How To Tell If An Aries Man Likes You (11 Obvious Signs To Watch Out For)

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
I’ll help you to see if an Aries man likes you since not everyone speaks their language. Keep reading to find out 7 signs that an Aries man likes you!

Are you scoping out the hot Aries guy? Things are about to get steamy, girl! How to tell if an Aries man likes you? If your Aries man is teasing you, this could be interpreted in many ways…

Aries men can be hard to read if they have other placements that make them more reserved. Despite this, they are typically outgoing and forthright about their intentions.

I’ll help guide you to see if an Aries man likes you since not everyone speaks their language. Perhaps he’s dodging your phone calls, texts, or has stopped asking you out on dates. What is going on?

As a relationship astrologer, I love nothing more than assisting others in seeing who is open to a love connection with them! Keep reading to find out seven signs that an Aries man likes you!

How Do Aries Act When They Like Someone?

When you are first getting to know someone, you can never quite tell if they like you or not, and this is not the case when it comes to an Aries man. He is not shy, but he may be playing it cool.

Aries man acts with confidence; he is bold and enthusiastic. He will shower you with attention, affection, and gifts. Most likely, he will demonstrate it physically since Aries enjoys physical touch and intimacy.

Aries men have one of the most specific love languages of all zodiac signs. I have covered his entire Astrology love profile in my Aries Love Language guide. I suggest you get your copy if you really want to master his love language and finally connect with him in the right way.

Also, an Aries man is impatient and impulsive, and if you show no interest in him, he may lose interest himself. If he is interested in the relationship and feels that it is not progressing in a desirable way, he may become frustrated. He needs reciprocity.

If an Aries man is crushing on you, it is a huge blessing. There is so little guesswork here! He is just who he is. And if you appreciate what you see, then you appreciate him for all that he is because he does not hold back a whole lot about himself from those he likes.

What Does It Mean When An Aries Man Teases You?

Aries men are playful, and when he teases you, it is a sign that he likes you. He will not be rude to you, he will not hurt you, and his teasing is direct and flirtatious.

Aries man teasing you could be translated into many different things, but the bottom line is that he is interested in dating you. If you notice that he is teasing you, you need to tease him back; he likes a good challenge. Make a game arena out of it, because he just doesn’t waste his time on someone he doesn’t like.

I know that his playful nature can be endearing and frustrating at times, but please note that it is done with good intention and is not meant to be malicious. When he teases you, it is one of the body language signs an Aries man likes you.

How To Know If An Aries Man Likes You

The main Aries traits are assertiveness and boldness. Having this in mind, if an Aries man likes you, you will know this. He is going to make it crystal clear.

He will pay attention to you, ask you to spend more time with him, flirt with you, and show you how protective he is. Aries is very adventurous, so he will definitely invite you to spend time together either in nature, at the movies, or in a fancy restaurant.

This guy knows his game, so ladies, worry not! He will show you he means business in a very straightforward way.

So, do you still want to know if an Aries man likes you more than a friend? Well, the answer can be found in his body language.

4 Body Language Signs An Aries Man Likes You

Learn how to tell if an Aries man likes you and what gestures he may make to show you how he feels.

  1. When an Aries man holds your hand or touches you in other ways
  2. When an Aries man hugs you
  3. When an Aries man kisses you
  4. When he plays with your hair

7 More Signs An Aries Man Likes You

5. He is all about you

When an Aries man decides you are the one that he’d like to spend his time with and perhaps commit, he’ll start to want to spend much more time with you. At first, he will want lots of one-on-one attention.

In the beginning, he won’t want to share your attention with other friends or family. This is partly why you may not meet anyone important to him when you first start out with him.

He’s trying to get to know you and figure out if you’re the one he wants to take home and possibly build a future with. When some time has elapsed, you’ll notice some changes that are subtle.

Aries man will convert back to his desire to have personal freedom; only now will he find time to fit you in as well. He’ll make time for himself but still make time for you. That’s one way to know he’s about you.

6. He’ll Tell You Directly

An Aries man is typically an open book. As a result, he may be so bold as to just tell you straight up, “I like you!”. This is because an Aries man is ruled by the planet Mars. Mars is the planet of fast, fiery action— it doesn’t stop; it just goes for it.

Mars being the ruler of Aries, creates the type of person who will shoot first and ask questions later. And in this case, the only shooting they are doing is shooting their shot!

If any sign of the Zodiac would be so bold as to come right out with their feelings, then an Aries would be it! So, if an Aries man tells you he likes you, believe him! He doesn’t play games and he is a straight shooter when it comes to telling the truth.

7. When An Aries Man Flirts With You

If you have an Aries that isn’t quite so brazen as to say it straight out, you’ll still get the hint through how much they flirt with you!

As I mentioned, an Aries being ruled by Mars is enough to tell you that these guys are very direct in their actions and speech. So, if you get the vibe that he is flirting with you, believe me, he is!

He may comment on how good you look or how impressed he was by something you said or did. But no matter how he does it, it will be quite obvious that his goal is to let you know that he likes you.

He will also talk a lot to you, perhaps at the detriment of everyone else in the group. It may well be quite obvious that he would prefer to just be talking to you.

This is typical of an Aries. They just don’t have a lot of social graces. They want what they want and they don’t care who knows it. They’ll make it obvious within a group of people that you are their preference.

