13 Signs An Aries Man Is Falling In Love With You

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Aries man's "in love behavior" decoded by a Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach. Discover 11 signs of an Aries man in love.

Let’s face it ladies – Aries men don’t always have the best reputation when it comes to commitment. Signs an Aries man is falling in love with you aren’t always easy to recognize. You will need to read between the lines.

The thing is, Aries men are totally wild when it comes to love. They see love as a race and a conquest. This means that when an Aries man is in love, he falls incredibly hard and incredibly fast.

When he first feels those pangs of affection, he tends to throw himself into the deep end. However, the problem with a man that falls in love so quickly, is that he can also fall out of love just as quickly.

He might promise you the world, but there is also a major chance that an Aries man is only feeling infatuation, not true love. So what are the real signs an Aries man is falling for you? 

Be sure to continue reading to find out what it means when an Aries man kisses you, and what else you can expect from an Aries man when he is falling in love:

Aries Man Falling In Love How Does He Act When In Love?

An Aries man has a very special way of showing his love. He isn’t the type of guy to try and hide his feelings from the world. He wears his heart on his sleeve and is always open and honest about his affections. 

Love is important to him and he wants it to be pure and true. An Aries man in love will go out of his way to make the woman in his life feel loved and cared for. This will absolutely become his priority. 

The whole world will notice how much he cares for you. When an Aries man is in love he isn’t shy about what he is feeling and wants to share it with the people in his life. He will want to show you off and make everyone know that you are his. 

He is so expressive and brutally honest about his affection for the woman he loves. He is definitely one of those guys who wants to share his feelings by shouting them from the rooftop. 

How many of the following signs does your Aries man show you? Do you think it is possible that he is in love with you? Let me know in the comments below.

10 Obvious Signs An Aries Man Is Falling In Love With You

1. When An Aries Man Kisses You

An Aries man is hard to pin down in the first place as he’s one who could happily play the field the rest of his life. However; once he does find someone that he knows he could settle down with; he does.

He’s already super flirty and affectionate to be sure. Sex is one of his favourite hobbies. However; it seems to intensify or become more meaningful when he’s in love.

You’ll notice that something has shifted when he starts to change the degrees of his affection. Any increase or shift that makes you feel more “in tune” with him will be a clue that he’s in love with you.

Aries men can go either way in love or in sex. He’s typically honest and upfront about it though. If he’s in love with you; he’ll certainly let you know rather than make you wonder.

If he’s in love with you; he’ll smother you in affection. Kissing is one of his all-time favourites. If every time you turn around; he’s in a lip lock with you; he’s probably falling in love with you. 

You sit and think “An Aries man kissed me on the forehead.” What does this mean? Does it mean that he is in love with you? Well, chances are very good, darling!

2. He Is Talking About The Future

If an Aries man is in love with you; he’ll focus on trying to build a life together. He’ll want to spend lots of time with you and take you on some adventures. He will try to do whatever he can to put a smile on your face.

This also means he’ll laugh at your jokes or funny actions even if you’re not trying to be all that funny. He just wants you to feel good and confident in yourself and in him.

It’s not easy to rope an Aries in because he is a lover of adventure and he can easily become bored. In this way; he’s much like Sagittarius who is one of his best matches; by the way.

If he’s in love with you; he’ll start talking about serious future plans. Even if he’s not ready to discuss marriage, he may ask you to move in or he may ask you what you’d like your future to be with him.

Once he settles down; he’s all in and that means getting everything in order. Your life together is in the process of being built and worked at. This lets you know how he feels.

3. He Is Protective Over You

When an Aries man falls in love; he becomes very protective. He will go out of his way to make sure you’re safe and sound. If he isn’t the one driving you; he may ask you to text message or call him to let him know you’re safe.

He will want to make sure you have various forms of protection in your purse or the state-of-the-art alarm on your house/vehicle. He’s not messing around when he’s in love. He wants you to remain happy and unharmed.

He may at some point insist you move in with him so that he can make sure that he has nothing to worry about there in his arms. If not; he will stay in constant contact with you to make sure you’re good.

4. He Treats You Like Family

Aries men like to play a lot before they settle down with one person. That usually means they will not just bring their fling or non-serious girlfriend home to meet his family.

He also will not tend to share his time with you and his friends at the same time. He saves this for the woman he loves. If he invites you to go out and do something with him and his friends; he most likely loves you.

For certain if he brings you home to meet his family; he’s serious about you and loves you. This is one of the biggest signs you can ever possibly have when it comes to the Aries man.

Finding togetherness with family or those he treats as a family means that he now sees you as becoming part of the family. This is a true sign of love for this man who ordinarily goes home stag to avoid any questions.

