7 Clear Signs An Aries Man Is Not Interested Anymore

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Are you unsure if your Aries man is ghosting you or if he is done with you? Check these signs an Aries man is not interested anymore and if there is anything you can do about it.

Are you super frustrated that you cannot figure out what is going on with your Aries guy anymore? Does he seem cold or disengaged? Don’t waste any more of your energy if you feel your Aries man is not interested anymore.

Dating an Aries man is quite the experience. You have quite the man on your hands… He’s full of exuberance and excitement. The passion he brings to your life is intoxicating!

However, signs an Aries man is not interested in you anymore are not hard to find if you just scratch the surface. When an Aries man is done with you, he is done, and this can feel utterly heartbreaking…

When an Aries man is done with you, you might not completely realize it because how can an Aries man be hot one minute, and cold the next? Is it possible for an Aries man to be so inconsistent?

You might notice that an Aries man acts like he doesn’t care, is this possibly a sign he is done with you and doesn’t want to be with you any longer?

If you’re curious to know the signs an Aries man is no longer interested in you, then this is the article for you.

Aries Man Disappears And Reappears — What Does This Mean?

Here is where many women get hung up. If an Aries man is not texting back for hours or even a day or two; he may just be busy. If he isn’t; he’s taking a break or is possibly just upset with you.

So, when an Aries man pulls away a bit, he may be trying to get a bit of personal space and time to himself. Give him space and you’ll find out whether he’s upset, taking a break, or if he’s absolutely done.

But when an Aries man is really done with you; he will stop responding altogether. It will be longer than just mere hours or a few days. You literally will probably NEVER hear from him again. That solidifies his being done.

So just because an Aries man disappears and reappears, doesn’t mean he is losing interest. He might just be very busy. Remember this guy is fiercely independent and he needs his space. Don’t overwhelm him. Live your own life and do the things that make you happiest.

Pushing him and getting angry with him when he hasn’t responded will only make him want to run away from you that much faster so you may want to be very careful.

You may also want to readAries Man Playing Mind Games — Does It Mean He Is Testing Me?

What Does It Mean When An Aries Man Acts Like He Doesn’t Care?

It is really important that you don’t assume the worst when it comes to your Aries man. It might not be over, you could just be imagining the worst. This is very possible in relationships. 

There may be so many reasons why an Aries man acts like he doesn’t care about you. Some of these signs might be fixable, and some or not, which isn’t unusual in life. 

There might be some sudden changes in his life, like a career move, or issues with his family that may be influencing the way he feels about you. There may be some sudden changes in his behaviour where he just doesn’t treat you the same anymore, or there could be some solid signs that he never really like you in the first place and there isn’t much you can do about that.

Let’s dive in and find out all the signs an Aries man doesn’t like you:

7 Clear Signs An Aries Man Is Not Interested Anymore

1. When An Aries Man Ghosting You

When an Aries man ghosts you, it is probably not a very good sign for you. If you reach out to him and he’s clearly not getting back to you, then it might be a sign that he is ghosting you. 

However, only immature Aries men would do this and you wouldn’t want to be with a man who behaves like this anyway. I know it is really painful, but no reply is a reply. 

It is best to just move on and figure out where to next because it is definitely not with him. Save yourself the heartbreak and move on!

2. He Is Not Paying Attention To You Anymore

Typically, an Aries man doesn’t waste time on women he’s not into. This means he’ll just act as though the woman doesn’t exist. If you work with him and he really doesn’t acknowledge you, it could be that he isn’t interested.

However, if he isn’t aware that you’re interested in him, he could just be completely oblivious. In that case, you’re going to have to test the waters to find out which case it is. If he is oblivious, then this is definitely reversible.

A simple trick is to try to strike up a conversation with him. Look into his eyes, and when possible, try to brush his arm or hand with yours. You’ll find out really quickly what he thinks.

If your Aries man pulls away as quickly as possible, then this would mean he isn’t into you. If, however, he lingers while you talk to him, he could be picking up your signal, which would mean he may be intrigued by your interest.

Obviously, if that happens, he’s going to talk to you more and see what he can learn about you. Often, men seem unaware when a woman is interested in them, so they just blow the woman off.

This is when it’s important to sort of gauge what’s going on so that you can know whether to proceed or back away. So throw him a quick test and see how he responds.

