You’ve been enjoying sexy, passionate text communication with your Aries hunk—but suddenly, things have gone cold. You’re left feeling a little confused and perhaps insecure. These 5 texting tricks will help you turn things around and make him chase you again!
The dating world can be cruel these days—instant messaging has had an enormous impact on romantic communication, for better and for worse!
As a relationship astrologer, I meet a lot of women feeling lost and uncertain how to respond when a guy goes cold via text. It’s hard not to overanalyze every little word and try to guess at the tone of his messages.
The truth is, women are just generally better at communication—face to face and online.
Most Aries men just don’t think about how their texts may be affecting you. It’s a skill they’re learning as they go along.
So, when your Aries guy goes a bit cold, how can you turn it around? How can you reverse the situation without seeming needy? Most importantly, how do you get him to chase you again?
Being pursued by an Aries man is heavenly. Being ignored is not. Let’s look at signs he’s gone cold and some tricks to fix it!
Signs His Interest Is Cooling
He’s Gone Cold or Ghosted You
This is a tough situation! If your Aries guy’s texts are suddenly chilly or have stopped almost completely, this may be a sign that he’s not that into you anymore. But there’s a good chance he’s just wrapped up in his own world, as Aries guys are prone to be.
Try not to leap to conclusions. Maybe he has crazy work pressure, a sick family member, or an ex-wife causing problems for him. It’s not necessarily about you!
His Replies Are Slow
You may be used to super-fast responses from your man. When an Aries guy’s mind is on you, his fingers tend to be quick.
If his replies are much, much slower than usual for a long time (think weeks), this can be a sign that his interest is cooling off.
He Sends One-Word Answers
If he’s no longer sending those flowery and passionate replies, then his attention is certainly distracted. However, he may come back, especially if you use a few of my suggestions!
Sometimes, relationships just go through these “dead” phases—and Aries men are notorious for blowing hot and cold! Be patient.
He Seems Bored
If his messages are no longer snappy and sexy, he could be bored—which is hardly ever, if ever, your fault.
Aries men are just bored easily. It’s part of their nature, and no person can ever keep up with the draining task of keeping them permanently entertained.
So, let yourself off the hook!
He Forgets Plans
It’s quite common for an Aries guy to forget plans—he lives in the moment, after all.
If he’s forgetting plans you made via text time and time again, it could be that his interest is waning. However, in my experience, it’s usually just an inability to schedule!
Don’t get on his case too much about it. He’s probably trying his best!
5 Text Tricks to Get an Aries Man to Chase You (Again)
1. Let Him Chase You
My number one tip to switch things around and get an Aries man to chase you again is… let him chase you.
An Aries man needs to be the one in hot pursuit—you are his prey, and he is the predator.
If you make yourself too easy to catch, he will, without a doubt, get bored and seek more of a challenge. But, if you sit back, make yourself easy to miss, and involve yourself in your own life, he’s going to start wondering about you in the best way.
In other words, mirror him. Never run after him or pester him for a reply. Pace yourself, hold yourself back, and watch the magic happen!
2. Keep Your Replies Short but Sweet
You don’t need to send an Aries guy an essay; he probably won’t even read it.
If you’re hoping to turn things around and get him to chase you again, let your messages be short and as sweet as honey. Flatter him, be light, and most of all, be fun and playful.
He’ll like the fact that you’re not addressing issues over a message. He’s a face-to-face kind of guy, and he often doesn’t have the time to or desire to deal with problems through a screen.
Short and sweet!
3. Let Him Know You’re Very Busy (Even If You Aren’t)
This is a big one. If he does contact you after a long break, be friendly and flirty as usual, but if he asks to see you, say you already have plans. Make yourself someone he needs to chase down to get a moment with.
Again, Aries men need a challenge.
When you’re busy, he will start wondering who else has captured your interest and want to “beat” them to it and “win” you. Aries is the most competitive sign, after all!
4. Never Be Confrontational
Aries is a confrontational sign, but if you turn around and confront him via text, he will become aggressive or just ignore you.
I always advise against the type of message that demands to know what he’s doing, where he’s gone, and when he will be back.
It’ll just get his back up and make him defensive. Save that moment—if you really need to confront him—for when you see him.
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5. Be Honest
And finally, my last—and perhaps most useful—tip is to be honest, ladies.
Sometimes, an Aries guy just doesn’t use his head. He may be completely unaware that you’re even into him, especially if you’ve been cool and hard to catch.
It’s okay to get real with him. You don’t have to make it heavy, either. Just let him know that you think he’s the most awesome, accomplished, handsomest, and smartest man you’ve ever met and that you’d really love to spend more time with him.
You’ll be flattering his ego—which he loves—and he’ll also appreciate your directness. It’s not that you’re being pushy; you’re just being confident. And nothing is sexier than confidence!
Is there an Aries man in your life who you want to turn things around with? Have you found tricks and tips that work for you?
Please feel free to share them with me! I really enjoy hearing all of your experiences. Your comments will be totally anonymous.
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