So you and your Aries guy parted ways but you really want him back. What can you do to possibly get him to come back to you? Here are some helpful hints that may help you realize how to get an Aries man back after a breakup.
Give it some time
If your breakup wasn’t amicable and there was anger involved; time will need to heal those wounds. He will need some space as well. He may seem to not want it if you were the one that broke it off but he does.
If he was the one that broke it off and he was angry; he may regret it with a little time gone by. It’s important to go silent for at least a couple of weeks. Without you reaching out; he’ll likely miss you.
This time will allow you both to take a time out and think about what it is that you truly want. Was the break up warranted or was it impulsive? Are the problems something that you two can solve?
In the case that you two get back together; can you make things better and not lead down the same road again? These are things that you both need to really think over before trying to reunite.
You can both get your head together and make a better game plan. You can also work at healing your heart. It’s better to take a fresh approach and keeping in constant contact after a break up will not help you.
Keep in mind that Aries men love attention so if you two are on a break; giving him silence will make him wonder what you’re up to and it’ll make him come to you asking you what is going on.
If he really still loves you and wants to be with you; he’ll reach out to you no doubt. If he doesn’t then you may be hard-pressed to find anything that will effectively bring him back.
Once he makes up his mind; he sticks to it. So this truly will rely on what the break up was about, how he feels, and what he wants in order to fully know whether or not there is still a chance. If he’s still around; let him chase you.
Work On Yourself
When you take the focus off him and put it back on yourself and getting your own life in order; he may very well notice this and will be impressed. He’ll remember the independent woman who is chasing her dreams.
Also good would be to change things up with your look. He’ll be shocked and possibly turned on at the same time. Changing your hairstyle, color, or changing your wardrobe are bound to get his attention.
If you’ve ever wanted a sexy tattoo or piercing; now would be an amazing time to do it. Whether or not you get his attention; you’ll be doing what you want and that in itself will feel fantastic.
Ultimately though; he’ll notice if he sees you on a regular basis after the breakup. If he’s not around then take a few sexy selfies to show off your new look on a social network or to use for texts later on.
After some time…
After 2 to 3 weeks go by of having been quiet; you can try to send him a text message to check in. Keep it short, simple, and sweet. Say something thoughtful like “I hope all is going well with you. Thinking of you”.
At that time, you can also send one of those selfies I mentioned. Don’t send any more than that though as he’ll see it as you pressuring him or pushing too much. He won’t want to feel that.
Just a nice sweet and short text with a photo may brighten his day. It’ll also make him think of you whether he wants to or not. If he still has feelings for you; this will get his motor running.
Don’t be surprised if you get a text back or a call to see how you’re doing. However; there is that chance he doesn’t respond. If that’s the case then he needs more time or he’s not into getting back together.
Aries is a strong and stubborn man. When he decides he is done and isn’t into getting back together, there isn’t much you can do to change his choice. Know that trying these methods is a gamble that may or may not work.
It will depend on where his head and heart are when it comes to you. Though if he truly still cares for you; the chances are pretty darned good that he will want to talk to you or possibly get back together.
Upon Meeting Up
Should the chance to meet up arise; take it! Even if it’s out for coffee to touch base; go for it! When you sit down with him; be sure that you are actually listening to what he says to you.
He will likely want to discuss what went down and where he’d like things to go. He’ll also express any concerns he may have. It’s important that you take it seriously and are willing to compromise and work at it.
Aries men don’t typically hold a grudge when it comes to a break up unless it was particularly nasty. He understands that people mess up and when there is still love or care there; he’ll want to work at it. He’s not a quitter.
Let him tell you everything he feels, what he wants, and what he’s willing to do in order to give it another try. After he’s done; you can share with him your concerns and what you’re willing to do.
This will help the two of you get on the same page and find a way to give your relationship another shot.
Just remember that until he’s ready to talk about this serious stuff; try to keep any conversation you have with him light and easy. He’ll appreciate it. Click here to learn what Aries men like to hear from their women.