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How to Show an Aries Man You’re Interested Without Pushing Him Away

It’s no secret that an Aries man loves an assertive woman. 

As a cardinal fire sign, the Aries man needs a partner that goes after what she wants and know how to thrive in her own power. He is turned on by her independence. 

However, as the sister sign of the harmonious Libra, the Aries man is also a lover of balance.

He runs from anyone that he believes disrupts his free lifestyle and inner peace. 

When it comes to pursuing the Aries man, it is best to be observant of his actions and follow his lead. 

He likes a woman who knows how to give and take directions — someone who can adapt quickly, and go with the flow. 

At times it can be confusing about how to let an Aries man know you’re interested without coming off as too needy or aggressive.

However, as a relationship astrologer, I’ve found there are simple ways to express interest in the Aries man. You can be playful and flirtatious while still respecting his boundaries (and without scaring him off!). 

Keep on reading and I will share with you four easy ways that you can show your interest in the Aries man without pushing him away. 

4 Ways to Show an Aries Man You’re Interested Without Pushing Him Away

1. Avoid The Drama 

One of the quickest ways to push the Aries man away is to bring unnecessary drama and conflict to his life. 

As a fire sign, the Aries man is naturally active and when it comes to a romantic partner, the he is attracted to the woman who is free spirited and peace-centered. He’s not looking for someone who is going to push his buttons.

So, find healthy ways to express your excitement for your relationship. 

Rather than blowing his phone up with nonstop texts, be straight forward and tell him that you’re thinking of him, or tell to call when he feels like talking or has extra time.

Always be direct with your communication. Never beat around the bush. 

2. Spend Time One-On-One

Spending One on One Time With An Aries Man

When it comes to building a connection with an Aries man, you need to keep things simple and put the focus on spending one-on-one time together.  

As a born individualist, although the Aries man has many friends, he enjoys spending his free time with his family and exploring his interests alone. 

Therefore, one of the easiest ways to show interest in your Aries man without pushing him away is by maximizing the time you spend with him on your own. 

At the beginning of your dating period, avoid spending time with large groups and double dates with friends. 

Plan outings or dates during time blocks where you both have time to turn off your phones and concentrate on each other. 

This way, you can get to know each out without distractions or outside influences. 

3. Let Him Take The Lead 

One prominent characteristic of the Aries man is his innate ability to be hot and cold. 

One day he may be open to your flirtatious texts and physical advances, and the next day he will act like you are just friends or won’t answer your calls. 

The best way to avoid the hot and cold fiasco, is to follow the Aries man’s pace. 

Let him take the lead. 

Set your expectations and intentions at the beginning of the dating relationship, and let that be that. 

From there, go with his pace. 

If he’s chatty, chat with him. If he’s playful, play with him. If he’s flirty, flirt with him. If he’s feeling affectionate and wants to get close and you want that as well, then be affectionate with him. 

Show the Aries man that you are willing to be an equal partner and meet him halfway. 

4. Be Open To Having a Good Time

Be Open To Having a Good Time With An Aries Man

Above all else, the Aries man likes to have a good time and enjoys a good adventure. So, the quickest way to lose his interest and push him away is to be a stick in the mud. 

If you are someone who doesn’t like to take risks, travel and explore new activities, the Aries man is simply not the one for you. 

However, if you are someone who loves to go on adventures and experience the many wonders of life, then let the Aries man know. 

When the time comes to go on a date or take a trip, use it as an opportunity to introduce the Aries man to something new. 

Teach him something, stimulate his mind, show him a little of what you will bring to his life. 

Read next: 9 Things You NEED to Know About Aries Men (Good, Bad, and Ugly)

Final Thoughts 

Now that you know four ways to show interest in the Aries man without pushing him away, what will you change about your relationship? 

Do you think the Aries man is pulling away? If so, doing any of the above actions will help with turning things around. 

If you are looking for more advice or guidance about building a healthy and fulfilling relationship with an Aries man, check out my guide Aries Man Secrets

Sending you love on your journey. 

Your sister and friend, 

Anna Kovach 



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