5. Aries Man Is All In

The way it works with Aries is that he is an “all or nothing” type of guy. He can either be fully committed to one woman or he could date multiple women. The important thing to remember here is that he is honest about it.

If you’re exclusive with him; he’s not going to lie to you. He’s going to live up to what he’s agreed with you. If you haven’t established this; you may want to have a talk with him to establish your desires.

Otherwise, when this man is in love and fully committed then he is definitely “all in”.  Either he isn’t serious at all or he is serious. He will let you know which one it is. He won’t leave you in the dark.

If you are ever uncertain of him; ask him. He’ll tell you how he feels and what he wants. If he loves you; he’ll for sure let you know he does whether in words or with actions.

The best thing you can possibly do when it comes to Aries is to simply communicate with him. Get to know him; keep the dialect open and make sure that the two of you are on the same page.

Aries is a very sensual and adventurous man who seeks someone who will help him fulfill the excitement in his life. Once he finds this; he’s ready to settle down. He is a flirt but he will contain himself better once he’s in love.

There isn’t any reason for you to not know whether or not he’s in love with you. You will feel it through and through not to mention his ability to go out of his way to make you feel happy, safe, and appreciated.

6. Aries Man Introduces You To Friends

Bringing you home means a whole lot to the Aries man. He won’t just take anyone home. So if you suddenly get invited to hang out with him and his friends and/or his family; you’re in!

When you’re in; you are loved. Aries will do what he can to protect his family which means he’s careful who he brings around them. Sharing you with his family means he loves you and sees a future with him.

His friends are like extended family and so when he invites you to meet them and spend time with them; he’s including you in the family thus meaning that he is in love with you are or is falling in love with you.

Likewise; he may ask to meet your family or friends. He wants to see where you come from and what type of people you are surrounded by. This makes him feel included in your family or friend circle.

7. He Shows You Affection

Aries men can struggle with their emotions from time to time. When they know they’re falling in love or are in love; they are ready to open up and let the right person in.

This means he will show you more devotion and affection. He’ll be touchy feely with you because he doesn’t want to lose the feeling of your touch when he’s not with you.

He will want to show you physically how he feels. Aries is a very physical man. He wants to show you how he feels more than he wants to tell you. In this respect, he’s similar to Taurus men.

If you notice he wants to hold your hand more, give you soft kisses on your forehead, or brush your hair out of your face; he may very well be sprung and in love with you.

If you want your love to grow, make sure you check out the phrases to melt his heart.

He’ll appreciate that you’re expressing your feelings in an irresistible manner.

8. Aries Man Pays Attention

When an Aries man is in love; he watches his love. He learns all the quirky things about you including your habits or rituals. He will actually come to adore them unless they’re toxic of course.

He wants to make sure you have everything you need and/or want. If you want a man that wants to take care of his lady love; this would be an Aries man. He can be stubborn sometimes but he loves fiercely.

Seeing your Aries man bring you a warm glass of milk at your normal bedtime because it’s something you’ve always done and he’s noticed; shows you he loves you.

9. Aries Man Will Do Anything For You

The Aries man is happy when his lady love is happy. That means he will go out of his way to make sure that you’re content with everything in your life. There are times he may try to solve your problems but he will need to understand there are some things you must fix yourself.

This chivalry though; shows you that he just loves you so much that he wants your life to flow smoothly and be happy. He wants your very core to feel love, joy, and contentment.

Do you need a ride? He’ll be there. Do you need someone to guard you? He’s there. Do you want a man to make you feel safe and loved? That’s an Aries man. He’s a stand-up guy who wants to see you smile.

10. Aries Man Spends Quality Time With You

When he’s in love; the Aries man will want to spend lots of time with you. He isn’t like Taurus, Aquarius, and Gemini who need lots of free time and space. Not to say that he hates it but he loves time with you more.

This man will walk you to your car and have trouble letting you go. He’ll keep grabbing you and giving you “just one more kiss”. He truly loves being close to the woman he loves.

If you’re a woman that likes to have a bit of personal freedom; you may have trouble getting the Aries man to give you a bit of space. When he’s in love; he’s hot, heavy, and “all in”.

3 More Signs An Aries Man Is Falling For You

11. He’s Not Afraid To Commit

When it comes to love and relationships, the Aries man is not your typical settle-down type.

For the majority of the time, the Aries man is most interested in self-mastery and exploration. Rather than focusing on building a life of love, he wants to build a life of adventure and self-expression.

He doesn’t like feeling tied down or held back from pursuing his goals. To the Aries man who is not ready for love, commitment is confining.

But for the Aries man who is falling in love, commitment is a sign of good faith.

