Why Is An Aries Man Not Texting Back? And What To Do

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
You’ve been enjoying text communication with your Aries man—but suddenly things have gone cold. So why is an Aries man not texting back? Check it out here.

An Aries man not texting back can be so frustrating. You feel like the two of you have a good thing going on, but his inconsistency and impulsivity drive you mad. We’ve all been there when an Aries man stopped texting, it can be so painful.

Why is an Aries man not responding to texts? The moment you think you have him hooked, he’s gone off and now he’s ignoring you. It hurts! The dating world can be cruel these days—instant messaging has had an enormous impact on romantic communication, for better and for worse!

As a relationship astrologer, I meet a lot of women feeling lost and uncertain about how to respond when an Aries guy goes cold via text. It’s hard not to overanalyze every little word and try to guess the tone of his messages. 

The truth is, women are just generally better at communication—face to face and online. Most Aries men just don’t think about how their texts may be affecting you. It’s a skill they’re learning as they go along. 

So, when your Aries guy goes a bit cold, how can you turn it around? How can you reverse the situation without seeming needy? Being pursued by an Aries man is heavenly, being ignored is not.

Let’s look at signs of why an Aries man stopped texting you and some tricks to fix it!

5 Possible Reasons Why An Aries Man Doesn’t Text Back

1. He’s Distracted With Life Stuff

Aries men are usually only good at focusing on one thing intensely. They’re not great at diving their attention between a few things and when some big life event happens they’re going to be preoccupied with it. 

This can feel a little jarring because when an Aries man first becomes interested in a woman, all of his attention is on her. You’ll feel like the most important person in his life and as if nothing else matters. It is enough to make a woman addicted. 

But, you’ll get a big wake up call when you see that when life happens to the Aries man, he couldn’t care less about the relationship. He is very intense and impulsive, so if he’s focused on work, he’s focused on work and nothing else. 

If drama is going on in his life with his friends or family, he’ll be focused on that. His vision is singular, and this is one of the possible reasons he is not texting back. He’s simply too busy and distracted by life. 

2. He Feels Bored In The Relationship

An Aries man thrives on excitement and adventure. This is a man who needs a lot of stimulation in his life. He doesn’t easily deal with the mundane and the boring, this is why Aries men are always off on some adventure.

When a relationship becomes stale, the Aries man will usually do a disappearing act. And because most Aries men are quite immature seeing as they are the first sign of the Zodiac, don’t expect him to even let you know that things are over between you two. 

He is probably the sign that invented the word for ghosting as it is one of his talents to just disappear without a word. This is possibly one of the reasons he is ignoring your texts.

Here’s what to do when an Aries man pulls away <<

3. He Doesn’t Like Texting

I often hear from Aries men that they just hate texting and being tethered to their phones. These men prefer to be in the moment than living a life online. They do understand that women in general really like texting, so he will deal with it when he is first getting to know you. 

However, when the initial phases of the relationship start wearing off, so will the frequency of his text messages. This has no reflection about how he feels about you by the way. It may actually be a good thing, it shows that he is satisfied and content with the relationship. 

It also means that he feels comfortable being independent and free with you, and this is something that is really important to most Aries men. They want to be with someone who gives them a lot of freedom. 

There is a way how to text an Aries man, so if you want to master your Aries man’s texting style and know what the best texts are to send to him, check out my Aries Text Magic Guide <<

Everything you could ever want is in this guide. This is the only product out there that will give you all the answers you could ever want when it comes to texting your Aries man and making him yours successfully.

4. He’s Lost Interest In You

Here is the dreaded reason you all fear and that is that your Aries man might not be that interested in you any longer. I know you all fear this, but yes, it is a definite possibility that your Aries man is no longer interested in you. 

It may be for a variety of reasons or simply he doesn’t feel that spark with you anymore. As I mentioned before, Aries men can be a little immature, so don’t be surprised if he just disappears and stops talking to you. It is what he does.

He may just feel that as he has gotten to know you he has realized that you may not be the right pick for him and fair enough, you can’t be for everyone. Unfortunately, it does hurt quite a bit that they would just ignore you and ghost you like this.

Is your Aries man hiding his feelings? Here’s how to tell <<

5. You Have Made Him Angry

An emotion the Aries man knows very well is anger, lots of things will rile this guy up. He sometimes gets triggered by the smallest things and when he does he has a tendency to act out and be quite immature, this is why he will ignore you and not reply back to your texts. 

