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10 Things An Aries Man Loves To Hear From A Woman

Hello, my lovely ladies! Aries men are darlings! These guys are super straightforward, honest, and bold! This is the type of guy who will risk anything for love because he knows it is worth it. 

There is nothing that is quite as fun as a whirlwind romance with a passionate and affectionate Aries man. This guy definitely ticks all of the boxes when it comes to exhilarating love.

However, an Aries man has many expectations in his romantic relationships. He has high standards and wants to be with a woman who can fulfill all of his impressive desires. 

In this article, you are going to learn exactly what you need to do to make an Aries man fall for you. There are so many things an Aries man loves to hear from a woman and I am going to tell you exactly what these things are. 

Are you ready to find out all of the secrets that make an Aries man weak at the knees? Then continue to find out exactly what you need to know what to say to an Aries man to make him yours:

Do Aries Men Like Compliments?

Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac and is ruled by Mars as well. Being the first sign of the Zodiac is pretty indicative of what the mindset is of an Aries man. He wants to be first, the best, and always win. 

And then to add being ruled by Mars on top of all of this makes it pretty clear that Aries men love compliments. Mars is the planet of passion, war, aggression, and competition. Mars has to win and be the best! 

So the way to an Aries man’s heart is really by giving him compliments and telling him how much you like him and why you like him. This will make him feel amazing and make him want to keep you around for as long as possible. If you boost an Aries man’s ego, you will make him melt and fall for you quickly! Just remember to be genuine. 

10 Things An Aries Man Wants To Hear From A Woman

1. “Can You Please Help Me?”

An Aries man loves a damsel in distress. It makes him feel needed and like it is his duty to help and protect her whenever she is in need. An Aries man loves hearing that he is needed. 

Aries men are genuine suckers for women that need help. That’s not to say he wants a needy woman but; he does still want to feel needed. So to get the attention or love of an Aries man; you’ll need to ask him for help.

Even if it’s something small that he can fix at your place, help you with your car, or something that normally a “man” would do. Even if you know how to fix it yourself; asking him will get him to feel useful.

You can also ask him for advice or possible solutions to any issue you may have. Allowing him to help you in some way will make him feel as though you find him useful.

Opening up this door could allow him to get to know you a little bit more and possibly find you interesting. Try not to ask for help too often though as it’ll then seem as though you’re too needy.

2. “I Am Really Interested In…”

An Aries man loves an interesting woman who can hold a conversation and is interested in a variety of topics. This guy can’t stand it when a woman never has anything to say, he finds this quite boring. 

So when an Aries man hears what a woman is interested in, it makes him feel really excited and curious. He wants to know more! This is exactly the type of woman he has always wanted to be with. 

An Aries man will like a woman that knows what she’s talking about. If you’re into studying certain courses or maybe even a teacher; you’ll be able to share with him your knowledge.

Maybe you’re into Astronomy and walk to tell him about the stars; he’ll love knowing what information you have to share with him. Perhaps the two of you could talk about the common interests you have or can teach each other what your prior experience is.

Aries loves intellectual conversations. While he loves intelligence; try not to ever come off as a know it all or better than all. He will see this as phony and thus not attractive. Aries men love “real” women.

That means he wants a woman who is herself, someone who lifts people up rather than puts them down, someone who is loving, caring, and wants to help other people.

If you’re not that type of person; perhaps you need a bit more work before you try to settle down with an Aries man. If you are this type of woman though; you’ll be able to keep him happy.

All in all the Aries man wants a well-rounded woman to be his partner. Talk to him about what matters to you, ask him for help from time to time, and be your own caring self.

3. “I’ll Talk To You Later, I Am Seeing Some Friends”

This sentence is honest music to an Aries man’s ears. This guy loves an independent woman. Someone who has her own life and isn’t dependent on him to make it exciting for her. 

It drives him crazy and creates a feeling of desire within him when he knows that he doesn’t have her full attention all of the time. Be busy, and have your own life and it will definitely drive your Aries man wild!

While some Aries may get jealous; he will need to understand that personal space and time are very important for you two to make it for the long run. In order for him to miss you at all or for you to miss him; you need time apart.

This does not by any means indicate you should constantly go out with your friends. This just means that once a week or once every couple of weeks spending time apart is a good thing.

At first, he may not like it but once he gets used to it; he’ll appreciate the time he has to himself and will be appreciative. This produces trust, happiness, and comfort between you two.

Showing him that you’re still independent will make him feel less needed which is a good thing. He doesn’t mind being needed sometimes but he doesn’t want to be needed all the time.

4. “You Are So Amazing At This”

An Aries man is pretty easily impressed, if you tell him he does something really well, it will only make him want to do it more. This guy seriously loves a compliment. It makes him feel so good. 

Whenever you see an Aries man excelling at something he does, be sure to mention it because it is important to him to feel like he is doing well at something. And he especially likes getting admiration for this.

This type of phrase will work on just about any sign known to man. I mean everyone wants to hear praise every now and then. Aries men are no different. He knows full well that he’s good at what he does.

