The Aries man has a very quick mind and is always busy. So, what are the best kind of texts to send such a busy bee? I can help you with that one, ladies!
I want you to know the 6 mistakes to avoid when texting an Aries man, so please make sure you read this article through to the end. You won’t regret it and hopefully you’ll know how to keep your Aries man happy and in love.
6 Mistakes To Avoid When Texting An Aries Man
1. Long & Repetitive Messages
As I mentioned, Aries is a very busy man. Not only does he have a lot going on in the outside world, but he’s got a lot going on in his head too. He doesn’t like having to stop what he’s doing to read and decipher lengthy text messages.
He also hates it when you think he’s ignoring you and text him the same thing you already text him. He will see this as an irritation. This may make him not want to text you back.
You need to keep your messages short and sweet. Sticking to the point is essential, because he doesn’t want to discuss things via text message. He would rather do that over the phone or in person.
Do you best to hold out on anything important for the next time you see him or talk to him.
Of course, if you really need to talk to him over something important, you can send him a message telling him you need to talk to him. He will let you know when he can.
2. It’s Too Fluffy Or Drawn Out
The Aries man can get quite annoyed with you sending texts just to say hello. He isn’t very patient and will wonder why you took the time to send him a message that just says “hi.”
I don’t know why that bothers him so much, but so it goes with Aries men. They are picky with what you can send them or not send them. He sees “hello or hi” as a waste of his time.
He figures it’s implied since you’re messaging him. Saying hi just isn’t necessary in his eyes.
On the flipside, if you have something else to say like: “hey, do you want to go get some ice cream with me?” he will accept this and be grateful that you thought of him.
If he asks you a question, keep things simple by giving him a yes or a no. Only give him an explanation if he asks you for one. I cannot express this enough, but he is impatient!
When you try to explain why you cannot go over to his house tonight and it’s all drawn out, he’s not going to be interested in it – rather annoyed or uninterested.
With that, he may not respond to your message if you do give out some long, drawn-out text about why you can’t come over.
He wants you to just answer yes or no in most cases. Again, if he wants to know the reason, he will ask, otherwise leave it out.
3. Teasing Him Or Giving Him A Hard Time
Until he really understands and embraces the banter between you two, he will not like it if you make a joke at his expense. He takes it seriously and he will definitely take offense.
You don’t want to tease him either, because he will see this as you waging a verbal war with him. He may lose his patience or he may become angry enough to stop talking to you.
The Aries man has a short fuse, and they also hold grudges very well. You don’t want it to get to that point over a text that was just meant to be a joke!
He’s serious kind of guy. While he may take ribbing well from his best friends, he won’t take it well from the woman whom he’s trying to build a relationship with.
4. Holding On To An Expectation
You can see this as sort of a warning. If you text an Aries man and he doesn’t text back in the time you think he should, you will be the one disappointed.
The truth is, sometimes he won’t text back or will hold off until later. If he has other things on his mind, is busy, or just doesn’t feel like it; you won’t hear from him.
If you have any expectation, you’ll be bummed. It’s actually better to not have expectation so that when he does respond, it will be a pleasant surprise.
Remember, if you’re not texting important stuff then there is no reason for him to have to reply UNLESS you have asked him a question.
Yes, then you have a reason to expect an answer. In many cases, Aries men will respond when they’re asked a question unless they don’t know the answer or do not like the person asking.
This will especially be true if you ask him a question he needs to think about before he answers. Then him answering later should be acceptable.
I know Aries men can be frustrating with a lack of response but if you are patient, you’ll see why he’s dragging his feet.
When you’re in person you can certainly ask him why and what it’s about. You should get an answer out of him that will explain it all.
5. Texting Without Purpose
To put it simply: Aries men really don’t like texting. This is something that you probably have already gathered while reading this! They have busy lives and busy minds. It’s probably best you don’t text him unless there is something going on or if you need to ask him something.
I understand the need to do this when you first start out and certainly if you’re in a long-distance relationship with an Aries man. You want to build a connection.
If texting isn’t working well for you, then you may try to encourage him to video chat, talk on the phone, or talk in person.
When possible, try to save conversations for another time. When it can’t wait then you need to tell him: “let’s talk.”
Aries men can tend to see text messages as a hassle or waste or his time. He’ll do it though if he has no other option. Try calling him instead and see what you get from him.
6. Texting When He’s Asked You Not To
In the case that he has decided it’s over or that he’s just not interested, he will also start ignoring your texts.
If you continue to do this, he will get so annoyed with you then he will block you from his life in all ways. This means the phone, social media, or any other way.
Some women want to reach out when something has gone bad with their Aries man, and I can assure you that it’s a mistake!
If you need closure or you want to get him back, you’ve got to have some serious patience because if you start blowing up his phone with texts, he will blow you off.
He already views lengthy run-on texts as super irritating. He feels you’re using up his time and that’s a strike against you.
When he’s angry, don’t text him. Let him cool off so that he can come back around to you when he’s ready. If you text him, it’s going to piss him off.
Respect his feelings and know that when or if he wants to talk to you, he will call or text you himself.
One Last Thing…
Aries men are typically not too into their cell phones unless they are bored and having nothing else to do. They like to be very active. If that’s the case, then he may not see your message until he’s done.
When he tells you he is busy, believe him and try not to take it to heart. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you; it just means that text messages are not his priority.
Now that you have a few things not to do via text, you should be capable of having a healthy relationship with your Aries when it comes to text messages. Know that the best way to get a hold of him is a phone call or in person.
If you can only text due to distance, just know he will see the message when he finally does check his phone and if it’s something that captures his attention, he’ll message you back.
Be patient with your Aries man when it comes to texting. He’s not the best at it and he has very little patience with long messages or messages that are not important.
Just remember this is who he is and if you can accept him “as is” then you’ll have a fantastically passionate man who wants to spend time with you as long as you’re willing to be active with him.
I truly hope this helps you get a better understanding of what not to text your Aries man. Now that you know, I wish you all the success in the Universe!
And if you want to learn what are the perfect things to say or the biggest things to avoid, here is my guide Aries Text Magic that covers all this ground and more.
>> Click here and learn how to command his attention in subtle and effective ways.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,