3. When An Aries Man Suddenly Turns Cold

Aries men can sometimes come off as arrogant or cocky. This is normal for them. Only when they are really interested in someone do they change their tune a bit. If you are interested in him and he isn’t reciprocating, he will likely be cocky.

An Aries guy may either ignore you completely to drive the point home that he’s not into you, or he may say things that are just seemingly rude. He doesn’t know how else to reject someone other than by being honest.

So an Aries man being rude, ignoring you, or going out of his way to avoid you are all clear signs that he doesn’t like you. There are some who will just outright tell you that your Aries man isn’t interested anymore.

Not all Aries men are the same, and so not all of them are going to give you indicators that are easy to read. Some will be nice to you but will also put up a wall to make sure you know they’re only being friendly.

Aries men tend not to flirt with women they have zero interest in, however. Look at your Aries guy and see which one seems to fit. Behavior is often very revealing in these types of matters.

However, if an Aries man never flirts with you and never has, the signs are pretty strong that he doesn’t like you.

4. He Is Rejecting Being Physical With You

If you are already dating an Aries man and he seems a bit like he’s not interested anymore, he will be less physical. Usually, though, he’ll just tell you he’s not into you anymore.

If he doesn’t do that, then he may have a moon sign that contradicts his nature and causes him to not be bold enough. This is the case where an Aries man is rejecting you and stops being physical with you.

Aries men love to touch the ladies they’re involved with or interested in. That means that if he’s gotten so cold that he won’t even touch you, your Aries man is not into you.

Remember the test I mentioned before? Touch him and see how he responds to you. Either he’ll jerk his hand back and possibly walk away, or he’ll stick around and talk to you.

5. An Aries Man Being Rude

Aries men are brutes to start with. They aren’t very self-aware, and can sometimes come across as quite narcissistic even if they don’t mean to be. However, an Aries man being rude to you is clearly not interested in you.

You shouldn’t have to deal with a man who is disrespectful and rude. If your confidence is low, don’t try to win him over and get his acceptance. This will only make you feel worst about yourself. 

Let him go and remember that it is his loss. Try to forgive him for being rude because you don’t want to walk around carrying that burden.

6. He Is Emotionally Distant

An Aries man is a very open and honest man. He might not be sensitive and emotional like a Pisces man, but he knows how to get vulnerable and share in his intimacy. 

However, when an Aries man is not interested in you that much, he will no longer want to share with you emotionally. He’ll lock you out and be very closed off to you. You’ll feel him building up a wall around his heart.

RelatedIs Your Aries Man Hiding His Feelings — Here’s Why And What You Can Do

7. When An Aries Man Doesn’t Want To Commit

An Aires man is such a free spirit. He wants to be independent and go wherever life takes him. He is deathly afraid of being chained or caged in a box he can’t get out of. This is what commitment can feel like for an Aries man.

However, if an Aries man is avoiding commitment, then there is nothing you can do about it. You can’t force an Aries man to want to commit to you. You can only respect his wishes and give him his space.

What Makes An Aries Man Pull Away And Lose Interest? 4 Possible Reasons

You Are Being Clingy

What turns an Aries man off is a woman who is showing signs of clinginess or neediness. He will absolutely take care of the woman he loves but he wants her to be able to take care of herself as well.

If you text him a whole lot and you notice he doesn’t like to text you back immediately, he is trying to gauge how much space he can have from you before you start freaking out.

It may be a test and if you keep after him, you may fail. Try not to text him too often. It’s a total turn-off for him for a woman to chase after him. He wants to be the man and be in charge for the most part.

If you’re in a situation where your Aries man says he doesn’t think it’s going to work and you’re feeling lost and unsure of what to do, I strongly recommend my 30-day Aries Man Love Challenge. This program is designed to give you all the tools you need to bring back the passion and connection in your relationship. Start your journey today!

You’re Too Available

If you’ve made yourself too available, the Aries man will not feel as though there is any effort to be put forward, which also means he may not be interested in you. Flirting is one thing, but if you let him know you are his, he may get bored.

The thing with Aries men is that they love to chase. If they have no reason to chase, then this makes them try to find other activities or people that will provide them with the adrenaline they seek.

If you’ve put yourself too out there for him to snag, he’ll pass on it. It’s sad to say, but there are rare occasions where he’ll get into the whole “friends with benefits” thing but will not want to get entangled otherwise.

