How An Aries Man Shows Love – Expressing Affection

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer

Aries men are firecrackers. They are full of passion and excitement, especially when it comes to matters of love and romance. When they see a woman they like, an Aries man will go for it without thinking twice. 

An Aries man leaps before he looks in his relationships. He is very instinctual and just goes for what he is feeling at that particular moment. He doesn’t rationalize his emotions, he just feels into them. 

This can be a very exciting and passionate experience for any woman to go through. An Aries man certainly knows how to pump up the volume when it comes to love. There is no one else who does it quite as passionately as an Aries. 

Is this something you’re intrigued about? How does an Aries man show love? Would you like to know if he is into you? Perhaps he is in love with you? How does an Aries man show affection? Well, I have the answers for you! Keep on reading to find out how an Aries man shows love:

Aries Man And Affection – Are Aries Men Affectionate?

Aries men are quite physical people, which means these guys are really affectionate. They love showing their love by being physical. This is the type of guy who will hold your hand, kiss your forehead, and give you a playful smack on the bum. 

He loves to touch and be touched when he has feelings for a woman. It is his favourite part of being in a relationship. Knowing that he can be close to someone and physically intimate. 

Aries men are very physical. They like for their partner to be as equally physical. Not just in activities but with each other. He will make sure you’ve got plenty of kisses, love, and snuggles.

He will not leave you hanging unless he’s decided you’re not the one. Otherwise, he will have a hard time keeping his hands off you. You’re him after all and he will cherish this as long as he’s in love.

In fact, one of the ways you can tell that he is no longer in love is if he ever pulls back on the affection. Otherwise, you can expect to be totally bombarded by his hands all over you all the time.

If you’re not a physical type then he may not be right for you. If you are, you’ve hit the jackpot. He will show absolute adoration of your physical body to make sure you get that he’s the one that will always fulfil you.

He’s incredibly sexual so it will be no surprise that if he’s in love with you, he’ll want you in bed more often than when you were just beginning. The love combines with passion and thus creating a pleasurable situation for you both.

How An Aries Man Shows Love – 5 Unnoticed Ways An Aries Man Shows Love

1. An Aries Man Becomes Protective Of You

An Aries is ruled by the planet Mars and this heavy-hitting planet is associated with conflict and war. As a result, he’s got no issue stepping up to protect what he loves. 

An Aries in love is going to be very obviously defensive of you and will become enraged by your sadness… not at you, but to whoever did this to you!

He is always ready to throw down, but it helps if he has a reason for it. An Aries justified in his anger is a force to be reckoned with, so don’t take advantage.

One thing is for sure, when your beau is tough-guy Aries then you have nothing to fear because he will fight through hell and high water to ensure that you’re protected from all who would dare harm you!

While protective can sometimes lead to possessiveness or jealousy; he will feel incredibly responsible for your safety. He feels it’s his duty in life as the alpha male to make sure his female is absolutely out of harm’s way.

He will make sure your car is up to inspection, he’ll make sure all your windows in your home are secure and he may insist on your carrying some pocket mace on your keychain or perhaps even some pistol training.

This guy will do what he feels is necessary to make sure the woman he loves is not going to get hurt in any way. Unfortunately he isn’t good at guarding from emotional hurt. He himself hasn’t yet mastered that.

He could teach you martial arts or may insist you take a self protection course so that you can have that extra layer of knowledge in case someone tries to attack you when he isn’t around to guard you.

Again, this could lead to him being a bit possessive as he is untrusting of others being around you; especially when he cannot be there to monitor the situation. Anything that could cause him to lose you makes him extremely nervous.

2. An Aries Man Becomes Playful With You

Each Zodiac sign represents a certain age depending on their order, and Aries being the first sign means that they are the small children of the Zodiac. As a result, he likes to goof off and have a good time!

He doesn’t want to play alone though. He’ll make sure to mess around with you and act like a fool in the cutest way possible. 

Think about how little kids do things just to make their parents giggle at them. That’s an Aries! He is dedicated to getting you to play around with him because it’s part of how he bonds.

As a result, you should probably have a high tolerance for fun and games because an Aries in love sees no better playmate than his lady love!

3. An Aries Man Pushes Your Boundaries

Almost as an extension of my previous point, an Aries may take his play to the level of trying to get your goat a little bit. He thinks intentionally bugging you is a blast and he can’t think of a better way to spend his time. 

This is because even if he isn’t legitimately angry, an Aries always appreciates a little healthy contention. He likes to play fight and he loves to see you get just a little bit testy with him!

He’s a fire sign who is constantly seeking stimulation. In his mind, it’s him against everyone else, but not necessarily in a bad way. He just likes a little healthy competition and if firing you up is the easiest way to get you reacting to his jabs, then he won’t hesitate!

4. An Aries Man Is Straightforward About His Feelings

Aries men are admirably straightforward with their thoughts. They typically have no issue telling you what they are feeling and thinking about you. 

This is why an Aries in love is going to tell you all the time just how much he loves you! He isn’t embarrassed, his only obligation is to be true to himself after all. And if his truth is that he loves you then so be it. 