When the Aries man commits, he does so with his whole heart. He does not like to play mind games. Therefore, if the Aries man has given you his commitment, this is a sign that he is falling for you.

Don’t take his commitment lightly either. If you do, you will push him away.

12. He Prioritizes Your Needs

When you ask about the Aries man, some would say that he is selfish and self-centered. He’s known for putting his needs before others.

But this isn’t always the case!

In my experience as a Relationship Astrologer, I’ve found that Aries men are some of the most caring and selfless individuals.

They would do anything to save or prove their loyalty to the ones they love.

For example, if an Aries man is busy and he still consistently makes time for you, he’s falling in love. Another way that the Aries man may show that he’s falling for you is if he goes out of his way to do something that he knows you will like.

If the Aries man prioritizes your needs, it means he’s falling in love!

13. He’s Emotionally Vulnerable

Emotions and Aries typically don’t find themselves in the same sentence, but when the Aries man falls in love, it certainly does!

As a cardinal fire sign, the Aries man is action-oriented, he prefers to deal with his feelings by taking charge not spending hours in deep thought and “useless” self-expression (so he thinks).

However, if the Aries man is falling for you, he won’t be able to ignore the magnitude of emotions building within.

From heartfelt text messages to daily phone calls, an Aries man in love will not be able to refrain himself from confessing his unconditional love.

For example, if the Aries man knows that you love when he tells you what he likes about you, expect him to tell you every day.

Another example is if in the beginning of the relationship the Aries man was cold, distant, and unresponsive, but now you can’t get him to stop talking — he’s falling for you!

Aries Man’s Love Language

An Aries man in love is something you definitely need to experience once in your life. He is so affectionate and will make you feel like the most special girl on earth. 

Check this out for more on your Aries Man’s love language <—

He has a way of zoning in on you and making you feel like only the two of you exist. He has quite a full-on way of expressing his love. He will give you so much of his time and his energy. This just happens to be his love language. 

As an Aries man, he is one of those people who really needs words of affirmation to feel loved and appreciated by their lover. They want to hear that they are these amazing men. That they are perfect. 

An Aries man needs to know that their partner could never live without them and that they are the greatest person on earth. With any Aries, they feel like they can be their most authentic self when someone just accepts them for who they are at their core. 

All an Aries man truly wants is acceptance because they realize that their personalities are quite out there and not everyone can always handle it. Aries men are direct people, and so they tend to take things that others say at face value, further emphasizing the weight of your loving words. You have the ability to melt him with what you have to say. 

Affirming words mean more to an Aries ma than you could possibly understand. An Aries man tends to get quite riled up when someone criticizes them. This makes him want to prove himself more because an Aries man just cannot settle to be anything other than the best. 

Words of affirmation should be used to tell an Aries man what they have done right, not to scold him or criticize him. Words of affirmation will make your Aries man feel really loved and like you are proud of him. So lay it on thick, but of course be genuine, when you are with your Aries because he is good at sensing inauthenticity. 

Warning: Don’t use normal dating advice with an Aries man!

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches.

They wanted to know if it would work with their Aries man.

And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Aries.

You see, Aries men are VERY different than men of other signs.

And if you use standard dating advice with a Aries, it can backfire.

He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you.

Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you.

He’ll be wrapped around your finger

And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches!

They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Aries is NOT like other men… at ALL.

So go here now to find out the specific things your Aries man needs to hear to melt his heart.



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

3 thoughts on “13 Signs An Aries Man Is Falling In Love With You

  1. I’ve been with my guy for about 4 yrs. It’s complicated. About ever 2 weeks. I actually do know he cares for me. I am widow for 5 yrs. Husband suffered from stroke and took care of him for 12ys. His wife diagnosed with early Alzheimer’s. Not a perfect situation. I tried to break up with at least 3 times. He did not want that. We are both honest with each other. So I get him a lot. I’m nuts about him and get what both of us are dealing with have dealt with. And we are very attracted to one another. I feel like schoolgirl

  2. I have found all the advice on relationships with Aries men helpful and following the advice has made such a difference. I’m a widow who reconnected with my first love. It’s a complicated situation. It was a very bumpy start but in following Anna’s advice things have really turned around. We try to see each other every week if we can. It’s true what she says about being protective and not always being readily available. He texts and calls often and always wants to know that I’m safe and happy. I’ve been shocked at how accurate the advice has been!

  3. Anna, every thing you say about an Aries man is so true. I was married to one for nearly 30 years and am now madly in love with another.

    It has been a long distant relationship but we are about to embark on a journey together.
    I can’t wait. He is so incredible.

    Stay tuned and I will let you know how it goes.

    Thanks for all your wonderful advice.

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