So if he hasn’t busted a move with you, look at how you talk to your Aries man and how he talks to you. Have you told him too much about yourself? Have you let him know that he can freely have you? If so, you may consider your Aries man pulling back a little.

Try not to be easily available. He may just eat it up and decide that you ARE worth chasing. If that’s the case, he’ll definitely try to be physical with you. When he does, make sure you don’t let him have his way.

He Is Unsure About You

If this is something new with you, he may still be a bit unsure whether or not he wants more than what he has with you already. Many Aries men are quite impulsive, but sometimes they can be guarded.

If he has some past baggage from where he’s been really hurt, he may be very cautious about who he gives his heart to. He’ll also be careful with who he gets physical with.

When he knows that you’re more invested in him than he is in you, he may not feel comfortable going there with you, as he doesn’t want to hurt you in any way if he can avoid it.

It’s also possible that an Aries man really likes you but wants to be sure that you’re someone that he’ll want to plant roots with and have a relationship with. He will want to take a bit more time to be positive about his choice.

He can sometimes analyze himself where other people are concerned. Aries is one who doesn’t see the “gray area” in anything he does. He is either ON or OFF. There is no in-between.

That being said, he will not make a move unless he’s sure he’s ready to be in the “ON” position. If he feels the slightest pull of it not being right, he’ll leave it alone, and you’re not likely to get what you want.

He Changed His Mind

Aries can be rather fickle with love. They may be impulsive and quickly get into someone, but then they start thinking. When they start thinking, they realize that they jumped in too quickly and suddenly back off.

There may also be an element that when he started to get to know you, he may have decided there was something about you he didn’t like or didn’t find compatible with him.

There is also the alternative that maybe he found someone else that he thinks is more suitable for him, thus changing his mind about you. Any way you slice it, if he changes his mind for any reason, this would be why he isn’t trying to push forward.

Aries isn’t typically a back-and-forth sort of guy, so if he’s decided that you’re not the one for him, he’s not likely to backslide and change his mind again. However, if he’s still undecided, you still have a chance.

The problem is trying to figure out what his deal is. I would highly suggest that you pay attention to his behavior. This will tell you all that you need to know. If he’s somewhat ignoring you, he’s probably not that into you.

However, if he shows some interest but hasn’t pushed forward, he’s trying to figure out what he wants, and this is a good time for you to start making him chase you.

If you chase him, he’ll run in the opposite direction. Be careful with how you approach an Aries man. He wants an independent and mysterious type of woman who is spontaneous and exciting.

​​Aries Man Ignoring Me After An Argument — Does That Mean He Is Done With Me?

Just because an Aries man is ignoring you after an argument doesn’t mean he is done with you. Remember that fights are very normal in relationships. Conflict is often good and gives you both space to figure things out in the relationship. 

After a fight or an argument, an Aries man wants to have space and figure things out in his head. And this is exactly what your Aries man is doing. Don’t assume the worst. 

Just give your Aries man the space to breathe to cool down and the two of you should figure things out in no time. 

When An Aries Man Is Done With You — How To Know For Sure

It isn’t always easy to tell some men if they are done with you or not. But Aries men are pretty straightforward, even when they don’t come out in the open and just say how they feel.

So here are some signs how to know when an Aries man is done with you:

1. He Tells You Directly He Wants To Be Friends

When an Aries man says he wants to be friends, then he definitely means it. This guy is very sexual and he will do whatever he can to get laid, so if he isn’t even using you for sex, then he is definitely done with you. 

However, you don’t have to see this as a loss. See this as you gaining a fun and interesting friend who can take you on many fun adventures. Recognize that the right guy is out there for you. So don’t beat yourself up about it! It clearly means he likes you enough to have you in his life. 

2. He No Longer Engages In Conversation

An Aries man loves to chat and share his opinions about things. He’s an idea person and tries to find moments of inspiration wherever he can. He wants to know what people are thinking. 

When an Aries man no longer seems interested in conversation with you and doesn’t care what you have to say it is a pretty big sign that he is done with you and the relationship. Apathy is a big deal when it comes to Aries men. 

3. He Doesn’t Argue With You

An Aries man loves to argue! This guy loves to be the boss and show everyone that he is right. He is a mister know it all, after all. However, when an Aries man stops arguing with you, it means he doesn’t care.