See, even the manly man of the Zodiac is down to get gushy… as long as that’s genuinely how he feels about you then it’s fair game. 

5. An Aries Man Wants To Take The Next Step

Aries men are not ones to take their sweet time doing anything at all. In fact, they’re the type to act first, and think later. 

If an Aries is really into you and he knows it, then he wants to get this show on the road! He’ll be talking about a future with you and asking when you two can move in together and live happily ever after. 

He isn’t one that appreciates uncertainty and waiting around will have him pulling his hair out! That’s why you may find him pressuring you to agree to locking the relationship down and getting serious.

How Does An Aries Man Treat His Woman?

1. An Aries Man Buys Gifts

When an Aries man is falling in love, he’ll actually pay attention to you, what you like, what you don’t like, and other details. This makes it easier for him to get you a little something that will make you feel happy.

Ultimately for him to get you to be happy and make him happy, he’ll do what he has to in order to make you feel good about him. He’s always trying to impress you that way you’ll stroke his ego.

So gift-giving is a twofold process. He’s able to please you and show you he loves you while earning brownie points to later be rewarded. When you’re in the midst of a loving relationship with an Aries man, he’ll be sweet.

He will work hard to charm you so that you understand that you’re the one he wants. This will involve the giving of gifts in many different forms. This could be an extravagant date or it could be a simple rose he brings home for you.

Whatever it is, you’ll feel as though you’re important to him and that will make him feel good about being a man that you can rely on.

2. An Aries Man Pays Attention

This is one of the few guys in the zodiac that will actually start to really pay attention to what you like, what you want, and who you are if he’s in love with you or falling for you.

He will remember details that you thought maybe he didn’t hear. If your favorite candy bar is a Snickers; he’ll randomly bring you one. He may notice you’re dealing with your monthly cycle and bring you chocolate because he knows it makes you feel better.

This man observes and stores pertinent information about you because he’s invested in you. So though he may not say he loves you much or at all; he is effectively showing you he cares by taking careful steps.

This is the guy that will bring you flowers and not just any flower; your favorite flower. Even if he has to special order them and have them delivered at a certain time and date; he’ll do it.

Ultimately the Aries man wants to be the King in your life and in return; he will treat you as his Queen. That may mean not telling you in words how he feels but if you can handle it; live large!

Enjoy each day that your Aries man does whatever he has to in order to show you how he feels. This is actually far more rewarding than having a guy that says “I love you” all the time but then acts very differently.

3. He’ll Want A Lot Of Sex

One thing I could never forget to mention when it comes to the Aries is how epic their sex drive is in general! Yup, these guys are absolute freaks in sheets. Quality and quantity both are important to them… at least with a girl they really love!

Aries isn’t what you’d call consistent in most ways, but if you light your ram’s fire then be prepared to be absolutely inundated with requests to get wild! 

It’s true, an Aries man can be satisfied with sex from anyone, but the quality won’t be nearly as good. Aries are obsessed with being the best, and they can really perfect their technique with a single partner. They won’t be satisfied until you tell him he’s the best you’ve ever had!

The Aries man is a very physical sort. He will want to show you how he feels about you by making sure you are well satisfied in the bedroom. He’s great at what he does and can sometimes be rather prideful about it.

When he really loves a woman, he will do what it takes to make sure she gets the ultimate pleasure package each and every time they are together. He will even suggest adventurous new positions or places.

If you have ideas of your own; he’ll be open to it as he doesn’t have too many boundaries in the areas of sexual appetite. He really enjoys having his hands and lips on you as much as possible.

In fact; he may be kissing you quite a bit throughout the day. Even if all you’re doing is walking past him to grab something off the counter; he’ll smack you on the rear and give you a smooch.

He really loves to make out. This man has no problem at all dishing out as much affection as you’d like so don’t be afraid of being neglected by your Aries guy. He only heads for the hills if he’s bored or jumps in too quickly.

Once he meets the woman who makes him take his time; he’ll fall for her hard and heavy. That means she’s the one that will likely have him for life. So take your time ladies!

4. An Aries Man Puts You First

It is certain that when an Aries man falls for you, he’ll treat you like there is no other woman in the world. He’ll stare deeply into your eyes, he’ll romance you and show you plenty of passion.

He will make sure that you are well pleased in bed. This has something to do with him pleasing you in order for you to give him positive feedback. Once more, this is a motive that makes you feel good as well as gives him an ego boost.

The Aries man will also want to take you out to show you off. It’s a status thing with him so that he looks good to everyone else around him. In the process, you’ll get the royal treatment.

He’ll take care of you, he’ll make sure that his woman is well pleased in all areas of life. You can expect that he will be prince charming to woo you and make you his future queen.

5. He Does Things For You

Since Aries men do not often say how they feel; they will find ways to show you instead. When he really cares for you or loves you; he will want to fix whatever it is you need done.

If your car is acting up and you tell him; he’ll do whatever it is that needs to be worked on because he wants you to be safe and happy. That is the key is making you happy.

