You’ve just met an Aries and are wondering if this man is keeping something from you… Maybe you’ve been dating him awhile and wondering if he has any skeletons in his closet. So, are Aries men secretive?
With their bold and confident personalities, it can sometimes feel like there’s more to an Aries man than meets the eye. While they’re typically open and direct in most aspects of their lives, Aries men can be surprisingly private and secretive when it comes to matters of the heart or their deeper emotions.
Here are some information that could be useful in determining if Aries men are truly secretive or not…
Are Aries Men Secretive?
Aries men are not typically known for being secretive. In fact, they are often direct and outspoken, especially when it comes to their desires and ambitions.
However, there are times when they might hold back, particularly when it comes to deeper emotions or personal struggles. Their independent and adventurous nature can sometimes make them reluctant to share every detail of their inner world.
So, while they aren’t naturally secretive, there are moments when an Aries man may choose to keep certain things to himself.
Why Aries Men Can Be Secretive (And What It Really Means)…
Aries men are often seen as bold and straightforward, but that doesn’t mean they’re always an open book. If you’ve noticed some mysterious behavior, it could be different reasons behind their secrecy.
Let’s explore why an Aries man might hold back and what you can expect when it comes to his more private side…
1. Not a Public Affair
Aries men isn’t exactly secretive per say. It’s more that he doesn’t believe all his business needs to be splayed for the entire world to see. That means he may not say what all he’s doing on social networks.
That doesn’t mean that he’s not being honest. It means that there are some things in his life that he feels should be private and special. If everyone always knows; it’s less special.
So while you may be ok with changing your relationship status and telling the world how much you love your Aries guy; he may not respond in like. He may not do this on your behalf.
Understand that he doesn’t want the world to know every single thing about his life. It’s not that he’s hiding you from his friends, family, or other women. It’s just that he feels it’s no one’s business.
2. Maybe He’s Not Ready…
If your Aries man isn’t talking about you to others, it could be because he’s simply not ready for that level of commitment yet. Aries men are all about independence and freedom, so they won’t fully open up until they feel secure in the relationship.
But here’s the catch: While he’s keeping things to himself, he’ll still want to know where you are, who you’re with, and what you’re doing. It’s a bit of a double standard — he wants the freedom to do what he pleases, but he expects the same kind of accountability from you.
The best approach here? Don’t dwell on it. Worrying about what he’s doing when you’re not around will only upset you, and there’s not much you can do until he’s ready to commit.
Once your Aries man decides to commit, you can set some boundaries for the relationship. But be careful — pressuring him to commit before he’s ready will only push him away. He needs to feel the relationship is his choice…
Here’s more on how to get an Aries man to commit.
3. Getting to Know You
While he takes the time to get to know you, he’ll keep it all on the down low. Until he is sure that he wants to be in a relationship with you, he feels it’s not appropriate to mention it to anyone.
If he is talking to more than one female, he’ll also not speak up about this. The only caveat here is if you met him under circumstances that are following the friend with benefit arrangement. Learn more about FWB with an Aries man here.
Of course if that isn’t what you want, you’ll need to make this very clear with him. Otherwise, he may assume it’s ok and be seeing other women on the side while he’s getting to know you.
4. Skeletons From the Past
Like everyone else that walks this earth, an Aries man has some skeletons. Not a person alive is devoid of a past. The thing is: how important is it for you to know? I’d only ask him things that would be significant to you and what your future could be.
There are some things that he can and should be allowed to keep to himself. Unless you want to open up a bag of judgment, you may want to just ask what is pertinent. Here’s more on how to get an Aries man to open up.
So, in terms of relationships, you may ask an Aries man only what may be important to know moving forward. Like if the relationships ended badly, was he hurt, etc… Knowing only the facts will help you cultivate a healthier relationship with him.
My Final Thoughts…
So, is an Aries secretive? They can be, yes. But most of the time, it’s just that they don’t feel the world needs to know their every move. However, there are times where he is juggling ladies and well, he’s not going to open up about that.
Although if you were to ask him if he’s seeing anyone, he may very well be honest with you and tell you: “Well, I am sort of but nothing serious”. Then you have your answer and thus it’s not a secret.
He’s not going to offer it up though unless you ask him. So that may be a good policy if you’ve met an Aries and are wondering if you have a possibility with him in the future. Ask him if he’s seeing anyone and see what he says.
Aries typically do not lie so either he’ll tell you the truth or he’ll shrug it off. By shrugging, he’s keeping his secret and yet not lying. It’s messed up, I know. They’re complicated sometimes…
Everyone has secrets. Does that make the Aries man secretive? Not this sort of thing. Everyone is capable of being secretive but the only thing that is relevant for him is that until you’re 100% in a commitment with you; he doesn’t have to tell you everything.
You may also want to read:
Mixed Signals From An Aries Man: Why Is He Confusing Me?
How to Keep an Aries Man Interested (7 Effective Ways)
Is Sleeping With An Aries Man On The First Date A Mistake?
If You Listen To Dating Coaches, You Can Lose Your Aries Man Forever…
Over the years, I’ve had a lot of my clients send me advice they got from dating coaches.
They wanted to know if it would work with their Aries man.
And I literally wanted to scream with frustration.
Why???
Because most dating advice definitely will NOT work if you use it with Aries.
You see, Aries men are VERY different from men of other signs.
And if you use standard dating advice with Aries, it can backfire.
He might disappear forever and you’ll never hear from him again.
I don’t want that to happen to you.
Especially when it is SO easy to draw him to you and get him to connect deeply with your heart.
You just need to know the specific phrases to tell him…
So he’ll NEVER want to lose you.
He’ll be wrapped around your finger…
And it won’t take him long to put a ring on that finger either.
These phrases are the EXACT thing you need to turn everything around with him.
So… for heaven’s sake… DON’T listen to normal dating coaches!
They give out the same advice for ALL men… which is absolutely insane.
Because your wonderful Aries is NOT like other men… at ALL.
So go here now to find out the specific things your Aries man needs to hear to melt his heart.
Sending you love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