He doesn’t care to correct you or to be the winner which is very odd behaviour for an Aries man. He needs to win, his competitive spirit thrives when he can win an argument. This is a clear sign he is done with you.

4. He Is Always Angry

Aries men definitely have a temper and can get extremely angry at times. However, if it always seems like he is frustrated and wants to start a fight, then chances are he is done with the relationship. 

He is itching for a blow-up so that the two of you can end things. It is his way of pushing you out of his life. 

How To Know If An Aries Man Is Over You? Is There Anything You Can Do?

I believe that there is always a chance for two people to get back together with each other. It doesn’t always have to be over and there is always something you can do. 

Sometimes the simplest thing to do is to do nothing. It is way more effective than you might realize. If you’re interested in more about this topic then check out my article on how to get an Aries man back after things have ended.


Will An Aries Man Come Back After He Dumps You?

There is always the chance that an Aries man will come back after he dumps you. This guy isn’t cut and dry, but there is a side to him that is really stubborn. When his stubborn side comes out it might be difficult to manoeuvre. 

But there is always a possibility, and it is up to you as well as the Universe to make this happen. What will be will be, no matter what!

Will An Aries Man Miss You After A Break-Up?

An Aries man won’t immediately miss you after a breakup, he needs a lot of time and space from the relationship to figure out what the two of you once had. Only after some reflection will he miss you. 

Work on yourself and move on from what the two of you had. When he sees all the work you have put into yourself, it might give him some second thoughts. 

Will An Aries Man Change His Mind After Things Are Over?

An Aries man is unlikely to change his mind immediately after things are over. He’ll probably really enjoy the freedom and autonomy he now gets to experience. 

In a few months, he might realize he made a mistake, but he isn’t going to immediately regret it. 

Should I Text An Aries Man After A Breakup?

I would be cautious when texting an Aries man first. I think it is really important to give him space, especially if you have already expressed interest in him. He knows how you feel and the ball is in his court. 

You can always text him, but you need to be very mindful and careful that it is the right decision for you. Ask yourself why you want to text him, are you looking for his attention? Is there an emptiness and void you’re looking to fill?

Be very clear on what your intentions are before you jump into texting him. 

Final Thoughts On Aries Man Not Interested Anymore

There is a side to an Aries man that loves the idea of commitment and loyalty, but he definitely has his dark side. An Aries man can be incredibly toxic, yet there is a wonderful lover inside of him as well. He wants to fight for his woman, adore her, and worship her for as long as he possibly can. 

For the right woman, an Aries man can certainly commit and make a serious change in his lifestyle. Sure, he’ll still be adventurous and need his freedom, but the right girl will give this to him. 

This is why an Aries man will never settle and just go for what is available to him because he knows that somewhere, someone can give him exactly what he needs in his relationship, and he is willing to wait for it, and so should you. 

If an Aries man is messing you about and doesn’t give you the same kind of love in return, then he definitely isn’t worth the effort or your time. You should definitely rethink what it is he is actually offering you, because if it is nothing, then you should definitely leave. 

Is Your Aries Man Avoidant?

Does your Aries man pull away or get quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection? Does he seem to disappear just when you thought he was getting closer? Have you felt confused by his hot and cold behavior?

If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.

He could be Dismissive Avoidant and completely terrified of commitment… Or he could be Fearful, Avoidant and REALLY want commitment… But get scared when he feels himself getting closer to you.

If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feeling extremely confused at times.

And both are caused by childhood trauma.

When you can see the scared little boy inside him that had to shut down his feelings if he’s a dismissive avoidant… Or have a parent not provide his needs consistently if he’s a fearful avoidant…

It can make it easier to have empathy and compassion for his confusing and frustrating behavior.

But that won’t fix it.

And while advice on attachment styles can be helpful… What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is to understand him better.

Thankfully, there is a simple system to TRULY understand how he ticks based on his astrology.

It will stop your Aries man from pulling back when you begin feeling closer. And it will accomplish this in only 30 days.

So no more crying yourself to sleep when he pulls back… No more feeling incredibly confused. And no more wondering what in the heck is going on with him…

Even if he has an avoidant attachment style.

Go here now to turn things around with your Aries man in 30 days or less.

xoxo, Anna

About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

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