of Aries, is the planet that presides over passions of all kinds. This is why it makes an Aries man so happy to be with a woman who can’t keep her hands off of him!

Another thing to note is that the Aries man is associated with the first house of the Zodiac. This is the house of the self and the physical body. As a result, you can imagine that Aries likes to be touched all over!

Since Aries rules over the head, try playing with his hair or maybe biting his ears. He loves physical touch and the feeling of seducing and being seduced, as long as he has a certain amount of power in the matter!

An Aries man is going to have an endless sexual appetite. If it were up to him, he would be having sex five times daily or more! Mars rules over sex, after all.

A woman who partners up with an Aries man should have a high sexual drive as well. This is going to keep him plenty preoccupied with you. And the times that you are gone, he won’t be able to stop thinking about all the ways he’d like to please you when you return!

Explore more about what drives an Aries man crazy in bed here.

Be Daring & Adventurous

An Aries is all about heroics. He isn’t afraid of much, since Mars is the planet of war and risk-taking behavior. Mars is the type of planet to rush in and attack head-on!

An Aries man is going to appreciate similar qualities in his lover. He’ll thoroughly enjoy being able to take a woman with him to his riskier activities. So, buckle up buttercup, this guy may give you a run for your money!

This may sound strange but Aries is a man of action. If you have a bucket list of things you’d like to do or places you’d like to hit up; he may actually find interest in some of the things or places you are.

That being said, it’s at least a great topic for conversation. It may get him to open up and talk to you about his own bucket list if he has one. If he doesn’t he may consider making one because… why not?

Discussing exciting and adventurous scenarios will get his attention assuredly. He absolutely loves adventure. Talk about all the places you’d like to see and experience their culture.

Perhaps you can even talk about things like cuisine in the different cultures of the places you want to go. Seriously; anything you can think of that sounds really fun and would be amazing to take your Aries guy with you will be appreciated.

This is one of the more exciting topics for this guy and though you may not think of normally discussing your bucket list; he’ll adore it and realize that you could be an amazing match for him.

Make Him Laugh

An Aries man wants a woman who is very intelligent and well-versed in many different subjects in life. Being active; you will have many stories to share with each other.

He’ll also be turned on by a great sense of humor. Either you tell him some really good jokes or you’ll laugh at his jokes. If you have really witty comebacks to the things he says; he’ll be really turned on.

Quick wit is something that some women are born with. Some women learn it. It’s one of those things that can develop over time when you get to know someone really well.

If you’re able to have snappy responses to the things he says; he’ll absolutely adore you. There’s nothing worse than making a joke and your partner responds with an eye roll.

So, What Turns An Aries Man On?

Confident Attitude

Aries men tend to like women who are confident in themselves. I don’t mean cocky or over the top but rather a woman that knows what she wants. He loves to see a woman who carries herself well.

When a woman is confident; she is beautiful and alluring to him. The meek women tend to be somewhat ignored by the Aries man. Seeing a woman who knows who she is and where she’s going will turn his head for sure.

No matter what the confident woman is wearing; she’ll wear it well. She knows she looks good and she knows the Aries man is looking at her. She’ll be able to draw him in with very little effort.

He himself is confident and so he’s looking for a match that will complement him in his life. He’s very outgoing and social so the confident woman will surely be into the same type of life.

Being able to try things at least once will be a big turn-on for him as well. If you’ve tried something and then decide you don’t like it; he’ll see that at least you gave it a whirl. He’ll appreciate that more than you know.

Being Honest

The Aries man wants a woman who will not be afraid to tell him as it is. Now I’m not saying he wants a woman who is going to gripe at him constantly or nag him. He just wants the woman he’s with to tell him the truth.

Even if it’s something that will piss him off; it’s better you tell him before he finds out later. He’ll get over his original upset. If you lie to him though; then he’ll hold that against you longer.

He wants a woman who is going to call him on his crap and tell him honestly how she feels about him. He doesn’t like mind games so he will appreciate truth even when it’s not a pleasant truth.

Talking honestly and openly is the only successful way to maintain a relationship with an Aries man. Being candid with him will get you further than hiding or keeping secrets from him.

He will be able to tell if you are being dishonest so be very careful what you say to the Aries man. No matter how mad he may be, tell him what needs to be said.

Physically Active

Since the Aries man himself is often very active; he’ll seek a partner who is equal to him. He wants to get out and do stuff so he’ll want someone who can keep up with him.

