How long will an Aries man ignore you after a breakup? Is there no way to rouse his passion again when the relationship becomes stale? If questions like this plague you, you may be on the verge of making a critical mistake.
Aries men are confusing, their mixed signals can make you give up before you’ve truly had the chance to fulfill your destiny. But strategically following the No Contact Rule with an Aries man can turn your relationship around in no time.
It’s what I advise women to do when an Aries man won’t commit.
If you’re new here, I’m Anna Kovach, and as a relationship astrologer with over two decades of experience, I can assure you I’ve learned some of the tricks to unlocking an Aries man’s heart.
Even the most stubborn Aries guy can’t resist this technique.
1. Make Him Make the First Moves
One of the most challenging thing for women who love Aries men is patiently holding off on making the first move. Resist the urge to act on impulse and an Aries man will eventually come around. You can get an Aries man to become more passionate about you if you empower him to make the first move.
Aries men are passionate and intense. They need to feel like they are in charge. If you have a “Type A” personality and are used to setting the tone in your relationships, this can turn an Aries man off. He wants to be the one to take charge.
If you ignore an Aries man until he chases you, he’s more likely to become obsessed with you.
2. Don’t Initiate Conversation
It may seem obvious, but if you want to follow a No Contact Rule with an Aries man over text, avoid initiating conversation. Don’t text him first and let him call you, even if this means you don’t hear from him for a few days or even a few weeks.
If an Aries man breaks up with you and you want to get him back, don’t break the ice. Let him come to you.
Use social media to indirectly get his attention. Post exciting things and make him curious about what you’re up to. An Aries man will inevitably come around if you don’t rush to break the silence.
3. Space Out Text Replies
You don’t have to completely ignore an Aries man while following a No Contact rule- psychology can guide you. One important tactic with a passionate and energetic Aries is to spread out communication.
Make him wait but not too long. If he texts you, don’t reply immediately. Wait a half hour or more unless you are planning something time sensitive.
If you seem too available, an Aries man takes you for granted. He won’t value you as much if you respond quickly every time he texts you. The best result is to vary your reply times. If you always wait, he might get frustrated. But if you always respond within minutes, he becomes bored and assumes you are too eager.
4. Follow the Day-Week-Month Rule
Another way to tempt an Aries man is to follow the Day-Week-Month rule. If you’re on the outs with an Aries man and hoping to get him back, this tactic can lure him back to you in no time. If you’re on the verge of a break up but still together, ignore him for a day at a time to give him space and let him cool off.
If you’ve had an argument and tensions are high, give him a week before connecting again. Follow the No Contact rule for a week, with no communication or minimal communication after he texts or calls you first. Respond enough to let him know you’re still interested but don’t be too eager to reconnect.
If you’re following a No Contact Rule with an Aries man after a breakup, don’t contact him for a month. Let him miss you and in the meantime, use your connection to mutual friends and your public image on social media to make him miss you. Amplify the message that you are investing in yourself and traveling, having adventures, and trying new things.
5. He Needs Time to Miss You
Will an Aries man come back after a breakup? When he likes you but the relationship is in turmoil, leaving an Aries man alone is exactly what you need to trigger his passion again. He just needs time away to remember all the things he likes about you.
As an independent fire sign, Aries can be strong willed and stubborn. Giving him time to himself will naturally invoke his desire to chase you again. He just needs a reminder of why he’s attracted to you.
Chasing him or trying too hard to get his attention is counterproductive. He needs to be away from you to realize how much he misses you.
6. Make Him Jealous From a Distance
If you’re following a No Contact Rule with an Aries guy, make him jealous from a distance. Of course, jealousy can be a double-edged sword with an Aries man. This tactic can backfire, so if you use this technique, reserve it for only when nothing else appears to be working. This should be your last resort.
Use social media to remind your Aries man that you have options. Tag other guys- but not your close friends. You don’t want your Aries to mistrust your friendships with different guys when he gets back together with you. But you do want him to see that there are new guys in your life. Let him see he has competition.
7. Ignore Him Without Offending Him
Ignoring an Aries man can be a fine line. The key is to not offend him by making him think you’re no longer interested. Instead, act busy and let him think you are sought after and involved in many exciting things rather than leading him to conclude that you are not into him.
Now that you understand how to effectively and selectively ignore an Aries man, put these tactics to the test. And when you employ these strategies, drop me a line to let me know how it all works out. I can’t wait to hear from you.
Have you ever tried the no contact rule with your Aries man?
Did he come running back or go radio silent?
Share your experience in the comments! I love hearing your stories and questions!
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With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
