Are you banging your head against the wall because your Aries man is constantly losing focus on the relationship? Are you unsure of how to keep him totally interested and engaged in your romance together? How can you create the best atmosphere in the relationship to keep them committed and interested?
I’m really excited to help you out with this, love. I’m Anna Kovach, a Relationship Astrologer with years of experience under my belt. I’ve seen what type of relationship an Aries thrives in and I’ve learned a few key things from paying attention to these trends.
It’s not easy to keep the Aries man interested – but it’s certainly not impossible. Once you understand the core nature of the Aries, you can use that information to your advantage. You have the ability to change the vibe of the relationship to perfectly match what your Aries man needs.
If you’re as excited as I am to dive into what makes the Aries man tick in a committed relationship, then you’ve got to read on and find out my five key tips that can keep him engaged and interested in you for the long haul.
5 Reasons Why Aries Men Stay Committed (And Interested)
1. They’re Stimulated
Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac and they’re represented by the infancy stage of life. If you’ve ever spent time around a baby, then you know that they need near constant entertainment. Aries doesn’t need you to jingle keys in front of them to stick around, but they definitely need something new and excited around every corner to stay engaged in a relationship.
The Aries man is easily bored, which is partly why they have a reputation for being a serial dater. When they’ve learned all of one woman’s tricks then they are off to see what else they can discover. They really need someone who has many sides to their personality in order to be satisfied.
You can also keep an Aries around if you go out of your way to keep the relationship fresh and exciting. The Aries needs to have a new adventure to look forward to every day, in love or otherwise. Taking up a fun and adventurous hobby together like geocaching or Pokémon Go can create excitement for an Aries.
2. They’re Allowed To Express Passion
Aries is ruled by Mars, a hot and fiery planet. Just like the planet, Aries can find themselves turning red occasionally. They are passionate about what they believe in and they will stand up for it. The Aries might piss a lot of people off, but man, they will not hide their true opinion.
Aries doesn’t feel lukewarm about many things. They either have zero interest or are totally engaged. They will stay committed and interested in a partnership that allows them to go into full rant mode once in a while. Aries really needs someone who will listen to their spicy takes without consequences.
If you can provide the Aries with a safe space to unleash his true inner fire, then you’ve got a much higher chance of keeping him around for the long run. Like they say, if you can’t stand the heat then get out of the kitchen!
3. Their Partner Isn’t Easily Offended
One thing about an Aries is that they are like toddlers in many ways. Curious, excitable, and unpredictable! They are also brutally honest. I think we’ve all facepalmed over a toddler or child’s incredibly blunt statements before.
Aries is also going to say it like it is. If they don’t like your idea then you will know. It’s not that they want to hurt your feelings, rather, they have a deep inclination to be honest.
Aries are ruled by Mars, a planet of war and drive. These concepts don’t fit very well into the idea of social graces. As a result, Aries spilling truth tea all over the place can really grind on many other people’s nerves.
If you can handle the truth then Aries might be your perfect match. They will feel totally relieved that they don’t have to wait for arrows to fly after they speak their mind. They will feel great for being able to share their real opinions with you, something they can’t come by everywhere else.
4. They Can Be Their Authentic Selves
Aries are so straightforward that they cannot be anyone but themselves. They don’t really understand the concept of toning themselves down for others. The way they see it, others should also be themselves. Aries can handle the less savory parts of others, so why can’t they handle him?
Aries wants to be able to be mad, sad, happy, and everything else without worrying about how their partner will perceive them. This is difficult to come by since many people take what they Aries says and does personally.
Instead of letting your feathers be ruffled, consider thinking of them as a child. Would you tell a child to be anything but who they are? I hope not! Aries has a naïve side to them that hopes that they’ll receive that level of understanding. If you can offer that to them then you might have the Aries for life. Someone so understanding is hard to come by.
Read next: How Does an Aries Man Act When He’s in Love?
5. The Relationship Is Just Challenging Enough
Aries do like things to be quick, but they also enjoy a challenge. They really appreciate winning and coming out on top… there is no greater thrill to them! No one will give it their all to win like an Aries will.
If you want to keep an Aries engaged then you have to make them feel like they haven’t “won” yet. The Aries who feels like they’ve conquered the challenge of your relationship will simply move on and look for someone new.
Instead, it helps to create relationship goalposts to work toward together. Then create another once you finish one. This will give the Aries the feeling that they aren’t actually finished with the relationship yet. They will feel the need to keep fighting until they have nothing left to fight for.
It’s a good idea to always look for ways that they two of you can improve your relationship. This will appeal to the Aries because it keeps their minds totally absorbed in the relationship.
Aries men are a trip, aren’t they? Which tip do you think will be the most powerful in your arsenal? If you’ve got an idea of what will work best with your guy then share down below how you think you’ll use most!
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,