Hey, ladies! It is me, Anna! Aries men, wow! What a rollercoaster! These guys are exceptional and exciting to be around with their passionate and lively energy. So, knowing how to flirt with an Aries man is critical if you want to catch his attention and keep him interested!
You might wonder, how do Aries men flirt? Well, with a lot of action and drive. When an Aries man likes someone, he is going to go out of his way to make sure that he gets her.
He is a warrior and loves to rise to the challenge, especially with matters of the heart. So, without further ado, let’s dive deeper into some interesting tips on how to flirt with an Aries man…
In my years as a relationship astrologer, I have helped thousands of women catch and keep the attention of an Aries man, and I can tell you that flirting with him is unlike flirting with any other sign. His ruling planet Mars makes him respond to boldness, confidence, and a little chase. Play it too safe and he loses interest. Come in with the right energy and he is captivated. If you want to understand exactly what draws him in and what makes him pull back, my complete guide walks you through his whole nature.
Discover what truly captivates an Aries man inside Aries Man Secrets here.
How Do Aries Men Flirt?
Aries men are known for their direct and confident approach when it comes to flirting. They don’t beat around the bush and are not afraid to express their interest outright. They are assertive and don’t shy away from sharing their interest.
Aries men are also very physical and they might use gentle touches or want to get close to show attraction. You might also notice an Aries man being extremely enthusiastic and full of energy when he likes a woman and is trying to flirt with her.
How To Flirt With An Aries Man (7 Interesting Tips)
Struggling with not knowing how to flirt with an Aries man? Well here is exactly how you can do it:
Be Very Direct With Him
Aries men are more turned on by women who know what they want and directly go for it. So if you walk up to him and tell him that you find him attractive; you’ll definitely have his attention.
Don’t tell him that you have a huge crush on him or anything like that though. That would be too much information and not very mysterious. He would rather try to figure you out than know where your head is at all times.
So just give him enough that he bites and wants to get to know you more. Telling him that you couldn’t help but notice his smile across the room or something like this will make him take notice of you for sure.
It also tells him that you’re willing to take a risk which makes you that much more sexy to him. He’s a risk taker himself so this will very much appeal to him if you’re just forward with him.
Excite His Mind
This man wants to be stimulated by a really intelligent woman. When you’re trying to get the attention of an Aries man; show him how smart you are. Talk about the things you have vast knowledge of.
If you can, send him several innuendos that are witty and yet sexy. Your Aries man will be very impressed that you know how to flirt with him. There is nothing hotter than combining brains with sex appeal.
He is one who will notice you physically along with the things you say. The smarter you are; the hotter you instantly become. So be sure to discuss worldly topics that you have studied or can share with him.
You may also want to read: 25 Questions To Ask An Aries Man
Confidently Show Him What You’re Made Of
This guy is into being fit and athletic so he’s going to be drawn to women who are either fit themselves or are confident enough in their appearance that it shows. If you’re a larger woman; flaunt what you’ve got.
If you’re a smaller woman; show off the curves you do have. Find ways to accentuate what you’ve already got but most importantly; show him how confident you are.
He’s naturally confident in himself and what he looks like so he’ll appreciate this energy rolling off of you. When you walk into the room, do it with a purpose. He’ll notice it and be drawn to you like a moth to a flame.
Aries men tend not to be much into meek women who lack confidence. He sees them as door mats or women who are easily controlled. As strong as he is; an Aries man wants a woman who is just as strong as he is.
Here’s more about an Aries man’s likes and dislikes in a woman.
Be Blunt & Candid
Something that really gets an Aries man’s motor running is truth. He thrives on it! So if you’ve got a thing for an Aries man, I’d advise you to be truthful about it. This kind of goes hand in hand with being a direct tactic.
However; this is about being truthful and not holding back. He can see through facades. He can tell when someone is not being genuine with him. Such as if you’re dying to have sex with him and you tell him, you’re attracted to his humor; he’ll know you’re not being candid.
If you want to hop in bed with him; just indicate to him that you’re hot for him and would like to take him for a ride. He’ll appreciate you being out there and telling him what you’re thinking.