An Aries man is masterful at giving silent treatment because he knows that most women hate being ignored. He is trying to prove some kind of point and this is why he is doing it. Is it possible that your Aries man is angry at you? Figure out if he is and why so that you can apologize.

Here’s more on how to make up with an Aries man after an argument <<

Aries Man Stopped Texting Me After We Slept Together — What Should I Do? 

There are many reasons why an Aries man stopped texting after you slept together, he may have felt like the sex didn’t live up to his imagination, or he felt like he couldn’t satisfy you, or he may just want to sleep with you once and that is it. 

An Aries man not texting you says a lot about him and is no way a reflection of you. His communication skills suck, seriously! You are obviously dealing with a really immature man who needs to learn how to treat people better.

Learn here how to communicate with an Aries man properly <<

So, figuring out what to do next can be daunting, but first ask yourself, would you actually want to see him after he treated you like this in the first place? It is a different story if neither of you have texted at all, he may be thinking the same thing about you as well! 

If you feel like it, you can always reach out to him first and tell him that you had a good time. IF you hear from him again, then he’s obviously not a bad guy, but if you don’t hear from him I would seriously cut your losses and try to forget about him. He is clearly not someone you should keep around.

The most important thing is that you don’t blame yourself and you find a way in which you can walk away from this experience with your head held high.

Should I Reach Out To An Aries Man Who Stopped Texting Me?

This all depends on you. If you are feeling confident and you simply want to check in on him then go for it, but if you are feeling quite low and discouraged about this happening then I wouldn’t advise it. 

It is very possible that an Aries man may not text you back and then you just end up feeling more terrible about yourself. This is very painful. Try not to reach out due to desperation or seeking validation from the situation. 

You need to validate yourself and not look for it in a man. If he knows that he has power over you he is going to continue to use it. Always take the high road. 

What To Text An Aries Man To Make Him Chase You Again

Aries men are very hot and it is easy to see why you would want to make him chase you again, but this means that you need to up your game. There are a few subtle things that always drive Aries men crazy. 

They are very simple creatures and it is actually pretty easy to figure out what will make him tick and make him desire you once again. Want to know what to say to him to make him running back to you?

Well, luckily for you I have listed 7 of the most perfect texts to send to an Aries man to get him to want you again. You’ll want this in your life, trust me!

Your Aries Man Will Text You Quickly When You Do This…

It can be so frustrating to send your Aries man a text message and see “seen”… But then have no reply for hours or maybe even days.

Why in the world would he do this?

You might start feeling anxious or wondering if he even cares at ALL!

Unfortunately, a lot of dating advice written for men in general just WON’T work with Aries.

They are wired a bit differently than men of other sun signs. And if you treat your Aries man the same as other men, you might lose him forever.

There are so many dating coaches that tell you exactly what to do when you text your man… And what NOT to do.

Unfortunately, their advice can REALLY backfire with an Aries.

And there are three specific mistakes you NEVER want to make when texting an Aries man <<

I don’t want you to drive him away… Especially when it can be incredibly easy to capture his heart through text messages… 

IF you know what you are doing!

Don’t worry, I’ve got your back!

When you know EXACTLY what to text him… and what to NEVER text him… He will be putty in your hands. And he’ll make sure to reply to you quickly and lovingly.

Go check out what I mean here now so you keep him in your life forever.



About Author

Hi, this is Anna Kovach. I am a professional Relationship Astrologer and author of dozens of bestselling books and programs. For over a decade I’ve been advising commitment-seeking women like you and helping them understand, attract and keep the man of their dreams using the astonishing power of astrology. Join over 250K subscribers on my newsletter or follow me on social media! Learn more about me and how I can help you here.

5 thoughts on “Why Is An Aries Man Not Texting Back? And What To Do

    1. Hi Georgie!

      Indeed, if he has blocked you then that’s him cutting you out of his life. There isn’t much that can be done. If that was your only means for contact then he’s telling you he’s done. I’m sorry that’s happened to you sweetheart.

    1. My Aries blocked me and I texted him from different numbers and kept play fighting with him until he unblocked my number and I started flirting again and left him alone. He started calling again within a week.

      1. Hi Tawny!

        I am so very sorry to hear you had a rough run with your Aries man. Sounds like you did exactly what you needed to do to get his attention and make him come crawling back. Don’t allow him to keep acting out to a point where he blocks you though. Tell him things have to be compromised between you so he doesn’t fly off the handle like that. If you need more Aries man tips, check out my guide on Aries Man Secrets. I wish you the best!

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