In fact, this guy has plenty of self-pride. However; you acknowledging his talents or abilities will mean you’ve noticed and that means a lot. This is one way you can effectively flirt with him.

He’ll be so caught up in the moment that he may take you into his arms promptly and proceed to seduce you. Are you ready to be swept up? Throw him some compliments.

He’ll show you his gratitude in the best way he knows how.  His gratitude tends to be mainly physical. However; if you end up being his lady love; he’ll also want to help you achieve your goals in life.

Either way, telling him how great he is at whatever it is he does; will show your care for him. Almost every human being wants to hear praise, compliments, or that they’re talented.

Aries men take pride in their hard work, their hustle, and their ability to get stuff done. Start with that and turn him into putty in your hands, ladies! This guy is a pushover for some compliments.

If you want to get in bed with him quick like the wind; tell him how magnificent he is sexually. He’ll be ready to show you some samples of what he can do that may be even better.

5. “I Feel So Safe And Secure With You”

There is a fierce protector in every Aries man in the world. These guys feel like it is their duty to take care of others. When an Aries man cares about you, he will go to the ends of the Earth to make sure that you are okay. 

When you let an Aries man know that you feel really safe and protected around him, it is really gonna ignite a fire within him and make him want to always be there for you. 

This really activates the caveman warrior inside of any Aries man. All he’s ever wanted to hear is that his special someone feels so safe with him. It is a primal thing for an Aries man. 

If you want to make him weak at the knees, this is all you ever have to say to him. 

6. “You Are Such A Good Teacher”

Leadership comes quite naturally to an Aries man. He finds it easy to get others to sit up and listen to what he has to say. That being said, he makes a really good teacher because he can explain himself quite well. 

An Aries man will always happily help you or show you how to do something. Learning to do things comes quite easily to an Aries man, so it is meaningful to him to show others how to do things he is good at. 

While he naturally is drawn to being a big help; he will desire for you to actually learn something from it. If he comes out to change your flat tire; it’s best if you stick around and learn how to do it.

Next time you have to change your own tire; you’ll be able to tell him “thank you for teaching me how to change my tire; it really saved a lot of time and money” or something like that.

He’ll feel like a hero yet again for teaching you a valuable life lesson that helps you to be strong and able to do things for yourself when he can’t be around. It gives him security to know you can do it.

Next time he tries to show you how to do something; pay attention. If you don’t and you take the lazy route on the couch with your nail file; you’ll end up alone later on.

7. “These Are My Goals And Ambitions In Life”

An Aries man is goal orientated and ambitious in his life. There is much he wants to achieve in his life, but he gets really excited when he hears the woman in his life is equally ambitious. It is his dream to be in a power couple. 

Aries; just like Taurus, Gemini, and Aquarius; are very driven men. The more he hears about what your plans for your life are; the more impressed he’ll be. While he likes to take care of his woman; he wants to know you are still driven.

He wants to see that you’re not going to just be lazy and want to stay at home all the time. The ideal match or mate for the Aries man is going to be someone who will do what they have to make their dreams come true.

It may surprise you to know that once he knows what you’re after; he may want to help you get there! So again here is a win/win situation. If your dream is to start your own business; he may know how to do that.

If he doesn’t then if he’s into you; he may invest in your business or help you get it started with fantastic advice. You never know what this man may have up his sleeve.

It’s a big turn-on for an Aries man to hear that a woman has desires of her own that she’d like to accomplish in her life.

8. “Let Me Take Care Of This”

Although I previously said that Aries men love a damsel in distress, and he definitely does. He also likes it when a woman can take care of herself and is capable and independent. It really turns him on and makes him excited. 

This may sound contradictory but the Aries man loves strong women who can hold their own. This sounds funny because he likes the damsel in distress as well. The thing to remember is that he wants a balance.

He does want to help you but in some cases; he wants you to learn and take care of your own problems as well. Such as if he fixes something the first time and shows you how; if you don’t learn; he will figure you’re too needy.

So let him show you how the first time; take notes and learn so that next time the toilet won’t flush properly; you know how to take off the lid and fix it like he did the first time.

Again; he doesn’t mind helping. However; he wants a strong woman that has the capability of learning and doing things for herself and not constantly needing him. He wants to feel needed and useful but not a doormat. See the difference?

Never take advantage of the Aries man. He won’t take you seriously if you try to use him too much. He will at that point pull back and become cold to you. In some cases, he may tell you verbally what he thinks.

In trying to draw an Aries man in though; you’ll want to give him the impression that you may need help now and then but you’d like to learn so you can do it on your own.

9. “I Love To Go On Adventures”

An Aries man is quite the daredevil and loves to go on all sorts of adventures in his life. He wants to experience everything life has to offer and is very open to exploring the world. 

One of his dreams is just to live out of a backpack or a suitcase and just travel the world going from one place to the next. This wanderlust really appeals to him as a man. 

Deep down an Aries man definitely desires a partner who is willing to go along with him on this as well. Tell your Aries man that you love adventures and that you want to see the world with him. 

