Your Match: Aries Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility

by Anna Kovach, relationship astrologer
Aries man and Virgo woman can find their way but they will have to really open up to each other so that they get a better understanding of one another...

Aries man being a fire sign can tend to scorch the Virgo woman’s earth. They have a couple of areas where they may excel as a couple but they have more that they do not share so this could be very complicated. Can they make it?

The Aries man with Virgo woman soul mate relationship isn’t a very likely one. They can try but they will become exceedingly frustrated with each other and may not want to do the work it will take to make it last. Keep reading for more valuable information on how compatible are Aries man and Virgo woman.


On a physical level, these two are drawn to each other. Aries man is quite attractive and physically fit which is something the Virgo woman will definitely appreciate about him.

Virgo woman is alluring naturally and draws Aries man in with little to no effort. So they hit it off on a physical level, now what? They begin talking and find they have some things in common which helps them try to get to know one another.

They begin figuring out with time that they are actually quite different. Though they enjoy many of the same activities, they cannot seem to connect in important ways.

Virgo women do not trust very easily but somehow she feels she can trust her Aries man. He’s possessive and can be controlling but then again, she can be the same way which actually seems to offset each other with it.

The problem comes when they cannot properly communicate with each other, cannot relate emotionally, and aren’t the best match up sexually either. They’re both very different.

These two can find their way but they will have to really open up to each other so that they get a better understanding of one another. If they do not do this, they may throw the effort out the window thus walking away.


Virgo Woman, Who She Is

Aries Man and Virgo Woman

The Virgo woman is strong, intelligent, organized, detail oriented, and beautiful. She’s the full package for any lucky man who is able to achieve her attention. She’s very picky because she knows what she wants or doesn’t want.

She’s driven with her passions in life, she is likely very successful in whatever she does, and she’s able to be all by herself for the rest of her life if she cannot find a partner who lives up to her standards.

Virgo is the one sign in the zodiac that is able to live alone and be perfectly alright with it. She knows she can handle herself and is fiercely independent. She’s also intensely personal. She doesn’t like anyone getting in her business.

She isn’t exactly looking for the right one but she does realize that it would be nice to have a partner to spend time with and possibly a life too. She’s not so hard that she cannot conceive of having a significant other or even spouse.

When the Virgo woman meets the Aries man, she loves how handsome and sexy he is. She also loves how adventurous he is. The two of them seem to have this in common and is what draws them to find out more.

After she starts to really get to know him, she realizes that while they have camaraderie and trust, they cannot seem to connect on some fundamental things and ultimately don’t see eye to eye.


Aries Man, Who He Is

The Aries man is strong, adventurous, fitness oriented, fun, and loves to get out there to see the world. He’s often involved in sports because it’s an active way to maintain his health and have fun.

Aries man is confident and this often attracts women. He’s seen as the alpha male that is excellent to breed with. He tends to be quite social and just keeps himself busy as to avoid being bored or complacent.

The Aries man wants to find a woman that will be active with him, travel, and enjoy life with. He needs someone who is independent and can hold her own but will let him assist her from time to time.

When the Aries man meets the Virgo woman, he realizes that she’s all he could ever want. However, she’s also so different from him that he feels almost inadequate. She’s gorgeous and so together that it intimidates him.

He will try to keep her love for as long as he can but when they cannot connect on deep emotional levels, they will both find it hard to continue working on a bond. They CAN but they may opt not to.

They communicate very differently and this could cause a rift as well. Finding common ground and working at it will take lots of finesse and time. Neither may be willing to go through the work that has to be put in.


What Works Between Aries Man and Virgo Woman

Clearly the Aries man and Virgo woman have some sort of connection at the beginning. They probably share many activities and enjoy spending time together having fun.

They also seem to find trust between each other. However, there are many things that need some serious fine tuning if these two are to make it. Aries man feels he can trust Virgo woman because she’s intensely loyal.

Virgo woman sees Aries man as someone who will also be loyal to her. However, they both have jealousy, possessiveness, and controlling issues. This is something they have in common but not necessarily a good thing.

These two may have similar values but I wouldn’t expect an Aries man and Virgo woman marriage anytime soon. They have far more that they don’t agree on than what they do.

Unfortunately there isn’t a whole lot else in common between these two. They can focus on their strengths if they truly do fall in love but they also have to work at it and maintain open communication otherwise it won’t work.


What Aries Man Thinks of Virgo Woman, Especially in Bed

In the beginning, the Aries man thinks that the Virgo woman is very alluring with her independent nature, her elegance, her beauty, and her intelligence. He’s drawn in to this very different kind of woman.

He realizes she’s different from any other woman he’s ever known. She’s unique and one of a kind. Each Virgo woman is different in her own way. He realizes that if he wants loyalty, this is the woman who will give that to him.

He’s impressed with her candor and ability to be totally honest with him. He appreciates this about her. In bed however, he may not dig her quite as much. In fact, he’s likely to get his ego bruised by his Virgo woman.

She will tell him what she likes or doesn’t like in the bedroom which may be off putting to him. He wants positive feedback and praise. She isn’t the type to do that unless it’s authentic.

Virgo woman may tell him how she wants it done or where he needs to improve and he’ll definitely be quite hurt or even get pissed off. Either way, they find that they aren’t very compatible in the bedroom so Aries man is wondering if he should just move on or not.