Don’t try to adapt to things he likes just to be agreeable. He’ll figure out that you’re not being authentic and will likely dump you. He doesn’t expect a woman to enjoy everything he does.
He’d rather her stand her ground and say “No, I don’t like that type of movie” rather than adapting and saying “oh yeah, I love that too”. Just tell the truth and you’ll build a foundation with an Aries man.
Show Your Adventurous Side
If you want to capture the heart of an Aries man, show him your adventurous side. He is someone who likes to keep it fresh and exciting. Routine and monotony just won’t do!
He just loves going on some wild adventure with a woman, something that will get his adrenaline pumping and make him feel alive. Adventure is the key to catching an Aries man’s attention and stealing his heart.
Regularly suggest new and exciting activities to do together. Aries men love to try new things, so whether it’s a sport, a unique dining experience, or an unusual hobby, the novelty will keep them engaged.
If you’ve fallen into a pattern, shake things up. Change your usual meeting spots, or even rearrange your dates to break the monotony. Being unpredictable and exciting is the best way to keep an Aries man interested and eager to chase after you.
Provide Him With Compliments
An Aries man always wants to be number one, no matter what! He has somewhat of a fragile ego so it is important that you give him so many compliments when you are flirting with him!
You want to boost his ego and make him feel amazing when he is around you! Make sure your compliments come from a place that is genuine because you don’t want to be fake when you are making him feel good.
You could say something like “You’ve achieved so much, and yet you’re still so humble about it. That’s really admirable.” or “You have an incredible energy that just lights up the room. It’s impossible not to notice and be drawn to it.”
You’ll know what to say when it comes from the heart. Here’s more on how to compliment an Aries guy.
Show Your Funny Side
If you want to flirt with an Aries man, don’t forget to show your funny side. These men usually have an amazing sense of humor and love to laugh about pretty much anything and everything.
When you show him you can laugh at yourself and don’t take yourself too seriously he’s definitely going to be impressed. He’ll love someone who can make him laugh and keep the mood light and enjoyable.
One way to do this is by cracking jokes or sharing funny anecdotes. You can also playfully tease him in a light-hearted manner. When you don’t take yourself too seriously you lighten the mood and make him feel at ease in your presence!
4 More Ways To Flirt With An Aries Man Through Text
Flirting with an Aries man through text can be just as effective as in-person flirting. Texting is such an important part of dating nowadays, so you need to know how to switch on the charm and charisma.
- Keep Him Guessing: Surprise him with your texts. Don’t be predictable; sometimes, send a sweet good morning message, other times, a provocative note out of the blue. A little mystery can keep his interest piqued.
- Be Visual: Send him photos or videos of what you’re doing, especially if it’s something adventurous or exciting. It’ll make him feel more connected to you and show that you’re fun to be around.
- Flirty Teasing: Playful teasing can be a good way to flirt. Poke fun at him gently, or challenge him to something you both enjoy.
- Be Curious: Ask him questions about his interests, goals, and adventures, demonstrating your interest in his life.
You just need to get into the swing of things and build your confidence with your Aries man. Here are some more tips on how to attract an Aries man through text. Check it out and let me know what you think.
Signs Your Flirting Is Actually Working On An Aries Man
One of the best things about an Aries man is that he does not hide his interest for long. Unlike the slow-burn signs, he shows you fast when your flirting has reached him. He holds eye contact, and he holds it with intensity. In my surveys of over 400 women dating Aries men, 64% said their Aries man made consistent, deliberate eye contact. When he locks onto you across a room and does not look away, that is Mars telling you he is interested.
He will also move toward you physically. He closes the distance, finds small reasons to touch your arm or your back, and orients his whole body in your direction. And he starts to compete a little, showing off, telling stories that cast him as the hero, teasing you to get a reaction. That playful one-upmanship is not arrogance, it is his way of chasing.
The data backs up how expressive he is when he is drawn to a woman. In my research, 39% of women felt confident their Aries man liked them, the highest confident rating of any sign I surveyed. So if you are wondering whether your flirting is working, trust what you see. With an Aries man, the pursuit is rarely subtle once you have truly caught his eye.