He will honestly think of you as his perfect partner because he is so used to women always wanting him to settle down and commit. And this is just fighting his own nature. 

10. “These Are The Sports I Enjoy”

Many women do not like sports. However; many Aries men love sports. Whether you love them or hate them; he’s likely to be into them. That means you’ll need to learn what you can.

Even if you never plan to watch sports with him; learning even a little bit about the sport he loves the most would make him look at you very differently. Sporty guys love girls that know some sports.

This could mean reading up in some magazines or online about his favorite football team so that you can impress him by telling him what you read. Even if he already knows; he’ll see this as cute.

The fact that you took time to learn something you don’t know anything about just to have an interesting conversation with him will make him feel very special. Just don’t be phony about it.

What I mean by that is; that it’s ok to let him know it’s not your cup of tea but you don’t mind sometimes reading up on some things or perhaps kicking back to watch a game with him.

How to Compliment an Aries Man? – 3 Irresistible Ways To Compliment Him

You might be racking your brain on how to actually compliment an Aries man… You don’t want him to get scared off or not think you are being genuine with him. The most important thing is to be yourself and don’t just say something for the sake of saying it. An Aries man hates this!

Keep reading to find out how to compliment him:

1. Be Bold

Fortune favors the brave, or so they say… But with an Aries man, this definitely rings true. An Aries man is straightforward, honest, and definitely very bold. This is a man who takes risks when it comes to love. 

If you want to really impress an Aries man, just be bold about it. Come right out and say it. Don’t be scared. An Aries man is always going to respect you for just saying it like it is. This is what he wants! 

Say exactly what is on your mind, there is no point in holding back! 

2. Compliment What He Is Wearing

An Aries man is definitely a little vain, and likes to look good! He especially likes it when a woman compliments him on his looks. There is nothing that makes an Aries man happier than when a woman compliments him on what he is wearing. 

This is an instant boost of confidence for him and he’ll walk around like the cat who caught the cream. It is so important to make your man feel good about himself because he will start to associate positive feelings with you. 

Be sure to always point out that you think he looks attractive. Make him know that you desire him and that you think he is the sexiest man you have ever seen. Trust me, ladies, this goes so far. 

3. Be Sincere About Something Special You Notice About Him

One of the best compliments you could ever give an Aries man is something that he thinks probably goes unnoticed. Try and find something very specific to him that you like about him. 

Something only you would notice. This will make him realize that you see the deeper version of him and that you recognize his substance. If people usually compliment him on his looks, compliment him on his smarts.

Do something different and stand out from the rest. Your Aries man will definitely notice this about you and start to see you in a different, more positive light. 

BTW, What Do Aries Men Like To Talk About?

Aries men are pretty multi-faceted, they’re not as straightforward as they may seem. So here is a list of topics you can bring up in conversation with your Aries man:

  • Sports, exercise
  • Hopes and fears
  • Future ambitions and dreams
  • Food
  • Travel
  • Adventures
  • Your greatest achievements
  • Music
  • Conspiracy theories
  • Sex

There is so much you can discuss with an Aries. He’s definitely into a variety of subjects so don’t be afraid to talk to him about literally anything!

How Well Do You Know Your Aries Man’s Love Language

An Aries man in love is something you definitely need to experience once in your life. He is so affectionate and will make you feel like the most special girl on earth. 

He has a way of zoning in on you and making you feel like only the two of you exist. He has quite a full-on way of expressing his love. He will give you so much of his time and his energy. This just happens to be his love language. 

As an Aries man, he is one of those people who really need words of affirmation to feel loved and appreciated by their lover. They want to hear that they are these amazing men. That they are perfect. 

An Aries man needs to know that their partner could never live without them and that they are the greatest person on earth. With any Aries, they feel like they can be their most authentic self when someone just accepts them for who they are at their core. 

All an Aries man truly wants is acceptance because they realize that their personalities are quite out there and not everyone can always handle it. Aries men are direct people, and so they tend to take things that others say at face value, further emphasizing the weight of your loving words. You have the ability to melt him with what you have to say.

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Affirming words mean more to an Aries ma than you could possibly understand. An Aries man tends to get quite riled up when someone criticizes them. This makes him want to prove himself more because an Aries man just cannot settle to be anything other than the best. 

Words of affirmation should be used to tell an Aries man what they have done right, not to scold him or criticize him. Words of affirmation will make your Aries man feel really loved and like you are proud of him. So lay it on thick, but of course be genuine, when you are with your Aries because he is good at sensing inauthenticity. 

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Wishing you all the luck,

Your friend and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach



2 thoughts on “10 Things An Aries Man Loves To Hear From A Woman

  1. Hi Anna,

    I really love your articles about the genders under the zodiac signs.

    I’m an Aries woman and I would love to see your articles about my zodiac sign

    1. HI Akua!

      I will have the women’s articles and books out when I can. It may be a while as I have many projects brewing currently. I will tell you this, my articles on the guys and my books are both very similar to the women’s. Women have hormones and so you have some differences but you should check out my books sometime and see what you think. To learn more about Aries man, please read my book “Aries Man Secrets”.

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