He may be involved in sports, rock climbing, jogging, or various other things. If you enjoy these things or similar activities then you’ll get along with him just fine. It’s more fun for the two of you to take on some of these things together.

Aries man CAN do it alone but would prefer his mate to be with him. It’ll give him a sense of security in knowing that you two are building something wonderful together.

Whether you’re working out or doing something for fun; being active will be something he looks forward to and will drive his passion in life with you. He typically will not do well with women who are non-active or lazy.

If the two of you have children; he’ll likely want them to be active in activities with the school as well. He may want them in sports or into doing something that keeps them busy.

Allowing Him To Take Charge

He isn’t expecting the old-school scenario of the woman in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant. However; the Aries man will want you to allow him to be the man of the house.

He takes this role very seriously and it’s engrained in him to take care of his family. Even if you do not have children but are living together; he’ll want to take care of you.

If you allow him to feel like the leader in the house; he’ll treat you like a queen. It doesn’t mean you have to put up with any of his guff if he gives you a hard time. However; allowing him to pay the bills and do the “manly” thing will make him happy.

He wants to be the partner, husband, and father role. As long as you let him have that; he’ll always make sure that you have everything you need and/or want in your life.

Don’t let him bully you though. If it gets to a point where he’s trying to tell you what to do; that’s when you need to be honest and tell him where to stick it. Communication is important and so is compromise.

If you’re interested in what are the biggest turn-offs for an Aries man, continue reading here <<

How To Make An Aries Man Obsessed With You

Being Deferred To

Remember, an Aries man isn’t necessarily a backward guy. He understands women’s rights and he has no issue with them. But this doesn’t change the fact that no matter who is around him, he wants to be the boss.

He is ruled by the planet Mars which represents that sort of ‘boss’ energy (along with the planet Saturn). He has a deep urge to be the leader, in work, relationships, and otherwise.

If you’re the type of woman who enjoys a manly man who wants to take charge then this will be a great match for you!

An Athletic Woman

An Aries, as has been discussed, rules over physicality, exercise, and self-improvement. As a result, a high rate of Arian men are gym rats.

As you can imagine, he wants a woman who echoes this love of working out. It makes him happy that he and the person he is partnered with can go and enjoy the gym together.

It’s such a central part of so many Aries lives that it would be a huge plus if you shared the interest in fitness. It will not only allow you to get healthy together, but it will help the two of you bond and spend time together as well!


An Aries is someone who can’t fake confidence –it’s genuine. They also can’t be bothered to watch over someone else’s feelings… they expect those around them to be able to handle their own emotions.

Since they are not highly sympathetic or empathetic sign, it’s best if their partners are full of self-assurance. This is going to ensure that any of Aries’ jokes or pokes are going to bounce off of their partner and no feelings will be hurt. Everyone wins!

A Feminine Woman

Mars is the masculine planet in the solar system and this is represented through the Aries. Too much of the same thing doesn’t feel that great to anyone, and so they aren’t looking for a very masculine woman.

Mars defers to only one planet and that is Venus. An Aries who is properly evolved is going to respect the feminine Venusian-type women since they embody everything he can’t be!

An Aries man is going to go wild for feminine charm, style, and couth. He can do a lot of things, but being demure and graceful he struggles with them. For this reason, feminine people are the ones who will get his attention and respect with ease.

The Chase

An Aries man is all about games! He doesn’t appreciate a highly predictable romance. In fact, the best way to seduce an Aries man is to make him think he can’t have you!

Try playing a little cat and mouse with him. Act interested, just to go cold, just to fire it back up again. NOTHING will get an Aries man to chase you like this sort of hot and cold behavior!

Make Him Feel Useful

An Aries wants to be your knight in shining armor. He wants to be seen as the most capable and the best for any job you have to offer him.

If you ask him to come over and help you hang up some shelves, set up some furniture, or help you out with some home improvement he will be all over it! Anything to impress the fair lady.

Pick On Him

An Aries is going to openly accept a verbal battle! They think that this is the definition of flirting and fun. They will never pass up the opportunity to roast and be roasted!

Just be warned, Aries won’t hold back! Only engage in a battle that you’re prepared to fight in!

FAQ On How To Attract An Aries Man

There are some common questions I often get when it comes to attracting and seducing an Aries man. I have compiled a list of questions that come up that might help you to get this fiery man!

What Attracts An Aries Man Physically?

This man loves beautiful women. He isn’t quite hung up on any particular size, shape, type, or weight of a woman. He wants to see the woman in her natural beauty state.