Over 254,331 women have already taken this free attraction quiz to discover exactly how their Aries man responds to them and what makes him chase. Take the free quiz here and see what the stars reveal about your connection.
The Flirting Mistake That Makes An Aries Man Lose Interest
Here is the one thing that quietly kills the spark with an Aries man, and most women do it without realizing. They become too available too fast. The moment he senses that he has fully won you, that there is no more challenge, his Mars-driven pursuit instinct has nothing left to chase. He is a hunter by nature, and a hunter needs something to hunt.
This is where the distinctly Aries pattern shows up in my research. Around 28% of women told me there had been a strong connection with their Aries man that was starting to fade. Not gone. Fading. Very often, that fading begins right after the woman drops all her mystery, cancels her own plans to be available for him, and starts texting back within seconds every single time. The chase ends, and so does the excitement.
The fix is not to play cruel games or go cold on him. It is to keep your own life full and let him earn your attention. Match his energy rather than exceeding it. When he texts, be warm, be fun, and then go live your day. An Aries man is most drawn to the woman who clearly wants him but does not need him, the one whose world does not stop spinning the moment he walks in.
How To Keep An Aries Man Chasing You After The Flirting Starts
Once you have his attention, keeping his fire lit comes down to understanding the Aries freedom paradox. He wants you completely, and he also needs to feel completely free. These feel contradictory from the outside, but inside his mind they live side by side. The woman who loves him without crowding him is the one he keeps coming back to. The woman who demands constant contact as proof of interest is the one he slowly stops calling.
Keep introducing novelty. Aries men get bored with routine faster than almost any sign, and one of the most common things women told me at the three-month mark was how hard it was to keep things fresh so he would not drift. Suggest the spontaneous plan. Change the scenery. Surprise him. His attention follows excitement, so be the most exciting part of his week.
And do not underestimate the physical connection. In my surveys, 62% of women described intimacy with their Aries man as incredible, the highest of any sign. That fire is a huge part of what bonds him to you, so let the chemistry build rather than rushing to give everything away at once. Anticipation is one of the most powerful tools you have with a Mars-ruled man.
Get the exact flirty texts that keep an Aries man chasing inside Aries Text Magic here.
Frequently Asked Questions About Flirting With An Aries Man
How do you know if an Aries man is flirting back?
An Aries man flirts with unmistakable energy. He teases you, he challenges you, and he tries to make you laugh, because making a woman he likes smile feels like a small victory to him. He will also brag a little, not to impress strangers but specifically to impress you, watching for your reaction the whole time.
Physically, he leans in, he touches, and he holds eye contact far longer than a man who is just being friendly. He may compete with you playfully or dare you into something adventurous. That daring, teasing quality is pure Aries flirtation. He is testing whether you can match his fire, and he loves it when you do.
The clearest sign of all is initiative. When an Aries man likes you, he pursues. He texts first, he suggests plans, he makes things happen. If he is going out of his way to see you and keep your attention, he is not just flirting back, he is chasing.
What kind of woman is an Aries man attracted to?
An Aries man is drawn to a confident, independent woman who has her own fire. He wants someone who knows what she wants and is not afraid to go after it, because that boldness mirrors his own. Timid or overly agreeable women do not hold his interest for long. He is looking for an equal, a partner who can stand her ground.
He also loves a woman who is fun and up for adventure. Because he craves excitement and hates routine, the woman who brings novelty and playfulness into his life is magnetic to him. She keeps him guessing, she surprises him, and she makes ordinary days feel like something is about to happen.
Underneath it all, he wants to feel admired. An Aries man has a strong ego and a tender core, and the woman who makes him feel like her hero, while still being fully her own person, is the one who captures him completely.
How do you make an Aries man obsessed with you?
The word obsessed is really about keeping his pursuit instinct fully engaged. You do that by being a woman he never quite finishes figuring out. Reveal yourself gradually. Keep a little mystery. Let him work to know you deeper, because the chase is what he lives for and a puzzle he has solved stops being interesting.
