When you’re dating a new guy (or hoping to soon), of course you want to know all you can about him. Luckily, astrology gives us insights that are so valuable in new relationships! Aries men can be tough to read, but his aggressive and outgoing personality will always give his true feelings away.
From how he likes to be approached, to how he chooses the woman he settles down with, I want to share five things nobody has told you about dating an Aries man!
Although dating can be tricky, it doesn’t have to be when you have astrology on your side. Keep reading to learn more about the hidden secrets and tips for dating an Aries man.
5 Things Nobody Has Told You About Dating an Aries Man
1. He Wants You to Make the First Move
Aries men love to chase. Aries men love to play games. Aries men love to play hard to get. These are all sayings you may have heard about dating an Aries man over the years.
But what if I told you that it’s a lot simpler than all that? As a progressive fire sign, Aries men love a bold woman. His assertive and playful nature is attracted to confidence, so he is impressed and turned on by the woman who makes the first move.
Just make sure that your behaviors don’t come across as forced. Instead of stalking his Facebook page and liking his pictures from three years ago, be straightforward and let him know that you are interested. His ambitious nature will take it from there.
2. He’s NOT Afraid of Commitment
If you thought the Aries man is only interested in having fun, think again. Behind the lust, fire, and spark of is a vulnerable side that desires companionship. The best way to move beyond the “it was nice to meet you” phase with an Aries man is to show him that you are more than a good time.
With relationship-oriented Libra being his sister sign (think of this as his alter-ego), the Aries man is at his best when he has a trustworthy and winning partner by his side.
These passion-ruled men are insanely affectionate, attentive, and exciting in love. Being a confident fire sign, he is proud of his love—and will go above and beyond to show it.
If you have the opportunity to experience what it feels like to be in a committed partnership with an Aries man, consider yourself a lucky woman—his love is one of a kind.
3. He’s Less Complicated Than You Think
Arguing with an Aries man is not something you want to experience, though it’s a part of life. If you’ve ever gotten into a disagreement with these masculine men, you know they have a habit of always wanting things to go their way.
But the Aries man isn’t always argumentative. On his brightest days, he is friendly, giving, and attentive; he will actively try not to argue with you. He would rather spend his energy going on a wild adventure with you or working on one of his latest passion projects.
When he is at peace, the Aries man is uncomplicated. His priorities in life are simple to enjoy. He wants to have a fun, creative, and free-flowing lifestyle with a vivacious woman who inspires him and makes him feel unconditionally loved.
4. He Doesn’t Like Clingy Women
As much as the passionate Aries man loves showering his partner with affection, his independent nature needs space and freedom to do his own thing.
In a relationship, the Aries man typically isn’t in a rush to move in together or get married as soon as he’s committed. He likes to feel things out and take it one step at a time.
His sometimes-standoffish, hard-to-read personality comes from his fear of choosing a needy partner. Because he is so independent, he feels claustrophobic when his partner becomes codependent, obsessive, or emotionally over-attached.
Rather than crowding him and demanding that he give you all his time, focus on enjoying your life while still being an active part of his. Have your friends and social life—and let him miss you.
Establish healthy boundaries that affirm your roles as individuals and life partners, and I promise it’ll be him clinging to you soon enough!
Read next: Essential Knowledge for Any Woman Married or Engaged to an Aries Man
5. He Can’t Resist Originality and Authenticity
He can’t keep his eyes (and hands) off a stylish, bold, and original woman. Because when it comes to love, this first sign of the Zodiac loves to stand out. His ambitious nature always has to be one step ahead of the crowd.
The best thing to do when dating an Aries man is always to love and be yourself. As a straightforward, no-nonsense man, he can easily detect fraudulent behavior. So, don’t try to come across as something you’re not. With him, you don’t need to.
From fashion choices to how you express your love for him, the Aries man wants to know that your connection is unique. This is a man that you put on your best catwalk look for. No holding back—you do whatever it takes to be the star of his show!
If you would like to share some of your experiences or questions with me, I would love to hear about them in the comments section below!