Wondering how to play hard to get with an Aries man? << learn the tricks here

8. He’s Generous To You

This is an unexpected one for an Aries, but if he really likes you then you’ll see this side of him emerge.

An Aries is typically the most “me first!” sign of the Zodiac. He is, after all, the first sign and the one who kicks the Astrological party off right every March.

A typical Aries is often seen as being selfish. This is less about them not wanting others to have enough and more about his desire to ensure that he personally has enough. He won’t be shy about making sure that it is known that what’s his is his.

Despite this, this part of him will be turned on its head if he really likes someone. To the average person, he would be frank about his needs and desires, but for you, the one he likes, he will actually show more diplomacy.

He might offer to share something of his with you, let you borrow something of his, or spend money on you rather than himself. This is a huge sign that he likes you very much, since it goes against his naturally self-oriented approach.

Take this as the ultimate sign that you’ve got him in the palm of your hand. It is a rare person that will see an Aries bend over backwards for them.

So, if you notice an Aries man giving you things, spending money on you, or going out of his way to do a service for you, you can be sure that he likes you more than a friend.

Here’s more on what an Aries man likes and dislikes in a woman <<

9. He Shows Off For You

An Aries man is daring and brave. He is the bold knight of the Zodiac, who will attempt to astound the person he loves with his heroic feats of bravery.

Because of this, you can expect an Aries who is crushing on you to attempt to impress you through his actions. This is the language he speaks.

An Aries man is about as testosterone-fueled as they get. So, I wouldn’t be shocked to see these guys squaring up to another guy who seems interested in you, lifting something heavy just to show off their strength, or flexing their smarts by telling you about the latest book they’ve read.

If an Aries man is doing these things around you or while you’re in earshot, there is a solid chance that they really want you to be impressed by their devil-may-care attitude, or by some impressive skill they have.

And if you like this Aries man back, think about complimenting them on what they were showing off… an Aries man laps up ego boosts like no tomorrow. He just can’t help it!

10. When An Aries Man Compliments You

Aries men are typically direct when it comes to giving compliments. He may compliment your physical appearance by telling you that you look stunning today or that you are a very beautiful woman, but he will not save his words.

Also, Aries is drawn to confident and assertive women, so complimenting your confidence is not something he rarely does but, in fact, quite frequently.

He may tell you that you are quite adorable. This will be especially true if you’ve spent significant time apart.

He may turn into a big, cuddly bear with you. He’ll act like he’s a little boy again, wanting to snuggle up next to his love. It’s also likely he’ll adorn you with gifts, dinner, and loads of affection.

Complimenting is the best emotion I can describe for how he feels when you’ve returned from your trip or he’s returned from his. He’s so grateful to see you and have you in his life that he’ll treat you like royalty.

11. He’ll Chase You

An Aries man is highly competitive. This is because his ruling planet is Mars, which gives him a warrior spirit.

Well, an Aries man needs to be constantly stimulated; you don’t want this guy to be bored, or else you’ll lose his interest completely. An Aries man is absolutely a chaser. If he is interested in a woman, he needs her to be his conquest.

Playing hard to get usually works with Aries men. They are strong and passionate, and they often take initiative when they like someone.

Related: How To Get An Aries Man To Chase You — 5 Must-Follow Rules

How To Know If An Aries Man Likes You Over Text?

Aries men do not like lengthy text messages, and they do not like to type them out to you. They want communication to be short and effective. They prefer a quick, one-line message. Signs that an Aries man likes you through text are not hard to find.

So, when an Aries man texts you first and out of the blue, you can be sure that he is very into you. This means he is really going out on a limb and putting his heart on the line.

He may also send you a picture of himself; he more than likely thinks he looks good and wants you to confirm this for him. To an Aries man, reassurance plays a big part, so don’t forget that Aries men love compliments. It will get his attention and possibly keep him intrigued by you.

Here’s how to get an Aries man to call or text you first <<

And if you want to master your Aries man’s texting style and know what the best texts are to send your Aries man, then there is only one thing you should do. Check out my Aries Text Magic Guide <<

Are Aries Men Shy When They Like Someone?

Aries men are not shy; they are direct and confident. If they like someone, they may have a reserved attitude until their confidence is built. At that point, their assertiveness takes over.

If you believe that your Aries man is shy, try to approach him in a comfortable environment where he can be at ease and drop his shield.

Whatever you do, just avoid being pushy. Give him time to reflect on his emotions. If you cross paths with a typical representative of the Aries zodiac sign, you will not wonder if he is shy or if he likes you because they are typically known for their bold and confident personalities.

Why Most Dating Advice Can Be Dangerous With An Aries Man?

Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches. They wanted to know if it would work with their Aries man. And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.


Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with a Aries. You see, Aries men are VERY different than men of other signs.

And if you use standard dating advice with a Aries, it can backfire. He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.

I don’t want that to happen to you. Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.

You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…

So he’ll NEVER want to lose you. He’ll be wrapped around your finger… And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.

>> These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.

So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches!

They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.

Because your wonderful Aries is NOT like other men… at ALL.

So go here now and find out the specific things your Aries man needs to hear to melt his heart.

Wishing you all the love in the world,

Your sister and relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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