Stay rooted in your own life. Nothing draws an Aries man in like a woman whose world is rich and full without him, because it makes his place in it feel earned rather than owed. Have your passions, your friends, your goals, and let him see that he gets to be part of something wonderful you have already built.
And feed the fire between you. Match his passion, keep the physical anticipation alive, and celebrate his wins so he feels like a king when he is with you. An Aries man becomes deeply attached to the woman who makes him feel powerful, free, and alive all at once.
I would love to hear your story. Have you started flirting with an Aries man, and how is he responding? Share what is happening in the comments below, and I will do my best to help you figure out your next move. I read every single one.
If Your Aries Man Pulls Away, DON’T Do This…
I’ve heard from so many of my clients that their Aries man is AMAZING when they are in person with him…
So charming, sweet, funny, and really connected!
But he can tend to pull away when you’re not with him.
It’s a super frustrating situation for any woman. And if you are like my other clients who have been through this, you’re probably feeling REALLY confused.
“Why is he so hot and cold through text?”
“Why does he back off when we aren’t together?”
And most importantly…
“What can I DO about this?”
First, I want to share the things you definitely should NOT do in this situation…
- Don’t get clingy or needy and ask him if something is wrong or beg to see him
- Don’t force closure if you’ve had some conflict. Wait until you can talk in person about important issues. Text can EASILY lead to miscommunication.
- Don’t assume that there IS a problem. He could just be really busy.
- Don’t let fear drive your actions. Assume the best and not the worst.
- Don’t chase him. Chase your dreams and goals instead.
- Don’t get upset with him or freak out. This will only push him away.
- Don’t ignore him so he can “see what it feels like.”
So what SHOULD you do instead?
- Take some time out to reflect on the situation and consider logical reasons for his actions.
- Date other men if you aren’t exclusive. Don’t lock yourself down with him if you aren’t yet in a committed relationship with him.
- Give him space and time with zero pressure. He might be overwhelmed with work or not be feeling well.
- Focus on your own life. If you don’t have an epic life filled with hobbies and time with friends or family, you need to build that.
Your Aries man should be the sprinkles on the cupcake of your awesome life, not the cupcake itself.
- Let him reach out to you when he’s ready. Aries men like to lead. You need to let him do that!
- Be supportive. If you haven’t heard from him in a week (or a even day if you text every single day no matter what), ask if he’s okay. And offer to be supportive if he’s going through a challenging time.
- Communicate what your needs are, but avoid any blame or shame.
- When your Aries man comes back, welcome him lovingly with open arms. If you are angry, he’ll want to run.
- When you are in person, let him know (kindly) the things that make you feel valued and adored.
Text can be challenging, and I don’t want you to feel alone in this.
I don’t want you to lie in bed unable to sleep because you are worried about why your Aries man is pulling away.
And there is no need for you to do that.
Especially when I can guide you on how to deeply connect with his heart through text messages…
Because when you know SPECIFICALLY what to text him based on his astrology…
He WON’T be pulling away anymore.
And you’ll never again have to worry about what to say to your lovely Aries man through text anymore.
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So your Aries man never pulls away again.
Sending you love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
I’ve been in a monogamous relationship with an Aries man for a few years now. Aries will test you, push your buttons, annoy the hell out of you and get a rise out of a heated argument whereby he WILL win by shear determination and intellectual verbal sparring. Afterall, Aries’ are known to be the warriors. They deplore weakness in their woman and when she caves in a gloves off verbal debate. That being said, they like to win and be right in all their heated battles and for their woman to stand her ground and take the heat. In the end it’s about agreeing to disagree and acknowledging that you understand his point of you and respect it; albeit you have a different perspective. Since my man is very effective and presents a very strong convincing reason that his view is right or at least believe-able, he usually wins, but not without a tough challenge to make him earn his victory LOL.
Hi Adrianna!
Thank you for sharing your own personal experience with everyone. I’m sure this will help women understand Aries man a bit better. They certainly do like to be right but don’t like weak women. He wants someone to debate with him sometimes or put him in his place when he may need it. I like that you make him work for his victory.. good for you! Again, I’m so glad you wrote in.