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Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
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Hi Anna! I have been reading you for few years trying to pursue a Taurus a Scorpio an Aquarius and now an Aries!! Lol I have come to realize I need to stop pursuing and waiting for men that are not ready for relationship and focus on the ones that are. I met an Aries a year ago he had a girlfriend at the time so we were friends but he split up in November and came to visit me for a month in December cuz he lives 12h away from me. We became lovers I am a Sag so it was amazing sexually I never had so much sex in the last 4 years and he’s one of the few I had who’s known how to arouse my body the best. We got along really good skiing together cooking talking and he’s very helpful sometimes too much and also was few times where I had to say to give me space when I got back from work cuz he was so excited to see me and help me with my stuff and I need to do it myself just as part of making transition from work to be at home and ready to socialize. Anyway for thé first time i meet someone who’s interested in being together he wants to come back in February and he’s making plans for the summer and already thinking of ways to have his own space where I live he can work from anywhere his job is online. He’s already talking about feeling and missing me and I honestly feel push into loving him as opposed to just let it happen. I try to tell him that we need to take it slow love do t happen overnight I have made the mistake my whole life to think I was in love and now realize you can’t love someone you don’t know. Anyway I am ready to say I need a break but then what if he is a good one for me and I blow it up. All my friends that met him says he’s lovely even my son likes him and I like him too! It makes me feel that if this is what a relationship is about it was a lot more fun when we were just friends. Since I have start online dating couple years ago and because of your advices I have made lots of men friends and really loving that they keep things playful and light compare to women friends who complains a lot about what’s going on in their life. And with this Aries it feel heavy. He is just out of a 3 year relationship and I have had also few men that I fell for that eventually gone back to their ex so I am not going to let myself fall in love that quick anymore. His ex tried to contact him when he was here and said she did not want to live anymore and never been so sad in her life. I think until the day he broke up with her she had no clue cuz he is so loving and affectionate he just love to love! Lol And as a Sag I am like that too so it was really amazing before we start to think about being together. We both have pisces moon and Taurus rising sign and I have my Venus in Scorpio not sure for him! Seems like the best match it’s just too fast for me and too much I am debating asking to give me space and not text me for few days it seems when he not pressuring me with his feelings it’s about projects. Thank you Anna I have come to understand men a lot better because of all my readings from your books I have not bought anything for Aries yet but reading your blog about it every night to get to understand him. I feel I need to make my own boundaries but also afraid that I will be too blunt since I am such a Sag. As a side note the Aquarius I was pursuing is also someone who want a relationship and less than 2h away from me but in USA and I am in Canada and we had stopped trying to meet cuz of covid. He had a short relation this fall with a woman and ended it because she had anxiety/confidence issue and we actually met briefly in Mexico in November as he was there for a dirtbike race I was there kitesurfing. We had been texting from April to September and he was texting me everyday until then when he said to me he couldn’t wait anymore cuz the borders were still closed. And now the situation is the same with omicron not really able to go there even though he’s so close but we have start texting again Around Xmas he did say he found me very attractive not only physically but also the way I live my life and my personality! We met on the water he texted me he was going kayaking and I took the paddleboard and found him on the sea of Cortez in the Baja. It just happened he realized the house his team had Airbnb was in the same town I was kite surfing and he texted me to ask if I was still there cuz we had originally planned to meet there if the borders were still closed. At the time he was seeing that woman and he did not try to see me out of respect for her but we kept in touch since then on and off and he told me after Xmas about her. I think he’s a great man and he’s not fooling around he also wants to be in love. he’s back on tinder I told him about my Aries and that I am not sure what will happen. I would really like to be friends regardless of anything and go on adventures with him. Obviously I am a little mix up and it looks like I am not letting the Aquarius go but most important for me now is being friends and get to know someone and I am 54yo and only realize this in the last year. Thanks again Anna
Hi Annie!
I think friendship is the perfect thing for now until you truly know and feel what you want. I am honored you turn to my advice for each sign. I appreciate you and your feed back as well as your experiences. I’m sure some other ladies can relate. Blessings to you and yours!