He’ll struggle with the pros and cons with her as she’s amazing but she’s not exactly what he wants or needs. Maybe she is but he’s so stubborn that he’d prefer a woman who is meeker.


Aries Man and Virgo Woman Problems

Aries man and Virgo woman

I’ve already sort of touched on this through the article so far. The two have more not in common than they do in common. I hope that makes sense here. They tend to have various problems that may make it very difficult.

Aries man is VERY physical while Virgo woman reserves her sexuality and prefers quality over quantity. This is the main thing that causes a rift between them. She’s also very critical and knows what she likes.

If Aries man isn’t giving her what she wants, she will critique him and he’ll definitely not dig that at all. That being said, they aren’t very compatible with the sexual department which to an Aries man, it’s crucial.

Virgo woman finds other life values far more important or priority than sex. Aries man is the opposite. He finds intimacy and sexuality very high up on the priority list therefore this wall between them is a hindrance.

Virgo woman would have to basically stop criticizing him in the bed and she’d also have to have sex with him more often than she may be comfortable with. Unless they can find some agreement to make such as having sex 2 or 3 times a week.

Aries man wants more, Virgo woman doesn’t care that much. There are exceptions but most Aries men want a lot of sex. She would have to compromise with him about this and she’s so strong willed, she may not want to do that.

These two are also not very good at opening up and really communicating with one another. If they cannot talk and open up, there is no point to them even trying. If they do love each other, they’ll find a way but if they cannot, they won’t.

Emotionally they don’t get each other either. This is part of opening up and baring one’s soul to each other. Neither is really willing to do much of that therefore they will walk on eggshells around one another.


Aries Man and Virgo Woman Breakup

It’s sad to say but most Aries man and Virgo woman relationships are likely to come to an abrupt end. They cannot really understand one another very well, don’t communicate, and don’t fulfill each other sexually.

They have some positive aspects to what they could have and use to strengthen their weak areas but both of them are more likely to say that it’s just not going to work and walk away from each other.

If they unanimously decide together that it’s not working then they can part without any animosity. They aren’t likely to be friends afterward because both would rather just move on.

Are they likely to get back together? I would have to say it’s not likely. They can but they’d have to do something like counseling or find mediation to learn how to really talk to each other.

Unless they can miraculously heal that which went wrong in the first place, they’re more likely to just find other partners to live their lives with. It just depends on how deep the love was.


Final Score

This one is a very difficult match. The Aries man with Virgo woman isn’t a match made in heaven. On a scale of 1 to 10, I give them a 4. That’s being generous really. I never say anything is impossible.

There is always hope if the Aries man has some aspects that make him slightly different than the average Arian type. If that’s the case then the compatibility could change in some way.

Virgo woman will have to decide for herself if he’s “as described” or if he IS one of the ones that are different due to a complementary moon or something that makes him a bit more relaxed.

Either way, these two have a rocky road if they decide to make a go of it. I would predict that many don’t even make it far enough to form a deep relationship. Many will start to date and then figure out that they aren’t compatible and move on.

However, there are exceptions to every rule and each couple will have to decide for themselves if they’re willing to put in the work or if they want to just let it go for the greater good of their lives.

If there is hope, then by all means, work with that and find a way. Just remember, communication is a make or break of any relationship. Hang onto that and find a way if you feel Aries man is the one.

About Author

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5 thoughts on “Your Match: Aries Man and Virgo Woman Compatibility

  1. Hi,
    I am a Virgo woman my Ex was an Aries man. With all do respect I can agree with some of this article but NOT all of it! Especially regarding the “bedroom action”!! I was more into the “bedroom action” than him. In the beginning of the relationship there were NO problems but then things started to change through the relationship process. But this could be because this Aries was holding secrets and NOT open enough with their emotions or even being honest with themselves. Leading the relationship to END!! Oh well his loss, my gain!! Just waiting for my compatible mate to show up!!

    1. I disagree at the bedroom part too. I’m a Virgo woman and my current boyfriend is an Aries man. Well at first 3months he’s totally into quality and quantity in bed but eventually he can’t keep up with what he started and it’s usually our issue aside from his being secretive at times and that he’s not a traveler as I am.
      Tho I am still hopeful we will grow deeper and last longer. But I’m pretty much sure that I can move on if he won’t be able to practice consistency.

  2. Hi Marisol!

    Not all relationships are the same. Not every person is the same either. Virgos have been known to be “closet freaks” and don’t open that treasure chest open until they meet someone worth it. Then all bets are off. Aries can screw things up with secrets for sure. No disagreements there honey. Aries men don’t like opening up much and it makes it hard to relate to them. You’re right, his loss! I wish you all the very best.

  3. I am an aries man, but my woman is a virgo, I really love her and I don’t want her to leave me for any reason please what can I do to save my relationship, because at times I have doubt about her,

    1. Hi Godswill Markson!

      It takes a whole lot of patience for Virgo. What I mean is that a sign like Aries is typically not patient. You have to find patience because without it, it won’t work with Virgo. They are slow, methodical, picky, and hard to read sometimes. If you want to keep her, keep things easy, fun, loyal, and show her you’re the guy for her. You might want to read up on my tips about Virgos. Time and Patience is the recipe for success with Virgo whether male or female.

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