This is the guy that you can hand a “honey do” list and he’ll do it happily if it’s something that will make you feel happy. See how that works? That is ultimately how he shows you how he feels.

He’s dependable and will be at your side when you really need him. He may do things for you when you least expect it as well such as giving your vehicle an oil change or buying you new tires.

The Aries man isn’t one for words when it comes to letting his love flow but he will go out of his way to physically show you. He always wants to know you’re happy with him, with your life, and safe.

Does An Aries Man Like Public Displays Of Affection?

Typically the initiation will be with the Aries man. He’ll instigate; unless of course, his lady love wants to surprise him. It’s not a bad idea to keep him on his toes by planting a big ole smooch on him out of nowhere.

It will also turn him on if you grope him out in public when he’s not suspecting you to do it. The spontaneity makes him see you as more mysterious and thus will keep the chase alive in his mind.

He wants to chase you. Even after he’s obtained you; he wants to keep the chase going because it’s what feeds his energetic needs. He’s a person that likes to be very active and sex is one of his favorite activities.

You can expect that after you two have made a public spectacle that he will absolutely want to dominate you in the bedroom once you manage to make it home. He may not be able to wait though.

He could get excited enough that he’ll want to take you somewhere nearby where you’re still somewhat public but maybe not actually seen. The whole thing will make him explode in ecstasy.

Ideally, it would be in the back of a bus, train, plane, or somewhere where there are people in front of you that could get up or turn around at any point. The possibility of getting caught makes it more thrilling.

You’ve got plenty of possibilities if you’re actually into doing this sort of thing. He certainly will have no qualms with giving it a try if you two haven’t done it already.

Aries men are very physical. They like for their partner to be as equally physical. Not just in activities but with each other. He will make sure you’ve got plenty of kisses, love, and snuggles.

Conclusion – Aries Man Love Language

An Aries man in love is something you definitely need to experience once in your life. He is so affectionate and will make you feel like the most special girl on earth. 

He has a way of zoning in on you and making you feel like only the two of you exist. He has quite a full-on way of expressing his love. He will give you so much of his time and his energy. This just happens to be his love language. 

As an Aries man, he is one of those people who really needs words of affirmation to feel loved and appreciated by their lover. They want to hear that they are these amazing men. That they are perfect. 

An Aries man needs to know that their partner could never live without them and that they are the greatest person on earth. With any Aries, they feel like they can be their most authentic self when someone just accepts them for who they are at their core. 

All an Aries man truly wants is acceptance because they realize that their personalities are quite out there and not everyone can always handle it.

Aries men are direct people, and so they tend to take things that others say at face value, further emphasizing the weight of your loving words. You have the ability to melt him with what you have to say.

Affirming words mean more to an Aries ma than you could possibly understand.

An Aries man tends to get quite riled up when someone criticizes them. This makes him want to prove himself more because an Aries man just cannot settle to be anything other than the best.

Words of affirmation should be used to tell an Aries man what they have done right, not to scold him or criticize him.

Words of affirmation will make your Aries man feel really loved and like you are proud of him.

So lay it on thick, but of course be genuine, when you are with your Aries because he is good at sensing inauthenticity.

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Making an Aries man fall in love with you isn’t so easy because he is such an independent guy

He is a straightforward guy who loves a wild woman in the bedroom

Being with an Aries man can be a totally new experience, he is so crazy, adventurous, and open-minded

You have probably never felt like this about anyone

This man speaks to your soul, and you feel such a deep connection with him, but are you the only one?

These men are some of the most desirable in the whole Zodiac sign

He is sexy, smart, and incredibly exciting

So it makes so much sense why you are so drawn to your Aries man

He makes you feel like the most amazing woman in the world and his positivity gives you all the confidence you need

However, things seem to be going askew with the two of you

But how can you know what went wrong?

What did you do?

Are you still exciting enough for him?

There is so much to uncover when you make your Aries man run away

It is like he becomes a different person, totally unwilling to pay you attention

It is crucial that you understand what you need to avoid so that you don’t make your Aries man annoyed

It is such a pity that recently it seems like he is been trying to actively avoid you

You just can’t seem to understand why your Aries man keeps ignoring you

You are sure that you didn’t do something wrong

And when you ask him he says it is nothing

But you know deep down in your gut that this just isn’t true

Why can’t he just be honest with you so that you can fix it

He is pulling away, and you know it

If only there was something you could do to repair the relationship to its former glory

You would do anything in the world to have your Aries man look at you the way he once did

You love him with all your heart and you want to fix what is broken

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There are definitely ways that you can turn all of this around and make your Aries man putty in your hands

However, you need to be ready to commit to this change because wants it has been made then there is no going back

There is so much you still have to learn about Aries men and the way they respond to love and romance

And you deserve to know this information because it can be invaluable in the way you show up in your relationships

The relationship you have always wanted is at your fingertips

It just depends on you if you are ready to reach out and grab it

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Wishing you so much love and happiness

Your friend and relationship Astrologer

Anna Kovach

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Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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