However; if you’re going to lure him in; it would help to look your very best. You don’t need to look like a supermodel or look like someone you’re not. Having your hair neatly done and just making yourself appealing will help draw him in.

More than your exterior; your whole aura should give off an energy that draws this man in. That means being authentic around him. He will absolutely appreciate this. Aries men are themselves most of the time which means they hope to have the same from the woman of their heart. Be sweet, be funny, be witty. Whatever you’re best at; let it shine.

Flirt with him and allow him to flirt back. Then talk about things you know he finds interesting. These things combined will draw his interest for sure. You’ll stand out among all the others. Try not to put on too much makeup as he really does like a natural beauty far more than someone who wears a mask to cover up who they truly are. He wants to see the real you. Give it to him!

What Impresses An Aries Man?

The Aries man doesn’t mind having a verbal joust with you. In fact; it’ll impress him if you’ve got something intellectual to discuss. It lets him know how intelligent and alluring you are.

The thing to remember here is that even if you debate; be very careful not to break him down by criticizing him or talk with a condescending voice. He won’t respond well to this.

If you’re going to debate; be careful how you do it and make sure it stays clean. An example would be that you’re both into football but you like different teams. While you explain why your team is better; allow him to do the same.

Then to diffuse things and not make it too intense to where it sends up into a verbal brawl; you can deflect and start talking about other teams and how both your teams are far better than the rest.

Here’s more on how to make up with an Aries man after an argument.

Does An Aries Have A Preferred Type Of Woman?

While you may see eye to eye on many things with your Aries guy; he’ll also appreciate your feminine side. Bat your eyelashes at him or blow him kisses. Even if you’re a tomboy type; show your inner girl to him, he will love this.

An Aries man loves tough women but women who can also show their feminine side. He wants the best of both worlds. Wear a skirt from time to time to show off your lovely legs, he’ll love it.

Even if you’re still wearing your boots or sneakers; you’re still revealing that you’re a woman. If you’re already fairly feminine then this should be quite easy for you. However; he will respond to you best by being able to keep up with his favorite topics of conversation. Those may not be that feminine.

So you see, find a balance where you can be who you are and yet reveal your natural dual nature. An Aries man wants to see the real you through and through.

You may also want to readHow Does An Aries Man Like A Woman To Dress?

Should You Text An Aries Man First?

Aries men love initiation, they like it when a woman shows her interest by letting him know that she is interested in him. However, an Aries man still wants a conquest so it is important that you don’t make it too easy for him.

You can text him first sporadically, but it is probably best for you to wait for him to initiate a conversation. You don’t want to take out all the fun he has in pursuing you in the first place.

If you’re really bold you can try this 3-word message to text your Aries man to see how he might respond. Say to him “I want you” and see what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised, but this is for the very bold amongst you. 

If not, try this mind hack that makes an Aries man text you first.

My Final Thoughts On Aries Man Love Language

An Aries man in love is something you definitely need to experience once in your life. He is so affectionate, and he will make you feel like the most special girl on earth.

He has a way of zoning in on you and making you feel like only the two of you exist. An Aries man has quite a full-on way of expressing his love and will give you so much of his time and energy; this just happens to be his love language.

As an Aries man, he is one of those people who really need words of affirmation to feel loved and appreciated by their lover. They want to hear that they are these amazing men. That they are perfect.

He needs to know that their partner could never live without them and that they are the greatest person on earth. With any Aries, they feel like they can be their most authentic selves when someone just accepts them for who they are at their core.

Affirming words mean more to an Aries ma than you could possibly understand… So words of affirmation will make your Aries man feel really loved and like you are proud of him.

So lay it on thick, but of course, be genuine when you are with your Aries because he is good at sensing inauthenticity.

Read nextHow To Ask An Aries Man Out (11 Easy Ways)

Why Most Dating Advice Can Be Dangerous With An Aries Man?

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Aries man. And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with an Aries. You see, Aries men are VERY different than men of other signs. And if you use standard dating advice with an Aries, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…

So he’ll never want to lose you. He’ll be attracted to you like never before and he’ll cherish all the time you spend together.

And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either. These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is really just too superficial. We can’t all be the same and we can’t put all men in the world in just one single category and treat them as if they are all having the same temperament and personality. It just doesn’t make any sense.

And really, your wonderful Aries is NOT like other men… at ALL.

So go here now to find out the specific things your Aries man needs to hear to melt his heart.

Wishing you so much love and happiness

Your friend and relationship Astrologer

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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